Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

I'm queer. Some of my closest female friends give off a vibe that they think I'm 'in love with them.' Really. Like, they really, really think I'm head over heels for them. (I'm female)

I'm not. I wish they would stop being so icky about this sexuality thing. It's awkward. I can't lean on or spoon with my best friends because they're convinced it's sexual.

Weird thing is when I complimented my friend about her having nice legs, she thought I was a lesbian. I'm straight, some people just take things too literal or I just tend to exaggerate.

Interesting that some people are so easily made suspicious/uncomfortable. I compliment my friend's legs all the time. I find it hard to understand how some individuals can't comprehend that it could simply be a compliment without any attraction involved.

I think Rashida Jones is absolutely gorgeous and have a total girl-crush on her. Does that mean that I, personally, am attracted and would want to kiss her? Absolutely not. It's entirely possible to acknowledge someone as having nice qualities or features without feeling attracted to them.

That's just so disheartening and unfortunate to hear. -____-'

Could you imagine to start a new relationship with your ex?

I cannot believe that I'm asking this, trolol. How do you fix broken trust? Can you even..?

Depends on the people.
My trust in my ex was absolutely ruined and that bridge cannot be rebuilt.

You are probably the only one who can answer the question. Besides, we strangers on the internet have ZERO idea what happened. You haven't told us anything about it so how should we know? Better to ask someone who knows about the situation, but keep in mind they are likely biased so take their words with a grain of salt, so to speak.

[polymer]

okay how do you even meet gay people in real life? im 100% lesbian, but i have no idea how to find anyone to fall in love with. i just ended a relationship that lasted like 5 months but i had known her for two years. the ending was really rough and im kind of desperate to meet at least more people who are accepting of me/can relate to me. theres no mogai (marginalized orientations, genders, and intersex) club here either.

[global concepts]

aha oops i broke the rules ;c

[Nadine]

do you guys think two years is a big gap? -removed- ... im having mixed feelings.

Not at all! I may be biased though. Its considered weird I guess but my boyfriend is 15, two years younger. I get a lot of crap for it, called mean names like "cougar" when that doesn't even apply to such a minor age difference...

Anyways, no, maturity is much more important than age. He could be four years older than you and still be an irresponsible child.

[Nadine]

do you guys think two years is a big gap? -removed- ... im having mixed feelings.

considering that my boyfriend and i have a three year gap, i wouldn't say so. there's varying opinions about it, but imo, three and up is kind of stretching it, even though my relationship falls under that age gap range.

just think about it in terms of later in life. will it really be that big, say you two should reach that age, when you're 24 and he's 26? it's not likely. just these teenage years seem so much more dramatic in terms of age gaps.

[Nadine]

do you guys think two years is a big gap? -removed- ... im having mixed feelings.

Nah I think you should go where the heart takes you.

[Nadine]

do you guys think two years is a big gap? -removed- ... im having mixed feelings.

Not at all! I may be biased though. Its considered weird I guess but my boyfriend is 15, two years younger. I get a lot of crap for it, called mean names like "cougar" when that doesn't even apply to such a mi or age difference...

Anyways, no, maturity is much more important than age. He could be four years older than you and still be an irresponsible child.

thats what ive heard. im just worried he'll try something on me because im younger and thats what ive read and im paranoid about it. but he's never pushed me to do anything so i guess i really shouldn't be so stressed over it.

[Horsegirlmadison]

What does it mean when you ask a guy to go to the dance with you and he says idk i'll have to see what i'm doing that day.

[raezel]

What does it mean when you ask a guy to go to the dance with you and he says idk i'll have to see what i'm doing that day.

it's hard to translate into words without being there in the situation and knowing the guy personally, but it's probably a mixed answer. maybe his schedule is too busy, or maybe he's trying to say no in a polite way. i can't say much from not knowing the guy and your relationship with him though, so don't get too discouraged!

[Nadine]

do you guys think two years is a big gap? - removed- ... im having mixed feelings.

considering that my boyfriend and i have a three year gap, i wouldn't say so. there's varying opinions about it, but imo, three and up is kind of stretching it, even though my relationship falls under that age gap range.

just think about it in terms of later in life. will it really be that big, say you two should reach that age, when you're 24 and he's 26? it's not likely. just these teenage years seem so much more dramatic in terms of age gaps.

my parents are four years apart so honestly i dont see what a big deal about two years is .. i mean if we do make it to when hes a freshman in college and im a junior in high school it might be kinda hard but hes going to a college around our city so ... i just don't want to run into legal issues. i just wish i was his age. :c