Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[empunich;]

So I've been friends with this guy called Rayner since I was two, I recently asked him out and he said yes! My friends went totally crazy happy for me! But, now he's just acting like we are still just friends. Is that normal? And is it normal to still feel slightly awkward to talk to him about girlfriend boyfriend stuff?

[spring.]

So I've been friends with this guy called Rayner since I was two, I recently asked him out and he said yes! My friends went totally crazy happy for me! But, now he's just acting like we are still just friends. Is that normal? And is it normal to still feel slightly awkward to talk to him about girlfriend boyfriend stuff?

Your boyfriend should be your best friend, so it shouldnt be like everything has changed. Just keep treating him like your best friend. Horse around, have fun but dont stop being friends.

[Roonil Wazlib]

So could someone PM me? There's this thing and I don't really want to post it here. It involves a guy, obviously :)

[EclipticChaos]

Sure Electra.

[pizzas and scream]

Does it make me a complete ass that this guy was on my ask and apparently liked mee... Keeping in mind, toy never see other gay guys in my city. So, he's telling me things about himself and I was so sure it was the person I liked too... But it ended up being someone I've never even talked to before but just seen around..

Like, I don't know what to say. Or think. I have to face him tomorrow too.. UGH.

ask, like askfm?
that is a dating site now?

[darkinjinx]

Okay. Let's call the person I like 'T'. I've lived T on and off for five years but he is also my best friend. His twin sister, who is also my best friend, knows I like him and is really cool about it. He knows that I like him (his sister told him accidentally ugh) and he might like me too, but i don't know. His sister has told me that he said he would ask me to the dance when she asked if he would and has said that he thinks i am pretty, but if T's sister (K) asked him on the spot if he would ask me to the dance, what was he supposed to say? No? So that isn't really helpful. He is a really nice guy and I know that if I asked him to go with me he would, but I don't want to go with him if he doesn't like me. I don't want to ask him though... he is my best friend. What should I do?

[eli ayase]

I feel like I have so many relationship problems right now that I can't even begin to type them all. So let's start with one.


I like this guy, lets call him B. I barely know B that well, so its just a crush, but I really like him. I just have no idea how to get closer to him ahhh </3

[❌ DYNAMIGHT ❌]

mmmm, hey there guys .... it's been a long time since i
came on here .... but i feel like i need to vent seeing as
there isn't really much help someone could give me ....
so I just recently came out as pan to all my friends and
part of my family (me being female) and so or course
i've opened up to looking at new people in different
lights and yadda yadda. well for my first drabbeling i'll
introduce you all to A.
A is four years younger than me (only 13) and as sweet
as can be. honestly i think it was A that opened me up
completely to the idea of my sexuality and made me
accept it. A is a male trans and passes pretty well, tho
his family isn't exactly very happy about it. we started out
as just friends that met over tumblr but as we talked
and got to know each other it morphed into more. about
a month later we decided to give a relationship a try,
even tho we live in different states. honestly it was
pretty easy for me to fall, and fall hard, for A. we helped
each other thro a lot of stuff with my family being a bit
dysfunctional and his forcing him to be female around them.
we had a simple and deep bond .... but im a very touch
based person ... its how i accept affection, apologies,
and just in general im happier when im physically with
someone. i brought this up after about three months
of dating and we both agreed that we should remove our
labels but that we both still cared deeply for the other ....
A hasn't contacted me since that night .... a month ago.

next is J. i've only recently met J, and she's a really sweet
and amazing chick who has a bit of a hard time at home,
being more of a punky and rebellious child to her hard core
religious parents .... i met J thro a mutual friend on the
first day of school when we shared two classes. J is a very
flirty and outgoing person and so when we interacted I thought
that maybe i would get lucky and we could get to know each
other pretty well .... when i brought this up to her I was
very surprised to find out that she is straight ... and has a
boyfriend. of course we are still friends and everything
but the thing that confuses me is she openly and constantly
calls me beautiful and plays with my hair and talks about how
anyone would be lucky to date me .... im just really confused ....

my last stint im going to rant about is C .... god, C ....
ive known C for 5 years now and never really started seeing her
in a new light until recently when i moved in with her and her
mother .... honestly ive always really connected with C on a
friendly level and we get along remarkable well. C is asexual
and demiromantic, meaning she can form romantic attachments
but doesn't ever really want to do the do .... C was the first
person i came out to and she happily accepted this and helped
me find a way that i was comfortable with to come out to
everyone else .... C doesn't know i have any sort of feelings for
her and im a little confused myself .... like sometimes im
just really happy being her friend and then others i find myself
wanting to just lean over and kiss her cheek .... and its not
like i can escape her and give myself time to cool off and think,
i mean we live together, work together, and go to school
together .... ive dropped little hints before that i may like
her but honestly she's just really innocent and hasn't picked up
on anything .... so i really don't know what to do because
im terrified of making things awkward ....

so yeah .... thanks for letting me vent guys c: if anyone
would like to comment or anything i don't mind, tho i
do ask you send it to my pm as sometimes i go days
without logging in and it would just get lost on the thread

<3

[empunich;]

So I've been friends with this guy called Rayner since I was two, I recently asked him out and he said yes! My friends went totally crazy happy for me! But, now he's just acting like we are still just friends. Is that normal? And is it normal to still feel slightly awkward to talk to him about girlfriend boyfriend stuff?

[DaydreamNarrator]

So I've been friends with this guy called Rayner since I was two, I recently asked him out and he said yes! My friends went totally crazy happy for me! But, now he's just acting like we are still just friends. Is that normal? And is it normal to still feel slightly awkward to talk to him about girlfriend boyfriend stuff?

it totally is