Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[kay.]

I need help. My boyfriend is mad at me. Like, he wouldn't even look at me to tell me to get away from him mad. He's upset that i tell my friends everything about our relationship. Also, he said some people were coming up to him mocking him. I have no idea what to do. I'm scared he's going to break up with me. AND I don't have my phone, its broken. So i can't text/call him at all this weekend. PLEASE HELP

My answer may not be the best because I have never had a boyfriend before, however I have lots of experience with friend's relationships, and the same thing happens over and over again. The problem a lot of my friends do is that they get into a relationship and tell everyone they see not caring about who it is, or tell 'friends' that they know very well will not be good support and will spread it. Not everyone is nice and a lot of people will tease you and your partner. The first step would be to stop telling your friends everything, as mentioned in the post above you can say some things but not literally every little detail. Word spreads easily these days, if you know your friends are not trustworthy then do not tell them the things you would not like everyone else to know. After the weekend, the first thing go to him and apologise then, and tell him you will not tell your friends everything, talk to him and work out what is alright for you to say to them and what is not, and to which ones, because maybe he trusts some of your friends more than others. If you have a very trustworthy, dependable friend that is friends with you both then you could ask them to text him over the weekend, informing you about what they say, or is there anyone that could lend you their phone? I usually become friends with my friends boyfriends, so when this happens I usually help by distracting the people that mock so they can get privacy.

I wish you luck

[JustDucky]

You can't stay mad at them if you really love them, I guess.

[claws990p]

update
i found that one person who completes me

[pizzas and scream]

I have a crush on my drum major in marching band and I'm on color guard. It's really strange because I haven't had a crush on someone since I was in probably the 5th grade (was pretty stupid too) and I'm a sophmore now so I donno what to do about it. He seems so nice and is shy at times and has a good sense of humor too but I feel we are basically strangers since he's a junior and I only get to see him once a week during pratice . I want to get to know him better but feel like I'm fighting through 10 other girls on my team who try for his attention. Plus I have no courage to flat out say to him that I like him so I feel kinda stuck. So, yeah :\

Dia's Guide to Flirting With Someone At the Front of the Field (pit percussionist, drum major, etc)
- Make eye contact
- Make goofy faces
- Do goofy things
- Flirt from a distance

My boyfriend is in pit percussion. So he's up on the timpani cart at the front of the field while I'm marching with my section and we are always making faces at each other.

That would only work if both people are very silly and young. I do not think a 35 year old woman could do that with a 47 year old man that they both know eachother from a place, and if the guy is one of those cement types of professional coolness.



For you young ones wanting to encapture your guy. Buy hi. Some shiracha mayo, maybe he will love yu for it. You feed it to him, and when he is in it's trance it give you, then make with the flirts.

[Sameen_of_Nohr]

So it official Revan {my boyfriend not his real name jst part of his username...} Is in the navy... he ships out to florida on april 2nd... i'm already a college and just being 4 hours apart is really killing me but I don't know if I can stand him 4 whole states away.... i'm so worried something is going to happen to him... I've been praying about it a lot and its the only thing keeping me sane... I've talked to him about my fears and he's tried his best to calm them, but they just don't go away...His father was going to join the army but his wife didn't want him to and she stopped him.... but they ended up so poor and they have 9 mouths to feed and the family is miserable and his parents regret their choice... his mother never really liked me said I was to boy like to independent but she is starting to warm up to me... his father didn't care one way or the other about me... but he said he's proud of me for being so brave about Revan going into the army he knows I worry but I didn't stop him... the fears I have are not just of losing him physically {moving away... death.. D': } but also that he might find someone else... or that he'll simply change and he won't be who I know and love... he says his eyes are for me and only me but I've seen the way other girls look at him... i'm not even jealous of them when they do because I know he truly loves me.. but with him being so far away... not being able to see him face to face.... or feel his warm embrace... it scares me... on top of that I've had these dreams.... I always have whether you believe in this kind of thing or not but I've had dreams before that come true... and the ones I've been having.. they feel like the same way... Revan is always so sweet and gentle he wouldn't hurt a fly.... but in the dreams I have... he's mean and abusive... and i'm scared that's what he'll become... but I trust him with my life... and I love him more than any earthly thing...I jus... don't want to lose him.... in any way shape or form.... most of you will just say oh it'll work out... but I know this already... I just wish I could stop myself from crying myself to sleep at night worrying about him... I just want to be a good wife to him... one he deserves ... one that trusts him enough that she doesn't worry or fret so much...


