Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Temper]

A guy that I had met a few days before had asked me out (this was about a month ago) on a piece of paper. Technically, I was supposed to check the yes or no box as to whether I was going to say yes or not, but I didn't. Having never been asked out before, I was completely flustered because I didn't know what to do and I barely knew the guy. I feel like a complete jerk for never responding to him. I found out today that he joined the same club as me and we have a bunch of the same interests. How do I start talking to him now that he probably thinks I'm a jerk too? >.<

[ardentsongbird]

I'm so happy! ^D^
So I went to Science, in which my crush has with me. Before class started, he asked me to draw a car for him. I said I couldn't, so then he asked for my Kik... 8D (( By the way Kik is a texting app for your phone ))
So, during P.I (( A break )) I gave him my user. Now, all I have to do is wait! The thing is, he asked me right in front of his best friend, which is pretty brave to me ❤
What should we talk about? I don't want our chats to get stale or anything... (:

[Beta]

@•Spooky Wolfie•

Talk about anything. But don't let the occasional silence bother you. I can assume by your post that you're of a pretty young age so don't try to rush things. Just enjoy the chats you have together, and if you both click, then so be it. If not, you'll have many other chances.

[JustDucky]

So I finally got mad, and told my boyfriend how I really feel...or sort of. I told him I was done. This is our first fight as a couple.
The past two weeks he hasn't made an effort to come see me. Now that there's alcohol involved he wants to come see me.
I don't think this will last, though. He tried to call already, and only about two hours after the fight, but when I answered it I couldn't hear him. I feel bad, but I do plan to make a point before thinking about getting back with him.
I really love him, and I gave up alot to be with him, and I don't want to lose him, too.

[claws990p]

So I finally got mad, and told my boyfriend how I really feel...or sort of. I told him I was done. This is our first fight as a couple.
The past two weeks he hasn't made an effort to come see me. Now that there's alcohol involved he wants to come see me.
I don't think this will last, though. He tried to call already, and only about two hours after the fight, but when I answered it I couldn't hear him. I feel bad, but I do plan to make a point before thinking about getting back with him.
I really love him, and I gave up alot to be with him, and I don't want to lose him, too.

he might still love you , but on the other hand he expects you to take him back ... this will repeat with drinking involed

[leslie knope]

So I finally got mad, and told my boyfriend how I really feel...or sort of. I told him I was done. This is our first fight as a couple.
The past two weeks he hasn't made an effort to come see me. Now that there's alcohol involved he wants to come see me.
I don't think this will last, though. He tried to call already, and only about two hours after the fight, but when I answered it I couldn't hear him. I feel bad, but I do plan to make a point before thinking about getting back with him.
I really love him, and I gave up alot to be with him, and I don't want to lose him, too.

he might still love you , but on the other hand he expects you to take him back ... this will repeat with drinking involed

if there is a chance of it working out, you need to tell him to stop the drinking. a relationship can be highly dangerous and could turn into some abusive if there is drinking involved (to the point of being drunk)

[Beta]

So I finally got mad, and told my boyfriend how I really feel...or sort of. I told him I was done. This is our first fight as a couple.
The past two weeks he hasn't made an effort to come see me. Now that there's alcohol involved he wants to come see me.
I don't think this will last, though. He tried to call already, and only about two hours after the fight, but when I answered it I couldn't hear him. I feel bad, but I do plan to make a point before thinking about getting back with him.
I really love him, and I gave up alot to be with him, and I don't want to lose him, too.

he might still love you , but on the other hand he expects you to take him back ... this will repeat with drinking involed

if there is a chance of it working out, you need to tell him to stop the drinking. a relationship can be highly dangerous and could turn into some abusive if there is drinking involved (to the point of being drunk)

My boyfriend was an alcoholic for the longest time but he chose to change in order to better himself. You can't break someone out of a bad habit in hope of them changing but you can help. It takes a long time, and many hardships. There will be disappointments and it's stressful for both parties. However if you believe that you can both pull through it together in order to foster a healthier relationship, then I wish you all the luck.

[keekermojo]

I have a crush on my drum major in marching band and I'm on color guard. It's really strange because I haven't had a crush on someone since I was in probably the 5th grade (was pretty stupid too) and I'm a sophmore now so I donno what to do about it. He seems so nice and is shy at times and has a good sense of humor too but I feel we are basically strangers since he's a junior and I only get to see him once a week during pratice . I want to get to know him better but feel like I'm fighting through 10 other girls on my team who try for his attention. Plus I have no courage to flat out say to him that I like him so I feel kinda stuck. So, yeah :\

[Dia.]

I have a crush on my drum major in marching band and I'm on color guard. It's really strange because I haven't had a crush on someone since I was in probably the 5th grade (was pretty stupid too) and I'm a sophmore now so I donno what to do about it. He seems so nice and is shy at times and has a good sense of humor too but I feel we are basically strangers since he's a junior and I only get to see him once a week during pratice . I want to get to know him better but feel like I'm fighting through 10 other girls on my team who try for his attention. Plus I have no courage to flat out say to him that I like him so I feel kinda stuck. So, yeah :\

Dia's Guide to Flirting With Someone At the Front of the Field (pit percussionist, drum major, etc)
- Make eye contact
- Make goofy faces
- Do goofy things
- Flirt from a distance

My boyfriend is in pit percussion. So he's up on the timpani cart at the front of the field while I'm marching with my section and we are always making faces at each other.

[huskyderp]

I have a crush on my drum major in marching band and I'm on color guard. It's really strange because I haven't had a crush on someone since I was in probably the 5th grade (was pretty stupid too) and I'm a sophmore now so I donno what to do about it. He seems so nice and is shy at times and has a good sense of humor too but I feel we are basically strangers since he's a junior and I only get to see him once a week during pratice . I want to get to know him better but feel like I'm fighting through 10 other girls on my team who try for his attention. Plus I have no courage to flat out say to him that I like him so I feel kinda stuck. So, yeah :\

Get his number and text him, its always better behind a screen, or at least for me.