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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Phan; » Thu Oct 30, 2014 3:06 pm

I need a lot of help..

Me and my boyfriend were voted as 1# best couple in the school, written in my yearbook last year. Then, we won prom king and queen. As well as the homecoming king and queen. (Lol idk why) He always texted me saying he loves me and always tells me that when i sit on the bus. We walk down the halls holding hands, and then break apart because he's a couple of lockers away from mine. But after a while I noticed something. He stopped texting me, when he sat next to me on the bus he was super uncomfortable, when we held hands it would only last about a minute until he started sweating and let go. I don't understand... Is he just nervous around me cause he likes me so much? Or is something up? Please help :c
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby JustMeHere » Thu Oct 30, 2014 3:11 pm

So this friend, let's call him K. So K and I met this year at the beginning the school year. He's really and I could date him -and that's rare coming from me, im kind of antisocial. But he's a sweetheart.
I'm not agree if he likes me or not (as more than a friend). Some times he compliments me. He's complimented my shoes, how clear my skin , and often that I always,smell good-apparently like banana taffee (spelt that wrong sorry). We talk a lot and hang out but I just don't know. Any ideas? Thanks :)
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Phan; » Thu Oct 30, 2014 3:18 pm

Oh! I have a really helpful tip!

If the boy/girl you have a crush on asks you out, there are somethings you can do so it makes you more desirable.

. Stand up tall. (Yes I know this sounds weird but slouching over and just huffing out "yes" makes you look like a lazy slob, and if you like him a lot, your goal is to get him to kiss you. And obviously, no one wants to make out with a mess >.<)
. Without clearing your throat, make your voice bold. (Clearing your voice makes you sound like your too shy to speak up, thats why usually you clear your throat when the teacher calls on you and you were not paying attention. You also don't wanna sound like a pipsqueak when you answer. The first time i was asked out, i went: Yes and he said: "Pardin?" Like really. What's wrong with me o3o But anyway, don't fail like I did XD)
. Take a silent, deep breath and take the jump! (Make sure your not sweating cause you look really gross. Have confidence. You can do it!

. One thing else, please do not say: Are you joking? or "Is this a prank?" Ect. (Like oh my god please do not do that. It totally makes it awkward cause he's like: "If i say i'm not joking, will she say no?" and your like "Please don't let this be a joke.." and then your just standing there studdering. I've seen this happen tons of times and it just pains me. :C
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby JustMeHere » Thu Oct 30, 2014 3:21 pm

That's very helpful, thank you. I'm usually loud around him, but sometimes I can come off as shy or slouching.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Phan; » Thu Oct 30, 2014 11:32 pm

JustMeHere wrote:That's very helpful, thank you. I'm usually loud around him, but sometimes I can come off as shy or slouching.

Glad that helped C: It even helped me show my bf who's the boss o3o
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ardentsongbird » Fri Oct 31, 2014 8:37 am

•Spooky Wolfie• wrote:Crazy thing had happened yesterday 0-0

Starting off, I heard my crush, M, had a girlfriend. Of course, I was upset. I ask my friends if they would be upset if they found out their crush had a girlfriend, and they said yes. Afterwards, I am waiting outside my class room door, waiting for the teacher. My half-cousin, D (( he's a guy )), asks if something was wrong. Since he didn't know whom my crush was, and I told him it was M. Then, M starts coming around the corner, and I tell D not to tell him. Of course, M was close friends with D. Then, J, (( another friend )) quickly walks over to M, and I don't know what she asks him. Then, D follows. We were allowed to enter the room, so I sat on the corner and on the floor, since we didn't have chairs that day. Anyway, after that D, M, and DJ (( a guy I have a small crush on )) comes and sits beside me. They have their own conversation, and I just listen. M turns to me and asks me, " Are you still depressed? " and I nodded. He chuckled lightly and turns back to him friends. The teacher calls him to do something, and when he got back, he leaned on my knee...
It was so unexpected, since he never sat so close to me, even if he didn't have a choice. Then, D and DJ asked if I had a boyfriend, and I replied, " No. I never had one. "
D then asks if he wanted to go out with him, and I couldn't help but laugh a little. I said, " Are we half-cousins? " I knew he was joking, since he already had a girlfriend. He laughed and replied, " Oh. Well, I don't follow laws! "

Anyway, since I can text M, should I text him? I'm afraid I would come off as weird for trying to talk to him. Also, it would awkward since we have nothing to talk about...