sorry this is so long... I just needed to get this off my chest... I would love advice... and thanks for putting up with all this drama so far...

[BostonTeaParty]

I never really thought I'd be coming on to then internet for advice on how to deal with boys because I've always been rather confident and (acted) like I knew what I was doing

Anyway, I've been best friend with this guy for five years. We actually met on a penpal website when I was 15 or so. He lived in a different country, but we met up a couple of times when I had travelled to his country and we talked every day...blah blah. Anyway, three or four years ago, I told him that I liked him and he said he liked me too, but didn't want a long-distance relationship, which I totally understood. Despite this, our friendship stayed strong.

Fast forward to this past January (2014). I came and visited him in his country for two weeks. He's a rather shy guy so I didn't know if he still liked me, but I found out he did and now that we're adults (last time I saw him, I was 16 - now I'm 19), some stuff happened between us and I knew that he still liked me. The morning that I took the train to the airport to leave, I fell asleep on his shoulder and briefly woke up to him gently kissing my forehead, which made me question how much he likes me (or I'm just being a girl and over analysing, which is totally possible, but I think if you make an effort to show affection when you know / think the other person won't even notice it, that's pretty nice).

ANYWAY; I moved to Germany this month, so now I'm only 3 hours away from him and it's rather cheap to pay for bus fare to go see him on the weekends and such. He's come to my city to see me a couple of times already, but nothing has happened between us which is killing me because I think I love him and it's like ughhhh why???

So TL;DR - do I tell him my feelings (that I love him)? Or no? Or what? I'm confused because I don't want to mess this up and I can actually see a future with him and I don't want him to be the one that got away.

Ok, sorry that was so long

[LYKOICXDED]

Help ;-;

So, there was a dance, and at the slow dances this one guy and I would dance. It was a mutual thing. But all my friends keep teasing me and pressuring me to ask him out. They can't get it through their heads that I don't like this guy as a crush. Him and I are mutual friends, that's all we'll ever be. Then there's this guy from elementary that was gone through middle school that showed up. And he had liked me and spread rumors in elementary that him and I where dating. I don't like him at ALL. Then, there is this cute guy that I sit with in Spanish and Choir (like, seriously, the funniest and kindest guy you will ever meet) and we work around and all that, I have so much fun with him. And I liked this guy in Elementary but this girl ruined my chances with him. My friends tell me he likes me the way I like him, but they don't understand, him and I have been friends since the first year of elementary. But then, I don't talk to him very much about my fandom a like Ninjago, since it's not exactly a popular show ^^;

[SoundAndVision]

I'm going,to see my crush in about an hour. I have dropped several hints that I like her and I think I'm ready to tell her,how I feel abut at the same time in not. I've never done this before.

[raezel]

I'm going,to see my crush in about an hour. I have dropped several hints that I like her and I think I'm ready to tell her,how I feel abut at the same time in not. I've never done this before.

just relax and try to keep your head; if you're stressing out about how you appear or how you're going to say things, you'll definitely end up making everything a mess. just say what's on your mind, every thought you've had about her and how you feel about her, and let everything roll off of your tongue. i wish i could say more, but i'm not entirely sure how i'd approach the situation myself. good luck!

[❌ DYNAMIGHT ❌]

mmmm, the issue with not being heterosexual ....
while it may give you a broader range of people to
admire and crush on more often than not [and especially
in the area I live in] people of the same gender just
aren't into being a relationship like that. I'm like
literally going insane.

❤️