Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[vulture,]

Hey guys!

So, given that my crush has been showing me that he likes me as well (hugging, arm over my shoulders, putting his hand to my cheek, going out of his way to talk to me, etc., etc.), my friends have been urging me to ask him to winter formal. At my school, formal is kind of a big deal. Girls are always supposed to ask the guys and they always do it in a very creative way. So, here I am, with no clue of how to do something fun and creative. My relationship with my crush has mostly been built on playfulness and joking around, so something serious is really weird. Any ideas?

[imp.]

Hey guys!

So, given that my crush has been showing me that he likes me as well (hugging, arm over my shoulders, putting his hand to my cheek, going out of his way to talk to me, etc., etc.), my friends have been urging me to ask him to winter formal. At my school, formal is kind of a big deal. Girls are always supposed to ask the guys and they always do it in a very creative way. So, here I am, with no clue of how to do something fun and creative. My relationship with my crush has mostly been built on playfulness and joking around, so something serious is really weird. Any ideas?

you could walk up to him start joking around slowly moving the convosation towards the formal then say "Oh ya i wanted to ask you to the formal! Silly me of forgetting!"

[thunderofthedrum]

Well Me And My Boyfriend (A) Have Been Dating For About 2 Weeks... Wensday He Started Not Talking Or Looking At Me. I Ask His Friends Why He Is Doing This And They Ignore Me Also. Please Help I Really Like Him And Don't Wanna Loose Him.

To be honest, if it's only been two weeks than you likely don't know him very well - and same for him knowing you.
It's VERY possible that he just isn't as interested as he thought he was. It's quite normal. You start dating someone and, as you get to know them, you find that you aren't as interested in them as you thought, or not as compatible. Or maybe he just lost interest or has developed a crush on someone else. Heck, he could even be wanting to break up with you but feels bad because you guys only just started dating, or maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings or doesn't have the confidence to break up with you. Or maybe he's just unsure of how to talk to you! Maybe he likes you but doesn't know what you want to do, doesn't know how to get to know you.

Before you can answer how to keep him, you need to ask: How does he feel? Have his feelings changed?
He's only human.

And, in the end, if it turns out he HAS lost interest, don't drag it out. Don't force a relationship with someone who isn't that interested in you when you could be finding opportunities to meet someone you like more.

[_MaddieRose_]

Hey guys!

So, given that my crush has been showing me that he likes me as well (hugging, arm over my shoulders, putting his hand to my cheek, going out of his way to talk to me, etc., etc.), my friends have been urging me to ask him to winter formal. At my school, formal is kind of a big deal. Girls are always supposed to ask the guys and they always do it in a very creative way. So, here I am, with no clue of how to do something fun and creative. My relationship with my crush has mostly been built on playfulness and joking around, so something serious is really weird. Any ideas?

Omg what I did for the homecoming dance is that I made a very cute card and slid it in the guy I wanted to ask outs locker then when he opened it and read the card I walked up to him and asked him yes or no and he said yes!!!

[Hawky<3]

I have a boyfriend (lets just call him Ben) and we've been dating for a few weeks now but our love is truly genuine. we text and talk all the time. it annoys both of us to death, however, when people go out of their way to alienate us. for example, if we hug. people will tease us or just flat out be rude. my best friend even joined in.
any advice for dealing with this?

[raezel]

I have a boyfriend (lets just call him Ben) and we've been dating for a few weeks now but our love is truly genuine. we text and talk all the time. it annoys both of us to death, however, when people go out of their way to alienate us. for example, if we hug. people will tease us or just flat out be rude. my best friend even joined in.
any advice for dealing with this?

the best thing you can do is to ignore the people being rude and just go on with your days. if you and your boyfriend are happy together, it doesn't matter what others think or how they react to it. it's really immature in the first place to be poking fun about a couple being happy together. as far as your best friend goes, maybe you could talk to them? let them know it bothers you? if they're really your best friend, they'll take the hint at you (and your boyfriend) being upset about it, and they'll care enough about your feelings to stop.

[moonlessnight.]

My boyfriend and I started dating on October 24th, so tomorrow will be the third week. This week, we seemed to be drifting, so I told my best friend how I felt, and she encouraged me to see if it would pick up again in a few days.

But, now, I was not there on Wednesday, and I think something happened. She has been talking to him privately, and whenever I get the chance to ask, she says nothing and gives me a fake smile. I completely trust him, as I told him this and he said it had nothing to do, but after their little talks, he always tries to converse with me and texts me more constantly now. So things are looking up a little bit.

The thing that kind of angers me is when I tell some distant friends or acquaintances about dating him, they say I could do way better, or that he's too weird and freaky, or ugly. But honestly, I don't care. To me, he gets me, and he is sweet. I really don't care about how he looks, but apparently some do. So whenever people say negative things about him, I ignore them, because, honestly, he is really good to me. but he does tease sometimes, and today in dodge ball he said I could use him as a human shield {Which I did XD}

[vulture,]

Hey guys!

So, given that my crush has been showing me that he likes me as well (hugging, arm over my shoulders, putting his hand to my cheek, going out of his way to talk to me, etc., etc.), my friends have been urging me to ask him to winter formal. At my school, formal is kind of a big deal. Girls are always supposed to ask the guys and they always do it in a very creative way. So, here I am, with no clue of how to do something fun and creative. My relationship with my crush has mostly been built on playfulness and joking around, so something serious is really weird. Any ideas?

Omg what I did for the homecoming dance is that I made a very cute card and slid it in the guy I wanted to ask outs locker then when he opened it and read the card I walked up to him and asked him yes or no and he said yes!!!

I thought about doing something like that, actually. We're locker neighbors so it would be easy enough. -flails- I dunno.

[eli ayase]

I haven't posted here in a while...

I thought I could handle this on my own but I need help now guys


I've been liking this guy since about the fourth week of school, and he's semi popular. I think he knows I like him. At first, it seemed he liked me, because we barely spoke and I wasn't annoying. But as time went on, he started joking about my insecurities and spoke to other girls and ignored me and such.

Well, today, this girl that I think he likes came into our exploratory because her teacher had to go to a meeting and couldn't watch his class so they split. Well, he usually sits by me but today he got up and moved over to her. He talked to her the whole time, and it hurt. And then, my friend sent him this inappropriate text that she saw on tumblr and he got it and she laughed and thought it was funny because she doesn't like him, but now it looks like I like him in a weird way and I don't and ugh

this is really complicated I know. I need to stop liking him because nothing good comes out of it, but I can't stop liking him because my heart keeps thinking there's a chance. But there isnt. Not one chance, because he can get any girls and he wouldn't choose me, the annoying weird girl. He makes fun of me all the time, and then says he's joking or something. He always tells me to shut up and calls me names but I just shrug it off because I remember the good in him when we first met. I feel so awful about admitting this... I haven't told anyone about how he treats me. Sometimes he can be sweet, but its very rare. We have so much in common, and we talk all the time... Its just that... I rarely feel good about him. And I can't /stop/ liking him because there was a time when I was crazy for him.

I need help... He has the power right now, and every time I do something that might be annoying or something he gives me this weird look as if he's too cool for me and it hurts.

[fuzzyanni12]

My friend r said it's really noticeable that I like k and that he probably already knows I like him from the way I act ( I haven't told k yet that I like him) and anyone can see I like k so what should I do to make it less noticeable ???