Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Jaysquirrel]

Sooo, I have a huge crush on my senior friend. ( I am a freshman)

He plays football and is just head to toe perfect and super sweet and smart.
I am not bad looking, but I am not drop dead gorgeous.

Here is the thing, I am AP science. So we are in the same class together and sometimes the same lunch. We talk to each other and are pretty friendly. I like him a ton, but I just don't know what to do. Like this is so confusing for me because he will be leaving next year. So would it be worth trying to date him... idkkk

[DaydreamNarrator]

Sooo, I have a huge crush on my senior friend. ( I am a freshman)

He plays football and is just head to toe perfect and super sweet and smart.
I am not bad looking, but I am not drop dead gorgeous.

Here is the thing, I am AP science. So we are in the same class together and sometimes the same lunch. We talk to each other and are pretty friendly. I like him a ton, but I just don't know what to do. Like this is so confusing for me because he will be leaving next year. So would it be worth trying to date him... idkkk

if your main Problem is that he's leaving next year, I'd definetely try it. I had the same fear when my best male friend and me left School but now we're a couple since c.a. half a year and though we both left School this year and are visiting completely different colleges now and work in completely different Jobs- he works as a horticulturist and I as a Nurse in a kindergarten. But we meet every evening and still have the Weekends to spend together. So that's no Problem ^vv^

[global.]

yup. Okay, so boy issues...
Let me just start off by telling you a bit about me so you understand a bit better. I am the oldest child of a pastor, cousins are super protective of me and I've had some irresponsible relationships eh when I was younger. (not trickle-fracking if you get my drift though) Anyways, now onto the actual topic. My friend, we'll call her Mer, has this friend who's name shall be Matt. Until around a week and a half ago, Matt and I didn't really know each other, we simply had a common interest, which was our friend Mer. However, after a volleyball game, Matt started to notice me and I started to notice him. Now we're texting lot and getting to know one another yada yada. The thing is, he's homeschooled, meaning I only see him after school and his mother is protective about him, same as my parents. Due to this, whenever we see each other we try to spend as much time together as we can. The problem? This will be both of our actual first relationships. (anything under 5th grade I do t count to be honest) so we know we have a thing going on but have both agreed to take it slow. However it's really hard to. I technically can't date til I'm a few months older, (I'm in highschool btw) but he keeps being so adorable that I'm tempted to just hop into a relationship with him and gah. Then comes the whole, parents thing...

[❌ DYNAMIGHT ❌]

mmmm, hey there guys .... it's been a long time since i
came on here .... but i feel like i need to vent seeing as
there isn't really much help someone could give me ....
so I just recently came out as pan to all my friends and
part of my family (me being female) and so or course
i've opened up to looking at new people in different
lights and yadda yadda. well for my first drabbeling i'll
introduce you all to A.
A is four years younger than me (only 13) and as sweet
as can be. honestly i think it was A that opened me up
completely to the idea of my sexuality and made me
accept it. A is a male trans and passes pretty well, tho
his family isn't exactly very happy about it. we started out
as just friends that met over tumblr but as we talked
and got to know each other it morphed into more. about
a month later we decided to give a relationship a try,
even tho we live in different states. honestly it was
pretty easy for me to fall, and fall hard, for A. we helped
each other thro a lot of stuff with my family being a bit
dysfunctional and his forcing him to be female around them.
we had a simple and deep bond .... but im a very touch
based person ... its how i accept affection, apologies,
and just in general im happier when im physically with
someone. i brought this up after about three months
of dating and we both agreed that we should remove our
labels but that we both still cared deeply for the other ....
A hasn't contacted me since that night .... a month ago.

next is J. i've only recently met J, and she's a really sweet
and amazing chick who has a bit of a hard time at home,
being more of a punky and rebellious child to her hard core
religious parents .... i met J thro a mutual friend on the
first day of school when we shared two classes. J is a very
flirty and outgoing person and so when we interacted I thought
that maybe i would get lucky and we could get to know each
other pretty well .... when i brought this up to her I was
very surprised to find out that she is straight ... and has a
boyfriend. of course we are still friends and everything
but the thing that confuses me is she openly and constantly
calls me beautiful and plays with my hair and talks about how
anyone would be lucky to date me .... im just really confused ....

my last stint im going to rant about is C .... god, C ....
ive known C for 5 years now and never really started seeing her
in a new light until recently when i moved in with her and her
mother .... honestly ive always really connected with C on a
friendly level and we get along remarkable well. C is asexual
and demiromantic, meaning she can form romantic attachments
but doesn't ever really want to do the do .... C was the first
person i came out to and she happily accepted this and helped
me find a way that i was comfortable with to come out to
everyone else .... C doesn't know i have any sort of feelings for
her and im a little confused myself .... like sometimes im
just really happy being her friend and then others i find myself
wanting to just lean over and kiss her cheek .... and its not
like i can escape her and give myself time to cool off and think,
i mean we live together, work together, and go to school
together .... ive dropped little hints before that i may like
her but honestly she's just really innocent and hasn't picked up
on anything .... so i really don't know what to do because
im terrified of making things awkward ....

