Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ayeo]

so I need a little help here~

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theres this guy from a different high school that I've been keeping an eye on, and I can't help but feel so nervous whenever he comes up in a conversation. but not in the way you think.

What happened is I told my friend that I personally think this guy is really attractive, cute and funny. but not long after I told her, she decided to tell a whole bunch of other people? I mean, Im not upset about that. I honestly don't care.

Its just that Im nervous that he might think Im weird because of it? Im not sure if he found out about it or not, and most people tell me he shouldn't be weirded out, because apparently not that many people find him attractive?

I told them that first) what they said wasn't very nice.
second) Im that type of person who looks at the bad side of a situation before the good side.

so pretty much, I get myself all riled up about it, give myself panic attacks and then find out that this person may have been thinking the complete opposite. (In a good way, of course)

Also, Im moving highschools either next year, or next semester. My parents aren't sure yet, but Im scared Im going to walk into the class, they'll introduce me and O (thats what I'll call him) will just think "Oh." but in a grossed out way, ya know?

Alot of my friends told me just act confident about it.

If someone points it out and O's standing right there, tell him.
Just respond with "Hell yeah! Hes fine as hell!"

They told me that he would think its funny, maybe even cute rather then "thats weird!"
I don't know if they're right or not, but how should I react when Im put in a situation like that?

where my thoughts on him (those being hes really attractive and stuff) are laid out on the table, and O's one of the people hearing it?

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Im sorry If this post doesn't make sense! Im currently moving rooms, and that means my laptop is packed away somewhere in my old room.

so in other words, Im on mobile and its hard to type on this little phone of mine. ;n;
I also apologize for any grammar mistakes or typos.
Those come often when Im typing on my phone. xD

[gwanu]

Reply to post above, codeword: O

You should be confident and believe in yourself. You always need to know that it is not important what others think, and when they say that O is not so attractive, it only matters what you think of him to you. It usually comes across as cute, so I suppose he wouldn't be so weirded out, guys don't usually get weirded out. In. The worst case he'd just ignore it.
Have you spoken to him??
How does he act around you??

You shouldn't feel so pressured about it, nor should you overthink it, it's a whole natural thing that comes with everything, and even if he finds out, so what? It can only be good for you. If he doesn't like you back, you have more time to get over him. But if he likes you back then you have a huge chance and you would get what you possibly wanted.

You should be confident around him, because guys like confident girls, who can stand for themself. Then they can see along with your many qualities also that you can be brave enough to say your feelings out. It's much easier once you've told a person you like them.
If he doesn't like you when you come into class, the only thing that you can let him do is just lightly poke your heart.
Show him you're better then that if he infact ends up being one of those guys.

[olivionary]

[list]So, I had a crush on this guy at school and I told my best friend. Then a couple days later she asked me to come round, as soon as she said that I knew that he a) didn't like me back, b) had a crush on someone else or c) she had a crush on him and him on her. She told me he didn't like me but a girl in their history class - I knew instantly it was her but everytime I asked, she'd say ew.

Now she's dating him. A week after I told her that I had a crush on him they started dating. But, she goes through guys like dominoes fall to be perfectly honest.

I have every right to feel betrayed by her, don't I?

[Dia.]

[list]So, I had a crush on this guy at school and I told my best friend. Then a couple days later she asked me to come round, as soon as she said that I knew that he a) didn't like me back, b) had a crush on someone else or c) she had a crush on him and him on her. She told me he didn't like me but a girl in their history class - I knew instantly it was her but everytime I asked, she'd say ew.

Now she's dating him. A week after I told her that I had a crush on him they started dating. But, she goes through guys like dominoes fall to be perfectly honest.

I have every right to feel betrayed by her, don't I?

When I was in 8th grade, I had this same situation.
Except she was never my best friend.
And when she asked him out, he said no.

I was so mad at her, especially since the day before, I told her, and she said she wouldn't be asking him out.
She went through 36 boyfriends that school year.
That's not something to be proud of.

Yes, you have every right to feel betrayed by her, but you also can't let this ruin your friendship.

[JustDucky]

I trust him, but apparently he took his ex-girlfriend to lunch yesterday. He says nothing happened, and even though they were the only ones in the car he made her sit in the back seat. He told me that he don't think of her of his ex-girlfriend anymore, and he don't have problems with her, which is why he agreed to take her. He says he doesn't have feelings for anyone other than me, and if it really bothered me he wouldn't talk to her anymore. Should I believe him? I was out of town when this happened, so I don't know what to think. A good friend of mine told me about it, and she said she didn't think anything happened.

