Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[frye]

My crush stares at me a lot, as it I see him hanging out with lots of other girls, I want to make myself stand out more, to show him I'm different from them, how could I do that? *thinks*

[myshka]

So me and my crush (we both know we like each other,,) play minecraft and Skype together, but since I'm at a slightly different school, I don't get to see him and it's a bit awkward.. How do I break the awkward tension?

[fuzzyanni12]

My crush stares at me a lot, as it I see him hanging out with lots of other girls, I want to make myself stand out more, to show him I'm different from them, how could I do that? *thinks*

This is what I did with k I talked to him about what he likes a lot during class and try to hang out with his friends and now we hang out all the time . Try to do more stuff with him just talk about what he likes I can't stress that enough and just be nice .

[r.ddler]

Umm, so I've posted before,
all it was really was a rant. But I'm realizing how much
I like these guys, or how much I'm tricking myself into liking them.
My mind takes on a Placebo affect, if I say something, and dwell on it,
my mind makes it fact. No if, ands, or buts, if I say I like someone, I do. It always happens.
And, well, I like my ex. Of course I still do, the only reason I dumped him was because there were so many rumors about
him liking someone else. And well, knowing him it was probably true, he was a year younger than me, and a boy. In a whole
different school, and two grades below me, so he was embarrassed about dating me, the antisocial bully. And
well... I cut it off so I wasn't chaining him down, so he could flirt shamelessly around everywhere, whether I was
watching or not, now he was aloud to flutter around. And... now he's talking to me again, trying to get
my attention. But I also really like one of my good friends. Never met him in real life,
but hey! Why not, he seems very nice, and trustworthy. I haven't even tried testing my boundaries, of what I can, or can not do around him. But I already have pre-concieved ideas of what he may approve of or not. And really, I've already
confronted him about my feelings. I thought I actually loved him. I don't know if it's true, and...
and now I don't know if he likes me or not. Just a week ago he said I was just a good friend.

(Me and my internet buddy, the one I like, have two OC's that are a couple, so sometimes
we send little cute love notes, but now... I'm not sure if it's the OC messages, just a friendly I Love You, or
if he Love, Loves me. I'm fighting internally on whether I should ask or not.)

I could really use some help ;-;

[fuzzyanni12]

So me and my crush (we both know we like each other,,) play minecraft and Skype together, but since I'm at a slightly different school, I don't get to see him and it's a bit awkward.. How do I break the awkward tension?

Invite him over and hang out with some other friends and watch a movie or play games and I would probably tell him you things are a little off than normal Mabey he's having a hard time

[P0RTLAND]

Do you ever just bounce from one crush to the other? Like, "I like that person," one week, then "madly in love" the next, but you never really fall in love? But then you meet someone, you fall in love, Oh, great, just another puppy dog crush.. again. But no, this feeling lasts for months, and months. I do hope I'm not the only one. I'm super insecure about my appearance but I do want to seem more outgoing and confident around others, especially people I truly want to impress. I also want to stay being myself in the process, I don't want to fake it, then have them assume I'm someone I'm not in the end? This is a major dilemma, I'll use any advice I can get!

[EclipticChaos]

Why do I feel like no one cares about me? Every girl that said they liked me eventually said "Go to hell."
But they leave me wondering, "what'do I do?"
And the more I think about it the more unfine I feel, I feel like everyone I talk to is lying, well not everyone but something close to that... Everyone lies to my face about what'd they do if I did different things...

[thunderofthedrum]

Do you ever just bounce from one crush to the other? Like, "I like that person," one week, then "madly in love" the next, but you never really fall in love? But then you meet someone, you fall in love, Oh, great, just another puppy dog crush.. again. But no, this feeling lasts for months, and months. I do hope I'm not the only one. I'm super insecure about my appearance but I do want to seem more outgoing and confident around others, especially people I truly want to impress. I also want to stay being myself in the process, I don't want to fake it, then have them assume I'm someone I'm not in the end? This is a major dilemma, I'll use any advice I can get!

Nah, you make sense. What you want is to be more confident and ultimately more comfortable with yourself. Not to change yourself entirely. There is a huge difference. I've definitely come a long ways in being comfortable with myself, being more mature, being less nervous with meeting new people, etc. Granted, I don't go up and talk to people, but if someone approaches me I no longer panic or get super nervous - they are just a person, and I can say hi, introduce myself, answer their questions and return some of my own, etc. Not a big deal. Being more comfortable in your own skin takes a long time and in a lot of ways you just go with that phrase "fake it til you make it". Practice being how you want to be, strive for that, and after a while it won't take much effort and will feel more natural.

I know that's not simple advice, but you are totally normal in my opinion.

[r.ddler]

Why do I feel like no one cares about me? Every girl that said they liked me eventually said "Go to hell."
But they leave me wondering, "what'do I do?"
And the more I think about it the more unfine I feel, I feel like everyone I talk to is lying, well not everyone but something close to that... Everyone lies to my face about what'd they do if I did different things...

Most of the time, it's because the girl is ashamed she had
a crush in the first place. And if they're telling you to go to hell, and you don't
know what you did, you are either royally stupid, or the girls aren't worth a half-cent. They
would've stomped on you anyhow. Don't take it harshly bro. Most females (if they're anything like me)
have strange crushes, and get stomped on. So somehow the make the connection that somehow
this other guy (you) may have done something, or they just blame you for making them do what made the problem
start. You shouldn't take girls to heart until you're a bit into your twenties. They don't learn until about then.
Then again, I'm just a puny little teenager, who is un-experienced in actual love, I keep getting rejected. ;-;

[EclipticChaos]

I've always been rejected, in the most awkward places...