Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Jayfox]

omaigod.

So I actually got the guts to ask him to the dance, face to face (and we're both these super shy, awkward creatures, just saying).
And the thing is, he didn't exactly say yes, but he didn't say no either. It went like this:



me: hey, Matthew.
him: hm?
me: are you going to the formal?
him: um, i don't know yet.
me: ... because i was wondering if you'd like to go with me.
him: /smiles/ ... i don't know if i'm going.
me: well, tell me if you do, okay?
him: okay.



Now I'm just extremely jittery on the inside, because one, I'm proud of myself for overcoming my shyness, and two, according to my friends in his class, when he got back after our meeting, he was smiling. I know he's not guaranteed to go with me, or go at all, but I just feel really good right now ♒

Aww that's so sweet, I really hope everything goes well for you! <3 And even if he doesn't decide to go to the dance with you, you can at least feel proud of yourself for having the confidence to ask, since that can be very difficult to do. (I recently said a similar thing to someone who flat out rejected me, which hurt a lot, but I'm still glad that I did say something).

[imp.]

Do you ever just bounce from one crush to the other? Like, "I like that person," one week, then "madly in love" the next, but you never really fall in love? But then you meet someone, you fall in love, Oh, great, just another puppy dog crush.. again. But no, this feeling lasts for months, and months. I do hope I'm not the only one. I'm super insecure about my appearance but I do want to seem more outgoing and confident around others, especially people I truly want to impress. I also want to stay being myself in the process, I don't want to fake it, then have them assume I'm someone I'm not in the end? This is a major dilemma, I'll use any advice I can get!

Yup i know how you feel! Im crushing on 5 boys who are completely diff! I know how you feel, honest. But the bestnthing is to do is act like yourself and nothing more! If hes a jerk then he will want you to change but if he likes how you are then its all cool!

[appi]

Do you ever just bounce from one crush to the other? Like, "I like that person," one week, then "madly in love" the next, but you never really fall in love? But then you meet someone, you fall in love, Oh, great, just another puppy dog crush.. again. But no, this feeling lasts for months, and months. I do hope I'm not the only one. I'm super insecure about my appearance but I do want to seem more outgoing and confident around others, especially people I truly want to impress. I also want to stay being myself in the process, I don't want to fake it, then have them assume I'm someone I'm not in the end? This is a major dilemma, I'll use any advice I can get!

i feel the exact same way. i have at least two crushes every year, and they usually go away some time after the school year's ended. but there's this one guy i was in a class with last year, and i had a huuge crush on him. he moved, and i thought i was going to get over him like i get over any crush, but nah. i still have feelings for him, and i just can't forget him. ;-;

i'm really self-conscious around my crushes, and i get SUPER NERVOUS when i talk to them. i can't talk to them like i talk to other human beings, which makes me sad since they won't know the real me. then they think i'm weird and avoid me for the entire school year.

ANYWAY, i think you shouldn't force the confidence and outgoing-ness, but just.... be yourself i guess. UBER CHEESY I KNOW
butttt yeah. if you want to be more outgoing and confident, go at it! c: just don't be over-enthusiastic; it might creep people out. try to find perfect level of confidence and outgoing-ness.

confidence is really attractive in a person.
unfortunately, i lack it.
i envy you. c; <3

[~IronRose~]

I'm in a situation here but here is a chart to get things going
G- My ex boyfriend who I still have some feelings for
Q- a guy I really like who says he has a girlfriend and I'm sure doesn't like me back, tho everyone else seems other wise
and
L- a guy my mom would like me to be with, he is a grade under me but I like him and my mom and I are sure that he likes me too

I have no idea what to do because I don't want to be in a relationship where I think about other guys, but I want a relationship.
I don't know what to do

[DraconisSumeris]

I ... i really dont know what to think anymore. I dont know what to feel, im just... confused.... the guy i have a major crush on, tells me today that he thinks humiliating people is funny. Me being a large victum to public humiliation and bullies, i dont take well to it. It pains me dearly that he thinks this... it makes me think that he is exacly what ive been running from all my life... i have physical and mental scars from my whole life, as this us the only year ive not been majorly bullied... and then the guy i like is a bully... i dont know... if i should talk to him about it, maybe make him see what he does to people, or avoid him entirely... help?

[ScarWitch]

My boyfriend just informed me he can come meet my family at our monthly get together this weekend! I'm so excited, but I'm also a tad worried, considering he's not the typical "good guy" boyfriend. He's kinda not allowed to have weapons of any kind until he's 18 (which is soon), due to a fight he got in when he was 14. He has a illegal racing streak and a bunch of other crazy things he's been into, and I'm hoping my family is understanding... ugh...

[narwhallama]

There's this guy. Let's call him H.
I have a crush on him, and I'm not sure if he likes me back, or if I'm just his friend/ rantbuddy.
it's really awkward.

[Clarrissa]

I ... i really dont know what to think anymore. I dont know what to feel, im just... confused.... the guy i have a major crush on, tells me today that he thinks humiliating people is funny. Me being a large victum to public humiliation and bullies, i dont take well to it. It pains me dearly that he thinks this... it makes me think that he is exacly what ive been running from all my life... i have physical and mental scars from my whole life, as this us the only year ive not been majorly bullied... and then the guy i like is a bully... i dont know... if i should talk to him about it, maybe make him see what he does to people, or avoid him entirely... help?

If I were you, I'd avoid him. I've never had a problem with bullying but I can imagine that it must have been awful for you, bullying is a serious problem and it shouldn't be taken lightly. I don't understand people who think that bullying is fun because it's wrong to find it amusing to physically or mentally damage someone else. As bullying is something that's effected you in the past, I'd advise you to keep your distance, and if he asks you why you're avoiding him, explain that you disagree with his ideas about bullying. I hope I was able to help!
~Clara c:

[thunderofthedrum]

My boyfriend just informed me he can come meet my family at our monthly get together this weekend! I'm so excited, but I'm also a tad worried, considering he's not the typical "good guy" boyfriend. He's kinda not allowed to have weapons of any kind until he's 18 (which is soon), due to a fight he got in when he was 14. He has a illegal racing streak and a bunch of other crazy things he's been into, and I'm hoping my family is understanding... ugh...

I have questions.
- Is the monthly get together a thing your family does or is that how often you see your boyfriend?
- How long have you guys been dating?
- How long have you known him?
- How long has it been since he got into trouble? Is he still making bad choices?
- Why the heck would he be allowed weapons before 18?
- Has he made efforts to make better decisions now that you would be negatively impacted by him breaking the rules?
- Does he treat you well? Respect you?

[diana,]

Okay, so there are two guys... Let's just say this.

Okay. There are these two guys.. I really like one of them, but I actually think he likes one of my good friends. And then there's another guy who I think likes me, but I just don't like him back.. In fact, most of the time I hate him. A lot. So Idon't know what to do... I'm going away really soon, and school's about to break up as well.. So yeah. Any advice? :c