so yeah .... thanks for letting me vent guys c: if anyone
would like to comment or anything i don't mind, tho i
do ask you send it to my pm as sometimes i go days
without logging in and it would just get lost on the thread

<3

[Dauntlessredpanda]

So, I like this guy, let's call him P. I just started talking to him, and just started to blossom a friendship. I really want to tell him how I feel, and since w haven't been friends for very long, it wouldn't really "ruin" our friendship or anything. We are on the same sports team for my school. So we see each other every day, but he is a year older, so we have no classes together.
As I said before, I want to tell him I like him, but I don't know if I have the courage to do it! my friend says I should tell him as soon as possible, and that is what I want to do, but I have no clue when or where to do it or what to say or do! Anyone have any advice...?

Also, his good friends is like, one of my best guy friends, so...

[Princess Porcelain]

Okay, so there's this guy. Duh. Everyone has a guy/girl here to talk about.

Thing is, said guy lives 45 minutes away. I think he might like me, but last I checked he had a girlfriend. I don't know if they're still together. I like him...I mean, we're pretty much the same person. We laugh at the same jokes, like the same things, have the same interests...But the problem is, even if he doesn't have a girlfriend, he has a twin brother, who I am also good friends with. Said twin brother hates this guy's guts and also likes me and would probably stop being my friend if I started going out with his brother. I really don't want to lose a friendship over a crush, but this is really the only guy I've found that's exactly like me...In every way. I know if we got together the relationship would last despite the distance, and we might even be able to see each other occasionally. Plus, we go to the same summer camp [which is how I met him and his brother] so I can see him during the summer for about a week. I just don't know what to do, I've kinda-sorta been flirting with him, dropping hints and all...I just don't know how to bring up the subject of whether he's single or not, because obviously if he's not single he's off-limits. Usually I would just straight-up ask him about things, I've done that to him about other subjects and he's taken it rather well, but I just don't know, I'm half-afraid that if I ask if he's seeing someone he'll say yes and the other half of me is terrified that he'll say no, and we'll start going out. It's not really going out I'm afraid of, just the thought of asking him out...I'm not a chicken when it comes to this kind of thing normally, most of the time I just straight-up tell someone I like them, but ahh I don't know...He's different. Advice?

[greysilence]

This post is probably going to be rather long just because I haven't posted on here in quite a good amount of time. I've known this kid for three years, going on four, and we've been friends for that long. However, last year we started getting closer, only as friends.

For this past month, maybe a little longer, we've been "talking" as people call it. We went to homecoming together a couple weeks ago. We've had some arguments, but we always manage to get through them. He makes me really happy, and it's been a while since I've liked someone.

Usually I push guys away after a couple weeks. I had a couple days where I felt like doing that with him, but then after that I just wanted to be with him all of the time. This is kind of new for me because my situations don't usually go as well as this one is.

Everything is well, we flirt all of the time, and he sends me cute messages. The thing is, he hasn't asked me out yet. I'm tired of just "talking". I wanna be able to call him mine. He doesn't flirt with other girls anymore, and I don't flirt with other guys anymore, so I know that's not the problem. He can be kinda shy when it comes to asking bigger questions, so I understand why it's taking a while. I just wish he would hurry up and ask.

Not really looking for advice or anything I guess. Just wanted to post that I'm finally in a good situation and rather happy with it.

[king boo]

could someone pm me qvq?

[.yuanfen]

i liked him
a lot
it hurt because
i was too scared to tell him

i was sad
i didn't know why
i thought about dying
i thought about ending it all

i was scared
i didn't want him to see me like that
i didn't want him to know
i didn't want to hurt him

i was stupid
i pushed him away
i stopped talking

it got worse
my social anxiety, that is
i haven't made eye contact with him in nine months
i haven't had a conversation with him in
a year

it was bittersweet
i can talk over the phone
i can text
i can email
but when i see him in real life
i turn away

i'm too scared to say sorry
i'm too scared to say that it was my fault

it hurts so much

[X-Cat]

Their is this guy, we'll call him E. I've known him for a month and of course have developed a small crush on him. He is my classmate and he is in my band for rock band club so I don't want to lose his friendship by creeping him out. For some reason I think he likes me but I'm not sure. He is in California for a week and I've been chatting with him about a group project, now half my class knows I like him as my friend and I talk about him as a friend a lot. Of course I need to settle this down before he comes back, cause it just makes me blush when they say that making my true feelings quite obvious. Oh god I just don't know what to do, plus I don't want to tell him I like him on chat that would be just awkward.