Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[mars]

There's been too much going on recently:

1. One of my friends has been comparing me to his girlfriend a lot in our conversations, saying I look like her and act like her while also saying how pretty, cute, and kind she is. He seems to get a little nervous around me, stutters often, and is almost always playing around and goofing with me. For the past few days he's even come over from across our classroom just to chat with me.. Is this because he likes me? But what about his girlfriend, though? /:

2. I actually really like a different guy friend of mine, and one of my female friends found out and made me confess to her that I liked him. She's been acting weird ever since then, always playing around with him and talking to him. She never liked him before she knew I did, though.. I'm worried our friendship is breaking apart because of this sort of competition and I'm starting to regret letting her on about it.

3. The guy I liked from above gave me a fancy white art pen the other day and has been complimenting my clothes/hair/art over the past few days a little more than usual. He even let me listen to his music earlier today.. I doubt it means much other than just being friends, but hhhhhhh <33

[nightbeat]

waaaa hi i have this massive crush on a boy in my japanese & pe classes but i'm never sure if he likes me or if he's just bad at talking to girls
either way his attitude is really cute and sweet.. he has a little sister he's very fond of! he seems like such a good big brother wwww his sense of humor is so cute i can't get over it! we give each other pushes on the track when we're falling behind on our two lap runs in pe class hehe.
he's like such a sweet kid and maaaan i can't believe i'm falling for him but i am
he's honestly one of the most gentle boys i ever met and i love it.. he really stands out for me

this one girl asked if we were siblings and we were like no?? and she then said we just seemed like close friends wwww i just told her that it was "something like that"

he used to be incredibly awkward & shy around me and i had to carry the conversation. of course i didn't give up and he started to warm up and now we're really good friends uwu
i want to tell him my feelings but mmm i don't know

[_MaddieRose_]

There's been too much going on recently:

1. One of my friends has been comparing me to his girlfriend a lot in our conversations, saying I look like her and act like her while also saying how pretty, cute, and kind she is. He seems to get a little nervous around me, stutters often, and is almost always playing around and goofing with me. For the past few days he's even come over from across our classroom just to chat with me.. Is this because he likes me? But what about his girlfriend, though? /:

2. I actually really like a different guy friend of mine, and one of my female friends found out and made me confess to her that I liked him. She's been acting weird ever since then, always playing around with him and talking to him. She never liked him before she knew I did, though.. I'm worried our friendship is breaking apart because of this sort of competition and I'm starting to regret letting her on about it.

3. The guy I liked from above gave me a fancy white art pen the other day and has been complimenting my clothes/hair/art over the past few days a little more than usual. He even let me listen to his music earlier today.. I doubt it means much other than just being friends, but hhhhhhh <33

1. I think you should tell him about the way he's been acting to you and tell him if he truely still likes his girlfriend because right there is technically cheating on you and his girlfriend

2. This depends on if you still want her as a friend or not. If you do then just tell her that she's hurting your feelings by flirting with the crush that you had first. If you don't then she doesn't deserve to be your friend because right there is a perfect example of a type of bullying like mean girls x3

3. Hhhhh that is so sweet! He is totally flirting and crushing on you! If you feel uncomfortable with the way he's acting but still like him then it's really easy especially when two people like each other. All you have to do is tell him that you like him too, simple!

[kafka]

so recently my best friend was walking behind my crush and his friend when they were going home
and he started telling his friend about this girl in our year who's really pretty and nice, but my friend had to cross the street before she got a name
and i dont think its me because im not pretty and he doesnt know me well enough to call me "nice".

on the other hand a boy in my class keeps joking to his friends that im his girlfriend (he's definitely only joking, i know)
and one of his friends called me "babe" as i walked past today

and physical-appearance wise, they're both pretty cute.

am i going to lose interest in my crush, because i'm ninety-nine percent sure he likes another girl?
am i going to end up falling for one of the boys, who i've found annoying and reckless for almost a year?

i know i should be the one to answer these questions, but i ultimately don't know.

[Me <3]

Hey basic question... or is it. What is love and how do you know if you fall in love?

[Dia.]

Hey basic question... or is it. What is love and how do you know if you fall in love?

What is love?
Baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

lol sorry

I really can't explain it... It's just there and I know I feel it and it's great and special... but I can't put words to it. <3

[r.ddler]

so recently my best friend was walking behind my crush and his friend when they were going home
and he started telling his friend about this girl in our year who's really pretty and nice, but my friend had to cross the street before she got a name
and i dont think its me because im not pretty and he doesnt know me well enough to call me "nice".

on the other hand a boy in my class keeps joking to his friends that im his girlfriend (he's definitely only joking, i know)
and one of his friends called me "babe" as i walked past today

and physical-appearance wise, they're both pretty cute.

am i going to lose interest in my crush, because i'm ninety-nine percent sure he likes another girl?
am i going to end up falling for one of the boys, who i've found annoying and reckless for almost a year?

i know i should be the one to answer these questions, but i ultimately don't know.

If you're so worried, I'd try to forget. Yea, I know, really hard to forget a guy you've adored for a while huh?
But crushing on people you thought were obnoxious, and ridiculously annoying, is completely natural. If it's true,
you probably would've notice before hand.
I have this stupid knack at giving myself crushes, I tell myself I like them, and suddenly I do. I'd call it a bit of a placebo on myself. I am not saying you told yourself to like a guy. But that's what happens to me, if you need to discuss things, we can continue in a PM.

[betelgeuse]

I have a crush who was born in the same place as me, plays the same instruments as me, has the same strengths as me, OH GOSH DOES HE LIKE ME?!

[empunich;]

Hi... Well my mum has managed to ruin and make my summer awesome at the same time. We are going camping after Australia Day, with my parents, brother, parents friends and their children. I had a leavers soirée on Friday and my bf (let's call him R) kept walking over to talk to me, like a lot. It turns out that my mum was talking to his Dad at the time, so know he's coming camping with his sister and Dad to! Pretty cool for me :3

Also, R is pretty scared of my best friend... A, she teases him constantly and makes fun of him. Well, I have to admit that I do sometimes and she is hillarious. But, it means that when I hang out with her I get less time to hang out with R, and we are going to different schools next year So A and R are both going to different schools from me ;-;. But anyway, how can I deal with R being scared of A? Thanks in adavance for any advice!

[thunderofthedrum]

Hi... Well my mum has managed to ruin and make my summer awesome at the same time. We are going camping after Australia Day, with my parents, brother, parents friends and their children. I had a leavers soirée on Friday and my bf (let's call him R) kept walking over to talk to me, like a lot. It turns out that my mum was talking to his Dad at the time, so know he's coming camping with his sister and Dad to! Pretty cool for me :3

Also, R is pretty scared of my best friend... A, she teases him constantly and makes fun of him. Well, I have to admit that I do sometimes and she is hillarious. But, it means that when I hang out with her I get less time to hang out with R, and we are going to different schools next year So A and R are both going to different schools from me ;-;. But anyway, how can I deal with R being scared of A? Thanks in adavance for any advice!

I wouldn't say he is 'scared' of her - it sounds like she teases him too much and that it makes him downright uncomfortable. Can you talk to your friend? Let her know you think it makes him kind of uncomfortable and maybe to lay off, as a favor to you? If someone made me feel uncomfortable with 'funny' insults and teasing, I would be nervous about being around this person as well.