Any Advice? c:
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Postby global concepts » Fri Oct 31, 2014 8:59 am

•Spooky Wolfie• wrote:
•Spooky Wolfie• wrote:Crazy thing had happened yesterday 0-0

Starting off, I heard my crush, M, had a girlfriend. Of course, I was upset. I ask my friends if they would be upset if they found out their crush had a girlfriend, and they said yes. Afterwards, I am waiting outside my class room door, waiting for the teacher. My half-cousin, D (( he's a guy )), asks if something was wrong. Since he didn't know whom my crush was, and I told him it was M. Then, M starts coming around the corner, and I tell D not to tell him. Of course, M was close friends with D. Then, J, (( another friend )) quickly walks over to M, and I don't know what she asks him. Then, D follows. We were allowed to enter the room, so I sat on the corner and on the floor, since we didn't have chairs that day. Anyway, after that D, M, and DJ (( a guy I have a small crush on )) comes and sits beside me. They have their own conversation, and I just listen. M turns to me and asks me, " Are you still depressed? " and I nodded. He chuckled lightly and turns back to him friends. The teacher calls him to do something, and when he got back, he leaned on my knee...
It was so unexpected, since he never sat so close to me, even if he didn't have a choice. Then, D and DJ asked if I had a boyfriend, and I replied, " No. I never had one. "
D then asks if he wanted to go out with him, and I couldn't help but laugh a little. I said, " Are we half-cousins? " I knew he was joking, since he already had a girlfriend. He laughed and replied, " Oh. Well, I don't follow laws! "

Anyway, since I can text M, should I text him? I'm afraid I would come off as weird for trying to talk to him. Also, it would awkward since we have nothing to talk about...

Any Advice? c:


      i think you should text him, just ask a question like, "hey m, do you know what the homework is in [school subject] and then just continue the conversation from there! if the conversation starts to die down or he doesn't answer just say you have to go or something so that it doesn't turn into a chore or be boring to text him. good luck. c:
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby EclipticChaos » Fri Oct 31, 2014 9:03 am

The Grim Reaper wrote:M's Mother told me to stay away, but I can't. At all.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Horsegirlmadison » Fri Oct 31, 2014 9:18 am

My parents made my boyfriend and i break up because they don't like him. Not only do they not like him because of his race(which is really messed up.), but he is a couple years older than me. They told him we had to break up and he isnt allowed to talk to me anymore. I'm really upset about it and i don't know what to do.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Tyrannidae » Fri Oct 31, 2014 9:21 am

XD I'm new to this thread, but here goes.

I like this guy who, from what I've gathered, likes me back.
Today in class we were doing a scavenger hunt of sorts using GPS to find objects we had hidden the previous day.
I had hidden my pet rock, and lo and behold, his group finds it.
When we were back in the classroom (he sits next to me) he told me how intrigued he was by my rock.
I told him that it was my pet rock, and he then asked if it could do tricks.
Sarcastically, then, I said,
"Yes, it can stand still very well."
and he reacted in the best way possible.
(In my opinion, of course XD)
He took the rock and set it on a desk about 5 ft away and "told it" to stay, then took two steps back and announced,
"This is amazing! I have never seen anything like this before!"
Then he picked it up and handed it back to me saying,
"That is one well trained rock, my friend."
I couldn't help but blush.

Later that day I saw him after school, and I thought,
Here's my chance to ask him!
But then my grandpa pulled up and I had to go.
He was outside at the same time I was and yelled after me,
"Bye [my name] and Jennifer!" (My rock's name.)
And I waved back.

My problem is that I cannot figure out how or when to ask him, since he's always surrounded by his friends, some of which are girls, and the only few times I see him are in crowded conditions.
I really only want to know if he likes me back, but I don't like awkward situations.
Any suggestions?
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