Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Julia]

Leaving people behind you really love is so hard. But I have to let him go, he doesn't want my love and I don't want only friendship. Now let's move on and see who's the next weirdo I fall in love with ... ;A

[Princess Porcelain]

I have a question.

How do you get girls to like you?

Like, I'm genderfluid, but I act like a guy and look like a girl. And I'm looking for a girlfriend, but I creep out all the girls I know except for like...Two. And they're my friends and they have a girlfriend/boyfriend anyway. I'm panromantic, so I'd totally go out with someone who wasn't a girl, but I don't know, right now I'm looking for a girlfriend. And it's driving me crazy because I scare off every girl I know.

[wicked;]

i'm sorry for being in love with you.

[thunderofthedrum]

I have a question.

How do you get girls to like you?

Like, I'm genderfluid, but I act like a guy and look like a girl. And I'm looking for a girlfriend, but I creep out all the girls I know except for like...Two. And they're my friends and they have a girlfriend/boyfriend anyway. I'm panromantic, so I'd totally go out with someone who wasn't a girl, but I don't know, right now I'm looking for a girlfriend. And it's driving me crazy because I scare off every girl I know.

I'm guessing all of these people go to the same school as you or something, so I'm thinking perhaps you'd need to broaden your scope? Grade schools provide a very limited dating pool and those people may have seen you through some awkward transitions in your life. Meeting people outside of school may help, or if you go to college afterwards you would likely be able to meet far more people there (and of a wider variety).

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do?

Wanting more opinions :3

[❝steℓℓar❞]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do?

Wanting more opinions :3

The best advice I can give is just talk to them and ask.. Or watch their actions towards you and the way they talk when chatting with you. If I were you I would ask but that's my opinion.
And about liking both, I would go for the first one or the one you are closest to. I mean if you end up with one of them, you can still be friends with the other.

[intristin]

Well... I'm having some problems.

So, I was crushing on this guy Bryce. But recently, I asked one of my friends Jenna to ask if he likes me back. The conversation went like this, as she later texted me.
Jenna: "So, do you like (not my real name) Sally?"
Bryce: "(Not my real last name)Smith?"
Jenna: "Yeah."
Bryce: "No, why?"
Jenna: "No reason, I just noticed you were being really flirty with her and thought you would be a good couple."
Bryce: "No, I swear I don't, I like this girl in my school right now."
When I got the text, it was kinda like a punch in the gut. ;-; He asked me a few weeks ago if I was crushing on him, and I told him yes I was. I took that as a sign he liked me as well, so I was flirting with him and I THOUGHT he was flirting back, but apparently he wasn't. ._.

Then there's this guy. I take an online language class and he's in it. We started texting because we were studying together for exams and things like that. But, we don't talk about the language anymore. Now, it's kind of strange...
He's in a different time zone, and I always text him at 8pm, which is 11pm his time. He says that he stays up just to text me at 11 and that if his parents found out, they would be really mad.
He made up this "reaction game" where he sends phrases or emojis to see how I react. As of late, they've been getting weirder and weirder. Here are some examples:
"How you doing babe? (love emojis)"
"So, you free today..? lol (love emojis)"
"I like where this is going (love emojis)"
Then, when we are saying goodbye, I started a joke where I say all these abbreviations; ttyl, bbl, ttfn, etc. For fun, I threw in ily. Now he is saying goodbye to me like this:
"Ily. I mean. O_O I didn't say that. I LOVE POTATOES! Love them potatoes. O_O"
I can't tell if he is being serious or not. He'll throw in an "lol" every once and awhile, but....
This morning, I texted him. He said, "Hey, how about a Thanksgiving house tour?" I agreed on the condition I did one as well. So he sent me a video of his house, and I sent him one of mine.
We seem to be texting a lot for two studying students. He is sending a lot of... weird texts. Is he crushing on me or not? He is constantly sending me texts first, and instantly replying when I text him. Once, we stayed up till 1am his time just talking...
I'm really confused right now. Help, please?

I have new info. We have facetimed each other three times in the past three days. We talk for at least 40 minutes each time. We play truth or dare and have fun with each other. Recently, we had this strange conversation.

This is why we are friends xD

Wow... friend zoned.

o_o Heart break..

Dude you friend zoned me first.

Well I meant like "baes" but that just sounds weird doesn't it?

Oh. Okay. xD

[Candycane_wings]

I like this one person and they know it. The only problem is that they are already dating someone else and I can't tell if they like me back. They are one of my best friends as it is and ever since they found out it seems awkward to me. I really don't know what to do. Help please?

[{.: oliverules :.}]

I like this one person and they know it. The only problem is that they are already dating someone else and I can't tell if they like me back. They are one of my best friends as it is and ever since they found out it seems awkward to me. I really don't know what to do. Help please?

Trust me, I went though the same thing, and it is incredibly awkward. The best bet you have at the moment, I guess is just to wait it out, and if their boyfriend/girlfriend dumps them, comfort your friend. While all of this is going on, and it seems like they'll never break up… I guess just try and live with it…? (Sorry for the terrible advice)

[vulture,]

So, I've been dating this guy (my crush from before) for about a week now. He is amazing, he is a sweetheart and so funny, I couldn't ask for more. He understands that most of my comments are very sarcastic and will often take part in play arguments with me. After being coerced into it, due to my refusal to make a snapchat, he convinced me to send him a selfie with one of my pups. So I grumpily sent him one just to receive that comment that he thinks I am gorgeous. He's done this a few times now and I'm slowly learning how to accept a compliment (yay me!). I also received a text randomly the other day from him saying that I make him happy. I almost melted, it was adorable.

Anyhow, I had some friends over last night and they kept bringing him up. So, of course, I bragged a little, then moved on with my life. But, they kept moaning about how they didn't have a boyfriend and were so upset that I had one while they were all "lonely". Which I take this as them just being whiney since I wasn't actively hunting for a boyfriend, it just kind of happened, but I'm not sure if I should be more wary of what they might do around him. They've been pestering him a lot, I have tried to tell them to knock it off, but my boyfriend likes to see what information about me he can get out of them, and I'm worried that they might ultimately scare him away if he loses interest.