Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[DraconisSumeris]

Owo

Ok, so ive liked this one dude in my marching band, ill call him timpani because thats his main instrament.
But, yea, we are really good friends. He is a year or so older then me, but a junior while im a freshie. I really like him, and i think he might like me too, because my friend bre, invited me and him, and a couple other people to her birthday party. In the beginning, he took his jacket off and gave it to bre. Bre didnt want it so i put it on, and kept it on for the rest of the night, he didnt mention anything, later on, we where both 'trapped' on her trampoline as he put it. So after we both are off the thing everyone decides to go back in, and i ended up twisting my ankle. By the time i made it to a couch, because no one was listening to me when i asked them to quit jostling my ankle, and took off my sock he was right next to me, asking if i was ok, and he stayed witg me untill i had to go home. And when jordan made a rude comment about how she could use her broken arm when she broke it, Timpani said "i would like to twist her ankle until she cant walk on it and see how she likes it."

So, i want to ask him out, but i have no clue what to say. Ive never asked anyone out before.

[ohdeer]

Okay well,

There's a guy in my class whom I - and almost every other girl- like. It's not that I'm mainstream or anything, but he's one of those people who just seem impossibly flawless in every way. His grades are perfect and all and he's one of the top athletes of the school, plus he's chill with everyone including the teachers. We sometimes talk about casual things but it never really gets deep, so I guess I'm just a pretty okay friend to him. People ship us for fun but I doubt nobody knows a thing.
Anyway, I just feel kind of tired of staying this way. I'm not sure if any of you know what I mean, but it's torture having to act casual and somewhat indifferent around the guy you like so nobody notices stuff. We have a few common interests but that's it.

Seriously, should I just get over him?

[EclipticChaos]

Uh... No!? It's kinda like how I felt long ago, I wanted to say or do something but didn't out of nervousness.
Just ask about it.

[JustDucky]

Okay well,

There's a guy in my class whom I - and almost every other girl- like. It's not that I'm mainstream or anything, but he's one of those people who just seem impossibly flawless in every way. His grades are perfect and all and he's one of the top athletes of the school, plus he's chill with everyone including the teachers. We sometimes talk about casual things but it never really gets deep, so I guess I'm just a pretty okay friend to him. People ship us for fun but I doubt nobody knows a thing.
Anyway, I just feel kind of tired of staying this way. I'm not sure if any of you know what I mean, but it's torture having to act casual and somewhat indifferent around the guy you like so nobody notices stuff. We have a few common interests but that's it.

Seriously, should I just get over him?

I think you should tell him. I know it sounds like torture, but you'll feel better afterwards. One of the hardest things to do is getting over someone if you're close to them, and I know from experience. You never know; he may like you back.

[Sub•Zero]

I would love to have some help.

Me and my crush, we both like eachother. I told him first but we continued chatting both in person and not, then I moved schools but we still talk on facebook. Just yesterday he told me that he liked me but the problem is, he doesn't want to hurt me. He thinks he is a bad person and I could do so much better, he told me that he has hurt a lot of other girls and he is still recovering from a relationship.
(He also wants to be in the military, this will be important later)

Now I told him that this was alright. I would not push on a relationship and it was his choice, but I would always be open if he ever changed his mind.
He said that he didn't think he would change his mind because he wanted to be in the military and those relationships are very hard to keep. He said that he did not want to hurt me, but near the end of the conversation he was unsure.
I said alright, and I'll always be there for him. Then the conversation ended.

Point is. I am not sure what I should do. Move on or not. He has strict thoughts about the military but it is more of a dream then anything else. I respect that but would he change his mind? I have doubts on both sides, I am not sure whether I should move on or wait it out...I do believe strongly that he is a very good person just in the wrong situations, making the wrong decisions. But do you think he will change his mind?

[DraconisSumeris]

Owo

Ok, so I like our timpani player in my marching band, ill call him timpani because thats his main instrament.
But, yea, we are really good friends. He is a year or so older then me, but a junior while im a freshie. I really like him, and i think he might like me too, because my friend bre, invited me and him, and a couple other people to her birthday party. In the beginning, he took his jacket off and gave it to bre. Bre didnt want it so i put it on, and kept it on for the rest of the night, he didnt mention anything, later on, we where both 'trapped' on her trampoline as he put it. So after we both are off the thing everyone decides to go back in, and i ended up twisting my ankle. By the time i made it to a couch, because no one was listening to me when i asked them to quit jostling my ankle, and took off my sock he was right next to me, asking if i was ok, and he stayed witg me untill i had to go home.and offerd to walk me to my moms car. And when jordan made a rude comment about how she could use her broken arm when she broke it, Timpani said "i would like to twist her ankle until she cant walk on it and see how she likes it."

So, i want to ask him out, but i have no clue what to say. Ive never asked anyone out before.

[moonlessnight.]

Okay, so about a month and a half ago, this guy I liked asked me out, and I said yes. Maybe after a week and a half, he broke up with me through one of his friends. Now it is a month later, and me and him were good friends still, as I couldn't see why I should be mad at him for not liking me. So anyways, we were walking and talking, and suddenly he told me why he had to break up with me; because of school. So now he asked me out and we are dating again, but i'm afraid he'll just do the same thing a few days in the future.

I'm so confused of what to do right now, as last time, he told everyone that he broke up with me, so I just don't want everyone laughing at me again if it happens again...?

[EclipticChaos]

So, there's this girl, let's call her M.
I entered a new school a month or two ago , so met a girl, M, and we've atalked since then and i took it slow.
I liked her and I wanted to ask her out, but when I finally did do something that suggested that I wanted to, she went along with it but when I got on gmail just now she said: "I think of you as an older brother."


I wanna cry and scream and curl up,in a ball.

[brandish]

I have liked this boy since Sophomore year(I'm a Junior now) and it's driving me crazy. I hate liking boys because I can't focus on my work and he is constantly on my mind. He says hi to me like 3 times a day and I think about it until I go to sleep. Would telling him make this any better or should I try to stop liking him? Please help.

This is why I prefer 2D boys.

[EclipticChaos]

I was told to stay away from M

Need help bad.