Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Nekko.bat ♥]

I've had the strangest, most confusing friendship for the last few months. My best friend treats me like a sister, or at least he did....sometimes he'll brag about the girls he's been hooking up with or flirting with, and sometimes he'll flirt with me and hint that he wants to be with me, but then he gets all upset and put off when I mention an ex or someone who flirted with me that day or something. He's kinda different every day, sometimes he'll change within the hour. It's a painful cycle of butterflies in my stomach and crashing glass in my heart when he talks about other girls.
This evening, about an hour or so ago, he told me I mean more than anything to him and he can't stop thinking about me. He called me babe o.o He kissed my nose. Gawsh, what in the world is even happening? Bleck. I'm so confused and just ugh.

[Smoogiepie]

I feel like I'm gonna be alone forever. Why's it so hard to find someone I can relate with.

[vulture,]

So, I just wanted to do a little rant for myself since I've been keeping rather quiet on the matter of my crush situation.

I've told my friends outright that I like him and they declared that we would be an amazing couple. Whenever I'm talking to him, my friends just give me that smug look and I have to shoo them away before they say something dumb. It seems like I run into Purple more and more every day. He's asked what my schedule is and will walk me to my class after our club meeting. Sometimes he will insist that I walk around with him during lunch and we will just talk and mess around. We are locker neighbors, so we get to talk almost every morning unless one of us has gotten our timing off. I've noticed him standing closer to me when we talk than normal. He will still occasionally put a hand on my shoulder or arm, sometimes even my knee if we're sitting. Today I walked past him in the hall and went to smack his hat off of his head. Apparently he had seen me without be realizing it and he snatched my wrist and grabbed me in a sort of unconventional hug. It was totally awkward since he was with a group of friends and I was with a group of friends, but I also wanted to squeal like a little kid that was just handed a lollipop.

I think other people are starting to notice things too. Guys that were previously acting as though they were flirting with me have backed off. One of my teachers always asks me what Purple is up to, since we are often together. When we're together, girls that I would normally see him talking to tend to shy away.

I'm pretty certain he's got some inkling of feelings for me, if not then he's a darn friendly person, and I know he knows I like him. He plays on that quite a bit, knowing how to make me blush (which is not hard to begin with), and trying to encourage me to do something because he will be there. I'm just not sure who will be the one to make the move. I'm so self conscious when it comes to these things that I can't put on my big girl pants and just ask him out already. I'm hoping he will, but I know that's a one way ticket to disappointment. If worse comes to worse, I will ask him to whatever that dance is where girls are supposed to ask guys.

[LYKOICXDED]

I have no idea what to do.

So there's this guy that I dork around with in a bunch of class periods throughout the day. My friends say he likes me, but then, they don't take in the fact that this guy and I have been friends since 2nd grade. Today he was acting rather antsy, since sits just a few days before a dance. And while I was getting a drink, he looks at me, pokes me and goes "Save some for the whales." With this derpy smile on his face. Can't be sure if this was flirting or not, but whatever. What factors should I think about, if he really does like me or not?

[GIGABITE]

It's very difficult for me to find a relationship, apparently
Really I need it in my life; some kind of stability. Someone who will actually care for me, since all of my friends have other friends and I'm of the lowest priority
But for whatever reason, every crush I get is a flop. This only further stresses me and simply adds to my weird emotional state. This whole relationship thing is just not happening for me for a while, I suppose
I still admire people, however, even though at this point I just don't try anymore

[pizzas and scream]

So I've had many crushes before, but this one is different. We used to go to school together, but I moved four years ago. We barely spoke in school and when we did it was usually very unpleasant. He was rude and continually bullied me and my friends. He friended me on Facebook a few months ago and we started talking. He apologized for all the mean things he had done and so did I. I gave him my number and we became friends quickly, but then I started to actually have feelings for him. A few days after I realized my feelings he told me about his. I told him mine as well, but we aren't dating. We are starting to hang out again to get to know each other more. I hung out with him for the first time on Halloween. We just walked around by his house and talked about our lives. It was simple but really nice. When he dropped me off at home he asked to hug me. It took me by surprise because no one had ever asked for a hug before. They usually just go for it. I found it really sweet and gentlemen like. I agreed and we hugged. It was a quick hug but it left me weak in the knees. No one has ever been able to effect me in such a way before. We talk almost every night, mostly on snapchat or texting. Tonight we were having a normal conversation and I asked him what he was doing. He replied with "watching tv and thinking about you." It made me smile, blush, and get butterflies in my stomach, something that's never happened to me before. I always thought I would hate the feeling of being in love. I've seen couples fighting constantly, ruining others lives with it and I never wanted to go through that. Now that I think I'm in love I like it. I love the feeling of my stomach twisting in knots at the thought of him. I love the weak feeling I get in my knees when I see him. it's such a strange yet wonderful feeling and I hope everyone gets to experience it once in their lives.

