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Postby appi » Thu Nov 27, 2014 10:33 pm

Datchi wrote:
      Eeeeee, being very much happy right now aha.
      So, my crush is currently talking to me on facebook and he's being so nice. He's been telling me about the sports he plays after I asked and he's being so funny. He's making up jokes and it's like we're long lost friends.
      I think he likes me ... I like him a lot, should I go for it or wait for him to make the first move? ..

    yay! ^0^//

    i personally think you should wait a little longer, so you guys can get more comfortable talking to each other in person. C: maybe hint a little that you like him? do you think he knows that you like him?
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Postby gwanu » Thu Nov 27, 2014 10:36 pm

Datchi wrote:
      Eeeeee, being very much happy right now aha.
      So, my crush is currently talking to me on facebook and he's being so nice. He's been telling me about the sports he plays after I asked and he's being so funny. He's making up jokes and it's like we're long lost friends.
      I think he likes me ... I like him a lot, should I go for it or wait for him to make the first move? ..

so um, after quite a few situations similar to that i'd say that you should wait. is this the first time you guys are talking on facebook? Did you message him first? If you did, never do that again. us girls have made it too easy for guys, they've lost all their courage and basically expect the girl to do everything. i'm sick and tired of girls being the guys to guys. basically to put it like that. let him make the first move.
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Postby compass; » Thu Nov 27, 2014 10:41 pm

AwkwardCookie wrote:
Datchi wrote:
      Eeeeee, being very much happy right now aha.
      So, my crush is currently talking to me on facebook and he's being so nice. He's been telling me about the sports he plays after I asked and he's being so funny. He's making up jokes and it's like we're long lost friends.
      I think he likes me ... I like him a lot, should I go for it or wait for him to make the first move? ..

    yay! ^0^//

    i personally think you should wait a little longer, so you guys can get more comfortable talking to each other in person. C: maybe hint a little that you like him? do you think he knows that you like him?


      How do I hint it? I'm terrible at this kind of thing. We've spoken in person before, but it's not as easy as texting lol.
      Thanks for the responce too Morro. (:
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Postby appi » Thu Nov 27, 2014 10:57 pm

Datchi wrote:
AwkwardCookie wrote:
Datchi wrote:
      Eeeeee, being very much happy right now aha.
      So, my crush is currently talking to me on facebook and he's being so nice. He's been telling me about the sports he plays after I asked and he's being so funny. He's making up jokes and it's like we're long lost friends.
      I think he likes me ... I like him a lot, should I go for it or wait for him to make the first move? ..

    yay! ^0^//

    i personally think you should wait a little longer, so you guys can get more comfortable talking to each other in person. C: maybe hint a little that you like him? do you think he knows that you like him?


      How do I hint it? I'm terrible at this kind of thing. We've spoken in person before, but it's not as easy as texting lol.
      Thanks for the responce too Morro. (:

    hrm, i'm not really sure, but maybe you could like, say 'hi' and smile at him every time you pass each other?

    do you guys often see each other in school and stuff? is he in your class?
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Postby Phan; » Fri Nov 28, 2014 1:28 am

One minute - another reason why I don't think that was cheating. That was out of guilt/sympathy/whatever.

That you did at least lean in for a kiss isn't so good, but I think if you sit down and are honest with yourself you can figure out a plan. Then if you talk to him about it and give it a try to keep your relationship with him, then you know you tried. It's hard to know when to confess and when to keep it a secret. Confessing is scary but risking them finding out the secret is also scary. Also, with confessing you are getting it off your shoulders but placing it on theirs and sometimes they might wish they never knew. But if they find out later and know that you kept the secret? Also terrible! So it may feel like there's no way to win but really.. just try to feel out the situation. Make a decision. And try to let him know you are sorry. Lastly, maybe talk about a way to be accountable to each other. At some point, it may also be good to bring up him trying hard to communicate with you as well.

Good luck!!

Well, everything worked out c: I confessed to him and I told him about how sorry I am and that im freaking out and he actually said it was ok o.o He's not uncomfortable with me anymore and we started kissing again.
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Postby surfiez » Fri Nov 28, 2014 2:06 am

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    I can't get him out of my head. Yeah, he'll be back next week, but I miss him like crazy. Yeah he's not my boyfriend, but I think I know what love is. I just -- I yeah I dunno how to explain it.
    How can I get him out of my head for the week? I don't think I can because I love him so.

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Postby Rated R » Fri Nov 28, 2014 2:15 am

    alright. let me cut to the chase.

    i met this guy two weekends ago. we live several hours away from each other. we have established that we like each other. we are in, what i can only best described as, a 'flirtationship.'
    we've videochatted almost every single day, for more than 1.5 hours every time. we've snapchatted till midnight, we've talked all day. his twin brother knows we like each other. we obviously like each other.

    we live 4-5 hours away from each other though, and there are times where we could meet up, but it would be slightly difficult. we might end up in the same area next year for schooling, so if that happens, we could definitely go out. but for now, i'm confused. i don't know what we are. are we friends? are we just flirting? is that going to be it? should we try long-distance? should we wait to see whether we end up near each other? i have no idea.

    my question is: i've been talking with him for two weeks. very early on, we said we liked each other. do i ask him what we are and clarify whether we're friends or a couple? do i wait till i see him in person? do i wait to see if our close communication continues for at least a month before bringing it up? i have no clue.

    advice?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby surfiez » Fri Nov 28, 2014 2:16 am

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surfiez wrote:Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-;
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Postby Retrouvailles » Fri Nov 28, 2014 2:36 am

surfiez wrote:
FoxTail255 wrote:
    I can't get him out of my head. Yeah, he'll be back next week, but I miss him like crazy. Yeah he's not my boyfriend, but I think I know what love is. I just -- I yeah I dunno how to explain it.
    How can I get him out of my head for the week? I don't think I can because I love him so.

Text him

The thing is, I don't have his number. I forgot to give mine to him. ^^" What a smart person I am, huh?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby surfiez » Fri Nov 28, 2014 3:03 am

FoxTail255 wrote:
surfiez wrote:
FoxTail255 wrote:
    I can't get him out of my head. Yeah, he'll be back next week, but I miss him like crazy. Yeah he's not my boyfriend, but I think I know what love is. I just -- I yeah I dunno how to explain it.
    How can I get him out of my head for the week? I don't think I can because I love him so.

Text him

The thing is, I don't have his number. I forgot to give mine to him. ^^" What a smart person I am, huh?

Find out his KIK snapchat or Instagram… maybe direct message him on insta and ask him how his trip is then ask if he has KIK or snapchat. It doesn't hurt to talk to him… I learned that by talking to my crush and he ended up coming to a surf contest for me :)
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