Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[EclipticChaos]

@Mimosal: You Could Be Reading Too Much Into It, But If You Do Want To Drop Hints PM Me.

[shin]

Uuhh okay. So I have liked this guy for like, a LONG time. But two years ago, I got over him. Recently we hung out with another one of our friends, and now I'm remembering all of the reasons why I liked him and yeah. We did date for a little while, but I don't know if he still likes me or not.

And theres another guy, (the one who we were with), and I catch him staring at me in class and we hang out a lot. Do you think he likes me?

[EclipticChaos]

I guess if my advice will be totally disregarded, I'll just let you do what you want and suffer the consequences. I won't waste my energy.
Also, please don't double post.

But a note for anyone here:
If your partner doesn't respect your decision, they aren't respecting you.
If they want you to do something you don't want to do and continue to ask, they aren't respecting you.
Your partner needs to respect you, above pretty much anything else in your relationship. After all, respect is basically the entire basis of a healthy relationship. Respect = trust, communication, thoughtfulness, etc.

Also, does anyone know how the new thread is going to work? We are approaching 800 pages.

I agree with this.
For another opinion, you have mine - dropping and everything at midnight means you are letting her be in control and call the shots. You answering to her every whim does NOT suggest she has any respect for you. It may not be for anything scandalous, but the way you are so willing to just drop everything and run off to her is like you are her booty call essentially. That is not a term of respect.

You need to be aware of the potential consequences of such actions - getting pressured into something, having regrets, getting into trouble with your parents or hers. I mean seriously, you actually believe she got permission from not only her parents but also YOURS, and at midnight on a school night?! Come on dude, use those brain cells. And if she is indeed lying like it sounds she is, I wouldn't want someone who lies to me just to get control over me. That's not right. If it means anything at all to know - I am an adult and I think it would be stupid to go to her like that. You haven't even known her or been dating her long or anything.

Ok Apparently My Parents Had Set Up A "Friendly Visit Overnight" {Sleep-Over. I Mean Seriously!?} And Didn't Tell Me. So She Was Wondering Where I Was.

[Dia.]

I guess if my advice will be totally disregarded, I'll just let you do what you want and suffer the consequences. I won't waste my energy.
Also, please don't double post.

But a note for anyone here:
If your partner doesn't respect your decision, they aren't respecting you.
If they want you to do something you don't want to do and continue to ask, they aren't respecting you.
Your partner needs to respect you, above pretty much anything else in your relationship. After all, respect is basically the entire basis of a healthy relationship. Respect = trust, communication, thoughtfulness, etc.

Also, does anyone know how the new thread is going to work? We are approaching 800 pages.

I agree with this.
For another opinion, you have mine - dropping and everything at midnight means you are letting her be in control and call the shots. You answering to her every whim does NOT suggest she has any respect for you. It may not be for anything scandalous, but the way you are so willing to just drop everything and run off to her is like you are her booty call essentially. That is not a term of respect.

You need to be aware of the potential consequences of such actions - getting pressured into something, having regrets, getting into trouble with your parents or hers. I mean seriously, you actually believe she got permission from not only her parents but also YOURS, and at midnight on a school night?! Come on dude, use those brain cells. And if she is indeed lying like it sounds she is, I wouldn't want someone who lies to me just to get control over me. That's not right. If it means anything at all to know - I am an adult and I think it would be stupid to go to her like that. You haven't even known her or been dating her long or anything.

Ok Apparently My Parents Had Set Up A "Friendly Visit Overnight" {Sleep-Over. I Mean Seriously!?} And Didn't Tell Me. So She Was Wondering Where I Was.

That doesn't sound reasonable at all. On a school night? *eyebrows raise* And a "friendly visit". Someone(or multiple someones) is a bit naive in this situation.
I don't know what your parents or her parents are like, obviously. I just know that my parents would never allow something like that.

[EclipticChaos]

My Parents Are Really Lenient.

[Dia.]

And her parents are okay with the teenaged boy that has recently started dating her sleeping over with their daughter.
It just seems off to me. xD
BUt whatever.

[surfiez]

Do you ever have that crush that you can't get out of your mind and you would do anything to be with? That's literally my life XD!! I surf with my friend James and he is so nice to me. I know is probably in that friendly way but how do I know for sure? Before heats he tells me good luck and gives me high-5s and every time we walks past each other he says "hi" even if we just finished talking XD he agrees with me a lot on what type if wave conditions we like. I've been seeing him every weekend so far. My friends were swimming right next to me while I was surfing with him and they told me that when he rode the same wave as me, he looked at his friend and did that "I like her" smile… I really wanna believe them but I really have no idea what he thinks or feels about me. He also looks at me a lot… oh gosh someone please help!

help lol

[Clifford95]

This is just really something I needed to tell someone but please give me your opinion on what you think...and sorry this is so long.
So today in my tech class I was having troubles with my computer. (We are being certified in Microsoft word and my computer all of a sudden froze and stopped working.) My crush (K), kind as ever asked me what number (website practice test thingy) I had been on (19), when I told him he said not to worry that I would catch up quickly because it was so easy (there are 58 questions and he was on like 40 something). We had been going at the same pace but not anymore. Afterwards I logged out and then tried to log back in but then my computer decided to stop working completely. I stopped to say so to the teacher and she started talking about her friends from Germany who are here in state to visit her. K , M a female friend of mine (kinda), and I were the last ones in the classroom. K has family in Germany and started talking about stuff there and then we had a 45 minute convo about various things with the teacher. M left about 5 minutes into the conversation because she had to go to dance practice. After we were all done talking K and I both had to go to our lockers. He asked me what my locker number was (078)...mine is at the front of the hallway and his the back so after I got all my stuff I waited for him. We talked while walking to and from our lockers and when we got to the front of the school we went our separate ways. I upstairs to re-take a math quiz and him outside to go home....

So long story short K is a very thoughtful person...at least of me I don't know about other people...and was willing to stay after class with me and have a long conversation with the teacher about random stuff. I really really like him and we sit next to each other in tech but unfortunately he has a girlfriend...I didn't ask him or anything I just happened to hear him talking about her to someone...I don't know if we are just friends or if he likes me or what...I just...anyone have an opinion or something to say on this? Thanks for reading!

[shin]

Uuhh okay. So I have liked this guy for like, a LONG time. But two years ago, I got over him. Recently we hung out with our friend J, and now I'm remembering all of the reasons why I liked him and yeah. We did date for a little while, but I don't know if he still likes me or not.

And theres another guy, J (the same J as mentioned before), and I catch him staring at me in class and we hang out a lot. Do you think he likes me?

And today I caught J staring and smiling at me. What doe this mean? ;u;

[y i n]

So~
I was broken up with a week ago in a really bad way and now I feel like completely giving up on relationships but everyone's annoying me, saying Oh, Techtonic [RL Name replaced] you're not gonna give up, ig you give up I'll be mad at you, you never give up. And I'm just like Shut up, if this is what I want then ok, let me make my own decision, but noooo, they have to start arguing.

Should I be done?
I've never really been the type to give up on anything, but this? It's just, gahhhhhh~~~