Awwww, that is such a sweet story!!! You sound so happy ^^
You know, when a guy bullies a girl, they usually like them? Yeah, guys are so strange sometimes!
But seriously though, that is so cute!!! I hope you guys remain happy together! (Hope I can find something like that too one day hehe .)

when the people belive that, it makes me think I should "torture" any guy I might fancy. even if "boys be mean to you because they are raised wrong to be agressive and macho, so they don't know how to be sweet to the girls they like"
so you know. I'd be mock agressive and downright terrorfying to go "hey baby *purrrrrr* I like you you snivling little feckless wonder, nice body you got there. part of me wants to hug it or smack it with a stick, you look cute but a little stupid. intellegence is attrative but I guess I can deal with that. what websites are you on? I'll playfully troll you to show you my feelings of want-to-be-in-love"


and as for the thing about subcounsious brains and dreams.
I hardly drempt of anyone. maybe a few times, and it was a casual dream, like I was trying to deliver a message.
but I don't even have dreams with characters I like. like "I had a wonderful dream Sam Winchester was my boyfriend," I did have a 10th Doctor dream, but it involved me throwing ball pit balls at him(ball pit and he seperated by netting) and being cranky about teloporting via "rainbow bubble land" and how hard it is.

so it sad that way and I guess saying "can't romance, don't even dream it"

[Pyrrha Nikos]

Okay, so I have finally succeeded in figuring out my crush liked me, and I told him I liked him. The unfortunate part? This all happend over text and neither me or him wanted it to go down this way. He told me that he didn't want to ask me out over text, which I eagerly agreed with. Problem is..there have been plenty opportunities to ask me out in person now and he hasn't taken them. I don't want to be pushy or anything, but I really do want to date him. Advice please? Thanks

[Pulsefire]

Somebody might recognize me and my problem, but I need help again.

I've been secretly liking a guy for quite a while but there's another girl in my class who flirts with him and everything. Long story short, it's killing me. I can't find the guts to tell him how I feel because I'm positive he sees me nothing more than a cool classmate. It'd be pretty embarrassing if I already know that my confession will only make things awkward between us. That other girl's cuter and seems more "fun" to talk to than I am. I honestly feel miserable and this issue is destroying my self-esteem.

So, um. You guys know how to get over someone quick and as painless as possible? I can't find a way to contain jealousy.

Honestly I had this problem with a girl i feel in love with. Then had some complications and we slit apart after dating. Someone once told me is to accept within yourself to move on, you must move on within yourself with your feelings if you expect to move on with the other person. Time will tell. Waiting and the patience is hard but eventually... eventually you will be ok. I guarantee. You can PM me if you want to talk directly.

[LightningAsuna]

Okay, so I have finally succeeded in figuring out my crush liked me, and I told him I liked him. The unfortunate part? This all happend over text and neither me or him wanted it to go down this way. He told me that he didn't want to ask me out over text, which I eagerly agreed with. Problem is..there have been plenty opportunities to ask me out in person now and he hasn't taken them. I don't want to be pushy or anything, but I really do want to date him. Advice please? Thanks

at this point if you really want to go out and dont want to be to pushy the best way is to ask him out. asking him out seems less pushy then bringing dating up in conversation.

[kotalicious]

I get to hang out with my crush tomorrow after school I'm so nervous. I've only been on two dates before and they were both awkward as sin. He told me last night that he wants to kiss me. He asked me if it would be okay if he kissed me while we were hanging out. I gave him permission to, but now I'm nervous. I've only been kissed twice, both by a boy I didn't like. I didn't kiss back so I pretty much have no kissing experience. What if he thinks I'm a horrible kisser and doesn't like me anymore? I'm like pulling my hair out thinking about it.
I also have a question to those who do have experience with kissing. Most people say they feel sparks when they kiss someone they really like. I felt nothing when that guy kissed me. So is it true that you feel sparks or something like that or is it just nothing?