Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[imp.]

I didn't tell my crush either but I sorta made it obvious by writing 'Hope your in my class next year! ' In his yearbook (Imma idiot sometimes ) Its really akward when I walk past him in the hallway, we both stop talking and try to hide behind our friends. I wanna know if he likes me or not but im so freakin scared!

[vulture,]

i can help ^

also my crush found out that i like him! IM SO SCARED!

This happened to me as well! I was content living in my little shell of security of them not knowing, but apparently I didn't hide it very well. He dropped hints that he knew from time to time. Now, I realize how great it actually is that he found out without me having to go through the awkwardness of telling him. He's not a person I'm often serious with. Our relationship is basically all jokes and playfulness other than our random rants. But, that's not the point. After he figured out that I like him, I noticed he started getting closer to me over the weeks. He would set a hand on my shoulder or knee when we were talking. He always stops in the hall to talk to me and will grab my hand to pull me aside for a conversation. Today he actually hugged me (//dying) and had his arm around my shoulders.

In a nut shell, your crush knowing that you like them is a fantastic thing. If they feel the same for you, then it's likely that they will start trying to make a move.

[APH Italy]

Okay so I need help. There's this guy I've known for about 3 years and I have started to like him.
Now here's the troubling part: I thought I was lesbian. I dated guys before but haven't dated one in years, so I guess this means I'm pansexual?
This whole thing is terrifying to me... I don't want to tell him but at the same time I do? I don't know what to do...

Anyone? Please?

[claws990p]

Okay so I need help. There's this guy I've known for about 3 years and I have started to like him.
Now here's the troubling part: I thought I was lesbian. I dated guys before but haven't dated one in years, so I guess this means I'm pansexual?
This whole thing is terrifying to me... I don't want to tell him but at the same time I do? I don't know what to do...

Anyone? Please?

I know this short but go with your gut

[raezel]

Okay so I need help. There's this guy I've known for about 3 years and I have started to like him.
Now here's the troubling part: I thought I was lesbian. I dated guys before but haven't dated one in years, so I guess this means I'm pansexual?
This whole thing is terrifying to me... I don't want to tell him but at the same time I do? I don't know what to do...

Anyone? Please?

i think you might be bisexual, as pansexual is being attracted to all genders, including those outside of the gender binary (male and female).
as for your situation, i'd say either go for it and let him know or just let it go. you have a chance of getting together with him, but you also have a chance of not doing it if you never say anything. whichever outcome you're more comfortable with, i'd let that decide if you tell him or not. do you want to date him? is your sexuality what's making you question it? ask yourself these things and try to figure out what you want. good luck! uvu

[P0RTLAND]

Do you ever just bounce from one crush to the other? Like, "I like that person," one week, then "madly in love" the next, but you never really fall in love? But then you meet someone, you fall in love, Oh, great, just another puppy dog crush.. again. But no, this feeling lasts for months, and months. I do hope I'm not the only one. I'm super insecure about my appearance but I do want to seem more outgoing and confident around others, especially people I truly want to impress. I also want to stay being myself in the process, I don't want to fake it, then have them assume I'm someone I'm not in the end? This is a major dilemma, I'll use any advice I can get!

[reject]

I think you should tell him afterschool becuase then you can ask about his day and if he's having a really good day then you can add to it!

[P0RTLAND]

Hey guys if I told k I like him should i tell him after school or before school because tomorrow we have English together and we hang out during lunch so it would be awkward if I told.k before school but if I do it after ... Idk I need your opinion of when I should tell him.

Anyone please I need to know before tomorrow what I should do!!

I think that telling him straight up you like him would be awkward during the middle of the day, so wait until afterwards. First, start up a conversation beforehand. Good luck!

[kafka]

omaigod.

So I actually got the guts to ask him to the dance, face to face (and we're both these super shy, awkward creatures, just saying).
And the thing is, he didn't exactly say yes, but he didn't say no either. It went like this:



me: hey, Matthew.
him: hm?
me: are you going to the formal?
him: um, i don't know yet.
me: ... because i was wondering if you'd like to go with me.
him: /smiles/ ... i don't know if i'm going.
me: well, tell me if you do, okay?
him: okay.



Now I'm just extremely jittery on the inside, because one, I'm proud of myself for overcoming my shyness, and two, according to my friends in his class, when he got back after our meeting, he was smiling. I know he's not guaranteed to go with me, or go at all, but I just feel really good right now ♒

[DraconisSumeris]

I ... i really dont know what to think anymore. I dont know what to feel, im just... confused.... the guy i have a major crush on, tells me today that he thinks humiliating people is funny. Me being a large victum to public humiliation and bullies, i dont take well to it. It pains me dearly that he thinks this... it makes me think that he is exacly what ive been running from all my life... i have physical and mental scars from my whole life, as this us the only year ive not been majorly bullied... and then the guy i like is a bully... i dont know... if i should talk to him about it, maybe make him see what he does to people, or avoid him entirely... help?