[olivionary]

[list]So, I had a crush on this guy at school and I told my best friend. Then a couple days later she asked me to come round, as soon as she said that I knew that he a) didn't like me back, b) had a crush on someone else or c) she had a crush on him and him on her. She told me he didn't like me but a girl in their history class - I knew instantly it was her but everytime I asked, she'd say ew.

Now she's dating him. A week after I told her that I had a crush on him they started dating. But, she goes through guys like dominoes fall to be perfectly honest.

I have every right to feel betrayed by her, don't I?

When I was in 8th grade, I had this same situation.
Except she was never my best friend.
And when she asked him out, he said no.

I was so mad at her, especially since the day before, I told her, and she said she wouldn't be asking him out.
She went through 36 boyfriends that school year.
That's not something to be proud of.

Yes, you have every right to feel betrayed by her, but you also can't let this ruin your friendship.

I haven't, even though I don't understand how she expects me to be perfectly happy third wheeling with them. xD Then again I mustn't have been her first choice to have gone - I personally don't think that she has ever had much consideration to how I feel anyway.

[Dia.]

I trust him, but apparently he took his ex-girlfriend to lunch yesterday. He says nothing happened, and even though they were the only ones in the car he made her sit in the back seat. He told me that he don't think of her of his ex-girlfriend anymore, and he don't have problems with her, which is why he agreed to take her. He says he doesn't have feelings for anyone other than me, and if it really bothered me he wouldn't talk to her anymore. Should I believe him? I was out of town when this happened, so I don't know what to think. A good friend of mine told me about it, and she said she didn't think anything happened. :/

If he told you about it, and said he wouldn't do it again if it bothered you, I wouldn't think too much about it.
If it becomes a reoccurring thing, yes, maybe you should be a little concerned.
But if you trust him, and feel like he is being honest with you, don't worry.

[JustDucky]

I trust him, but apparently he took his ex-girlfriend to lunch yesterday. He says nothing happened, and even though they were the only ones in the car he made her sit in the back seat. He told me that he don't think of her of his ex-girlfriend anymore, and he don't have problems with her, which is why he agreed to take her. He says he doesn't have feelings for anyone other than me, and if it really bothered me he wouldn't talk to her anymore. Should I believe him? I was out of town when this happened, so I don't know what to think. A good friend of mine told me about it, and she said she didn't think anything happened.

If he told you about it, and said he wouldn't do it again if it bothered you, I wouldn't think too much about it.
If it becomes a reoccurring thing, yes, maybe you should be a little concerned.
But if you trust him, and feel like he is being honest with you, don't worry.

He wasn't the one who told me about it, but he didn't try and deny or lie about it either. Thanks you for your opinion.

[Bluemare40]

[list]So, I had a crush on this guy at school and I told my best friend. Then a couple days later she asked me to come round, as soon as she said that I knew that he a) didn't like me back, b) had a crush on someone else or c) she had a crush on him and him on her. She told me he didn't like me but a girl in their history class - I knew instantly it was her but everytime I asked, she'd say ew.

Now she's dating him. A week after I told her that I had a crush on him they started dating. But, she goes through guys like dominoes fall to be perfectly honest.

I have every right to feel betrayed by her, don't I?

When I was in 8th grade, I had this same situation.
Except she was never my best friend.
And when she asked him out, he said no.

I was so mad at her, especially since the day before, I told her, and she said she wouldn't be asking him out.
She went through 36 boyfriends that school year.
That's not something to be proud of.

Yes, you have every right to feel betrayed by her, but you also can't let this ruin your friendship.

I haven't, even though I don't understand how she expects me to be perfectly happy third wheeling with them. xD Then again I mustn't have been her first choice to have gone - I personally don't think that she has ever had much consideration to how I feel anyway.

I'm sorry to hear about that. Yeah, you can't let it ruin your friendship (if you still want to be friends, which I'm assuming from your previous post that you want to.) Have you talked to her about it? Maybe just tell her how you feel, then if she understands maybe she can apologize? I wish you the best of luck!

[claws990p]

so i think im lucky to just have 1 guy ...( cause i think im kinda ugly i guess)
but i found out so many people like me ....how do i tell them i have somone .....but cant prove it cause its long distnce .....help me