Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[eli ayase]

I haven't posted here in a while...

I thought I could handle this on my own but I need help now guys


I've been liking this guy since about the fourth week of school, and he's semi popular. I think he knows I like him. At first, it seemed he liked me, because we barely spoke and I wasn't annoying. But as time went on, he started joking about my insecurities and spoke to other girls and ignored me and such.

Well, today, this girl that I think he likes came into our exploratory because her teacher had to go to a meeting and couldn't watch his class so they split. Well, he usually sits by me but today he got up and moved over to her. He talked to her the whole time, and it hurt. And then, my friend sent him this inappropriate text that she saw on tumblr and he got it and she laughed and thought it was funny because she doesn't like him, but now it looks like I like him in a weird way and I don't and ugh

this is really complicated I know. I need to stop liking him because nothing good comes out of it, but I can't stop liking him because my heart keeps thinking there's a chance. But there isnt. Not one chance, because he can get any girls and he wouldn't choose me, the annoying weird girl. He makes fun of me all the time, and then says he's joking or something. He always tells me to shut up and calls me names but I just shrug it off because I remember the good in him when we first met. I feel so awful about admitting this... I haven't told anyone about how he treats me. Sometimes he can be sweet, but its very rare. We have so much in common, and we talk all the time... Its just that... I rarely feel good about him. And I can't /stop/ liking him because there was a time when I was crazy for him.

I need help... He has the power right now, and every time I do something that might be annoying or something he gives me this weird look as if he's too cool for me and it hurts.

[P0RTLAND]

Should I write a note and give it to him ??? And give it to him after school...

Warning: bluntness.

I feel you post very often and are always looking for magical answers. Well heads up - there are no magical, cure-all answers. Every situation is a little different, every person is a little different, and there is no way that some stranger on the internet will magically know exactly how to handle things with guaranteed success. Of course it's going to be awkward. Of course it could end badly. That's life. That's the risk you have to take to put yourself out there.

Also, could you try to write more in each post? You aren't very descriptive of the situation which is likely why you don't often get answers. More information would be very helpful and perhaps would allow you to post less (giving others the opportunity to post before we keep hitting the next page). By posting so often, other people's posts get lost in previous pages before they get answered and I don't feel that is fair to them.

Lastly, I would try to offer suggestions but you two sound much younger than I could handle giving advice to; my advice is better suited for high school and up, which I get the feeling you guys are not. I didn't date until college and I certainly don't remember how things were when I was 10-15 regarding how people acted with popularity and crushes and stuff. (hence me not offering advice to you now)

I second this. It is probably best to wait, as the person above was instigating. You do seem fairly young, which is why I probably wouldn't worry about it. Just focus on your career path, your family, and your friends. You don't need to worry about love at this age. It comes and goes, sorry.

[wicked;]

i've never really had a real crush until now. it kinda sucks.

[Hawky<3]

i've never really had a real crush until now. it kinda sucks.

i can relate, most of my crushes turn out terrible.
but i'm sure yours will be better ;u;

[wicked;]

i've never really had a real crush until now. it kinda sucks.

i can relate, most of my crushes turn out terrible.
but i'm sure yours will be better ;u;

i'm sorry to hear that. it just sucks all around, doesn't it? xd
thanks the the encouragement though, i guess we'll see. (:

[Tainted~Wings]

Omg BUCKSHOT loves me!
Ok me and buckshot, the guy I like/this is his nickname, got alone time. He looked at me every 5 seconds with those goo goo eyes. When he thought we were alone he admitted he loved me and he didn't know why I'd ever hang out with him. But 'Bonebrain', as we call him cause we swear he is kinda stupid from the many spills from bronc and bulls right on his head, walked behind us. He took off telling EVERYONE on our rodeo team. I wanna date buckshot but I don't really know him very well and I don't want rumors goin round bout us. What should I do? *Please pm me the answer*

[ᗰεяαкι~]

Ok so I broke up with my bf, he broke up with me, and now already me and this guy whose locker is beside mine keeps laughing with me and we're hanging out alot!

He and I are getting really close... My ex is trying to not notice that it's his friend too... What do I do?

P.S. To clarify I am developing a crush to him

[Beyoncé]

O gawd. I really hope he dosent see this
Anywho, theres this boy i REALLY like. I think he likes me, but i dont know. I would say i like him, but we go to a really conservative school, and have conservative(ish) families. Also, im pretty sure his best freind thinks i have a crush on him. we are also friends. i really need help with this situation.

Also, he always looks at me (not in a creepy way, or werid) but whenever were at lunch (hes a grade higher) i catch him glimpsing at me, but he dosent see that i caught him

[kboys]

All three of them just keep glancing at me , trying to
get my attention every time we cross paths I only have eyes for one though .
They are all very cute I will admit,
but there's only one that can make my heart break , heal and melt
over and over again . It's so frustrating .

[CrazyPinkiePie]

^_^ I love my boyfriend to bits, I knew him for a year and a half but we now been together for 5 months, I'm his first girlfriend also, he made me happy and helped me Cope with my mums death <3 ahh just feel happy right now