ಠ_ಠ wrote:Just wanted to say thank you all for your advice, I finally got the courage to ask her out, and she said yes! Although a few people teased is because we are both girls, we both know that we should just ignore them because we love eachother. (:
surfiez wrote:Does anyone have that one crush who makes you feel… just… ahh… /)^~^(\ literally my life and I think he might like me back because he always gives me his waves and rides behind me when we surf and he always high fives me and is really nice. I mean idk if he likes me or not… he came to a surf contest for me and he gave his friend a strange smile when we went on the same wave… any opinions?
LPSVampires1228 wrote:Okay, I dated a guy before and I have had many crushes on people so I pretty much am experienced with this stuff:
Here comes the long rant for me!
My first major crush: Was a basketball player who was pretty much liked by all the girls in the school. He was so hot and the most funniest guy on the planet. Don't get me wrong but sometimes he could be rude, but he wasn't rude at all to me.
So how did I start to like this guy is the question. Well he was in a lot of my core classes and his locker was right next to me. It wasn't hard to miss him. In several of those classes he sat near me or next to me and pretty much I had some major, butterfly-lifting, stomach lurching, crush on him. I liked him for almost a year o-o Girls would like some guy for a long time and won't stop liking them. Usually from my perspective girls can sometimes stalk guys with social accounts or find information about you somehow so they don't seem to be left out in a conversation with you. Every time they talk to their crush, their heart will probably accelerate super fast, they would blush like a tomato, and their voice will shake. Sometimes they get so nervous they say the wrong things. They feel like they are overwhelmed and just want to melt like puddy in your hands. Yeah o-o This is only if they have a major, huge, crush on you.
Yes I did all this around this guy. His name was Rhys I forgot to mention. Not Rice, but pronounced like Reese. What else? Oh yeah, girls would do huge mistakes around their crush on accident and when people say they like that guy they would get really mad with you and start to push themselves to the limits to get this guy first. Yes, jealousy is the word. If they are shy, they would just be uncomfortable by this. Depends on the person and personality.
Oh and yes. Girls would want to keep it a secret away from their crush that they like them even though it's obvious. And sooner or later if you ask them who their crush is they are going to tell you or give at least hints to the person who asks. If their crush asks they are going to say NO! and run away possibly.
For girls: Guys are hard to read o-o
Okay, back to story time for me. So I liked Rhys for like forever. He would always tease me and give me nicknames. Like he told me I was his little peach! Heart warming moment <3 I even had dreams about him .-. Until during the middle of the year sooner, he liked me back! HAPPY DAY! It was a rumor of course, (don't believe them they will mess you up. I will show you why.) Okay so all that people saying that they had a crush on him... blah,blah,blah I got jealous. All that I said above happened. Yes, I stalked him, this was my first crush and all first crushes are usually not going to work out! Your going to mess up and it's your first time! Sorry it's reality. So then the worst day happened. One of my best friends claimed to have told my crush I liked him and spread rumors around the whole school. I got so mad that I texted him... "Hey, I need to tell you something," And then, I told him... I was scared he wouldn't like me ever again. I was deathly scared. Now this is why you don't believe in things without knowing for sure!
Okay your wondering what happened? Alright, so I told my friend about my crush and this evil girl who likes him back. She's just evil... (Rhys hates her too) Now this is when my mistake comes in from frustration. I showed her a picture of them by sending a text to her. I asked her 5 minutes later if she got them... She said no. And when I looked back at the pictures, I sent it to him!
I know, ouch right? We all make mistakes. I didn't go to school in the morning, but came in later. After that day, I didn't like him again, knowing he was going to hate me forever. I tried to figure out how to delete them but nothing worked. It was my worst day ever. Happy days will go to bad soon. I still don't like him to this day.
Now girls, be careful out there! I later found out how much of a jerk he was. He was just perserving my feelings. And of course jocks are usually rude. I said usually! Not always! I knew he was going to break my heart some day and I'm actually glad I don't like him. But sometimes a little voice inside me says, "You could have been his girlfriend if you didn't send that text!
But anyway, just be careful who you like. It always doesn't matter about looks but it's also about their personality. I had a boyfriend later at the end of the year after that. He was a very great guy to hang out with. (Lol I broke up with him later .-.) So now I'm a loner again and I'm proud of it! Guys will not always make you happy! And to be honest don't get your life totally involved in a guy, because if they break your heart your going to be mentally shut down. I learned this, and I experienced it and now I know I can try again with a better way of handling this.
Anybody have any questions about dating, guys, or girls? I have a bunch of information to help you with because it's not all in this forum! Private Message me if you want some helpful advice. I've been in the same road as you! I've dated, I've been heart broken, I've broken up with people, and I learned the ways of crushes and finding out if they like you. So go ahead and PM me if you want help with all this love stuff xD
Wow, this forum was interestingly fun to post on. I love ranting XD Thanks for posting this!
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