Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Retrouvailles]

Find out his KIK snapchat or Instagram… maybe direct message him on insta and ask him how his trip is then ask if he has KIK or snapchat. It doesn't hurt to talk to him… I learned that by talking to my crush and he ended up coming to a surf contest for me

It'd be kind of stalker-ish (to me) to find out his Kik, Insta, etc with out him giving it out to me. ^•^ I'll wait it out and talk to him Monday.

[surfiez]

Find out his KIK snapchat or Instagram… maybe direct message him on insta and ask him how his trip is then ask if he has KIK or snapchat. It doesn't hurt to talk to him… I learned that by talking to my crush and he ended up coming to a surf contest for me

It'd be kind of stalker-ish (to me) to find out his Kik, Insta, etc with out him giving it out to me. ^•^ I'll wait it out and talk to him Monday.

Well just start with his insta… follow him, then wait a little then ask him how his thanksgiving is going

[Retrouvailles]

Find out his KIK snapchat or Instagram… maybe direct message him on insta and ask him how his trip is then ask if he has KIK or snapchat. It doesn't hurt to talk to him… I learned that by talking to my crush and he ended up coming to a surf contest for me

It'd be kind of stalker-ish (to me) to find out his Kik, Insta, etc with out him giving it out to me. ^•^ I'll wait it out and talk to him Monday.

Well just start with his insta… follow him, then wait a little then ask him how his thanksgiving is going

I don't have instagram, but I do have FB. I'll see if he has one. ^^'

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do?

Wanting more opinions :3

[Rated R]

alright. let me cut to the chase.

i met this guy two weekends ago. we live several hours away from each other. we have established that we like each other. we are in, what i can only best described as, a 'flirtationship.'
we've videochatted almost every single day, for more than 1.5 hours every time. we've snapchatted till midnight, we've talked all day. his twin brother knows we like each other. we obviously like each other.

we live 4-5 hours away from each other though, and there are times where we could meet up, but it would be slightly difficult. we might end up in the same area next year for schooling, so if that happens, we could definitely go out. but for now, i'm confused. i don't know what we are. are we friends? are we just flirting? is that going to be it? should we try long-distance? should we wait to see whether we end up near each other? i have no idea.

my question is: i've been talking with him for two weeks. very early on, we said we liked each other. do i ask him what we are and clarify whether we're friends or a couple? do i wait till i see him in person? do i wait to see if our close communication continues for at least a month before bringing it up? i have no clue.

advice?

any advice would be appreciated :P

[IshallcallhimSquishy]

alright. let me cut to the chase.

i met this guy two weekends ago. we live several hours away from each other. we have established that we like each other. we are in, what i can only best described as, a 'flirtationship.'
we've videochatted almost every single day, for more than 1.5 hours every time. we've snapchatted till midnight, we've talked all day. his twin brother knows we like each other. we obviously like each other.

we live 4-5 hours away from each other though, and there are times where we could meet up, but it would be slightly difficult. we might end up in the same area next year for schooling, so if that happens, we could definitely go out. but for now, i'm confused. i don't know what we are. are we friends? are we just flirting? is that going to be it? should we try long-distance? should we wait to see whether we end up near each other? i have no idea.

my question is: i've been talking with him for two weeks. very early on, we said we liked each other. do i ask him what we are and clarify whether we're friends or a couple? do i wait till i see him in person? do i wait to see if our close communication continues for at least a month before bringing it up? i have no clue.

advice?

any advice would be appreciated

Alright, so I'm assuming you're a girl and not gay. And usually in relationships, the guy should be the one to make the first move and take it a step further or something. I think maybe you should wait until you see eachother in person and then see if you should take things further. Do not, DO NOT try to rush things because i've done that before and i ruined everything and things just got awkward between us and we ended up hating eachother. so just wait until you see him in person and can hang out more in real life and not over videochat and wait for him to make the first move. and good luck!!

[surfiez]

@ehsaas Do it in person. and be honest… it's just a question! The worst he can say is just friends… and who knows if the worst does happen maybe if you keep talking you might be able to go out with him ^_^

[Sydney∞]

My crush is so cute!! Last year I had my assigned seat in front of my crush's and he would even braid my hair sometimes. We are really good friends too. Our winter dance is coming up for my school and I want to ask him to dance with me. I'm just really nervous but he promised me he would.

[thunderofthedrum]

Alright, so I'm assuming you're a girl and not gay. And usually in relationships, the guy should be the one to make the first move and take it a step further or something. I think maybe you should wait until you see eachother in person and then see if you should take things further. Do not, DO NOT try to rush things because i've done that before and i ruined everything and things just got awkward between us and we ended up hating eachother. so just wait until you see him in person and can hang out more in real life and not over videochat and wait for him to make the first move. and good luck!!

I have to speak up - I am very confused by this.
Why should the guy be the one to make the first move?

[DaydreamNarrator]

Alright, so I'm assuming you're a girl and not gay. And usually in relationships, the guy should be the one to make the first move and take it a step further or something. I think maybe you should wait until you see eachother in person and then see if you should take things further. Do not, DO NOT try to rush things because i've done that before and i ruined everything and things just got awkward between us and we ended up hating eachother. so just wait until you see him in person and can hang out more in real life and not over videochat and wait for him to make the first move. and good luck!!

I have to speak up - I am very confused by this.
Why should the guy be the one to make the first move?

I absutely agree- this is 2014, Not 1914. If you feel like doing the first move, Do it,no matter if male of female.