Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[pizzas and scream]

I like him. a lot.
we've known each other since grade two.
we were best friends for years.
we had a 'thing' last school year.
lots of people thought we were 'secretley dating'.
my ex-best friend jumped in the middle and 'stole him' from me.
we stopped talking as much as we used too.
when this school year started they stopped talking.
he talks to me again.
I talk to him again.
we joke around when we pass each other in the hallways.
we're getting close again.
now there's another girl.
she's already been with two other guys this year.
she was getting close and touching him at school today.
I don't know if I should back off or if I shouldn't let another girl get between us.
he was my bestfriend.
we were a thing.
another girl got in the way.
he's alone.
we're getting close again.
and now comes another girl.
should I try to become more then just friends again, or should I back off?

oh that is good. I had a friend in grade2 i was fond of. over the summer vacation though, of absance and the next year. he wanted nothing to do with me. I had asked if we were still friends and I got a sharp NO. I forgot if I took it well or went to my lunch table bawling or just "Oh ok" and wanderd back not understanding. now I am bitter and full of rage, like the harass him on facebook and hope his children get emotionaly abused by their peers rage.

[huskyderp]

My crush found out I liked him today.

[Limestone]

Subject: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

I like him. a lot.
we've known each other since grade two.
we were best friends for years.
we had a 'thing' last school year.
lots of people thought we were 'secretley dating'.
my ex-best friend jumped in the middle and 'stole him' from me.
we stopped talking as much as we used too.
when this school year started they stopped talking.
he talks to me again.
I talk to him again.
we joke around when we pass each other in the hallways.
we're getting close again.
now there's another girl.
she's already been with two other guys this year.
she was getting close and touching him at school today.
I don't know if I should back off or if I shouldn't let another girl get between us.
he was my bestfriend.
we were a thing.
another girl got in the way.
he's alone.
we're getting close again.
and now comes another girl.
should I try to become more then just friends again, or should I back off?

Response
this has happened to me before and i think you should try.
you will wonder for a long time,
would it have worked, are we better as friends?
or does he see us only as best friends?
if friends isn't good enough for you,
you have got to make your move.
by: Limestone

[claws990p]

Hi so lets start this ...

every day same thing he never notices me he never even says hi .... i told my best friend that i started to feel something when i see him him and he told him i did know he wants to tease me .... everytime i feel down i see him and feel better . but know he laughs at my hair my nose my glasses ... why do i have to like football players who date the cheerleaders who laugh at me when i walk by

[eli ayase]

Hi so lets start this ...

every day same thing he never notices me he never even says hi .... i told my best friend that i started to feel something when i see him him and he told him i did know he wants to tease me .... everytime i feel down i see him and feel better . but know he laughs at my hair my nose my glasses ... why do i have to like football players who date the cheerleaders who laugh at me when i walk by

He's not worth your while. If he's mean to you, you can't possible like him. Has he ever done anything nice to catch your attention? Otherwise, your mind may be playing tricks on you because he's attractive, but you don't like him. It happens quite a lot. Don't worry! If he's bringing you down, ignore him because honestly you are better than him.

[[x]]

So in one of my classes we have groups of 4-6 in tables, and I sit right in front of my crush!!
The problem is, my friend who knows I like him says I blush a lot when I talk with him and I don't know what to do!
Is there exactly any tricks to not blush?

[EclipticChaos]

Besides Using Alot Of Make-up, I Would Say Learn To Deal With The Blush And After A While You Will Get Used To Being Around Him And You Won't Blush As Much.

[Dia.]

So in one of my classes we have groups of 4-6 in tables, and I sit right in front of my crush!!
The problem is, my friend who knows I like him says I blush a lot when I talk with him and I don't know what to do!
Is there exactly any tricks to not blush?

I wish. XD
Fortunately, he probably doesn't notice or care. lol
Think of it this way, your subconscious is communicating with his and it is relaying your interest and excitement/nervousness. It's also drawing more attention. His subconscious mind will notice, but he won't.

DanTDM - A lot of make up is a terrible idea. xD And it wouldn't work unless you're talking costume-grade paint. lol I still blush around my boyfriend. We've been dating for almost two years and I've been around him and talking for him for longer. Some people, especially those who are pale, are more prone to it and it's more noticeable.
Luckily, guys tend to think it's cute or don't care. ^^

[spring.]

If I may, you are very lucky you can blush. I have a naturally red face, so I don't blush. My face gets warm, but there is no difference when I blush.

-snip-
And when we hung out, it almost seemed like he was gonna get back with me, but I don't know. We hung out forever. It felt like we never even broke up. </3

I still can't get over him and try to talk to him as much as I can.

If anyone needs more to understand to help me, PM me.

Please give me insight into my issues.

Talk me out of my senses or something.

Please. <3

those kind of feelings are pretty tricky.
There might be something more between you two and I don't think you should end it. I always say to talk about it, possibly see if there's much left. Long distance relationships are awfully hard to handle and I understand what you're going through. If you still like him or even love him i don't think you should just completely end everything when there's still hope. Tho I also am guessing that it hurts. Try to keep yourself busy, occupied, have your thoughts always veiled around something else. i didn't really understand if you get to see him anymore, but if you do, well then use it to the maximum. Try messaging him, try starting a conversation, if it goes as smooth as before then there's nothing to be afraid for, but if you see he's hesitant and maybe is even hiding something then maybe you should just forget, or ask him about it. You know, it's better when you know the reason why it ended. It's easier to get over someone when you know valid reasons and just can explain it to yourself.

there's really nothing i can say that can change your mind, it all comes naturally, usually quite unexpected.

If it's meant to be it will happen, but if it isn't, there's nothing you can do to change it.

That's a quote I've used most often for myself and for others and it has helped quite a bit.

The thing is with him, is we only broke up because he moved. He wouldn't have an excuse to come see me, where he used to live right next to me. I only see him if his family comes out to where I live.
When he came last, he wanted to see me the next day, but he couldn't because he had to leave.
We talk a lot, but he doesn't check his phone that often.

I really want to tell him, he already knows as I wrote him a letter last year, but he doesn't seem to understand. I miss him so much. I think having someone else would help, but he made so many promises that he obviously can't keep anymore. It just makes me sad thinking about it. I just want to call him and tell him everything, but I also don't...

Help me. :'c

[Kess]

Teehee.

I take a chemistry class at my local community college and one of the guys who is in my class with me is just...*-* No words. Just *-*. Me gusta. I also have no idea how to talk to him, I'm way too nervous to go up to anyone and just start talking. Ahh. He's really quiet too, and he seems nice, but I'm too shy ;__; any advice?