The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

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[Wolfin]

Are there any conversation started that I can use to get to the subject of "do you like me?"?
I'm sure he does because everyone says it then he goes bright red

[Mysterious_Viking]

Are there any conversation started that I can use to get to the subject of "do you like me?"?
I'm sure he does because everyone says it then he goes bright red

Would you want to start a serious conversation or joke around and then get to "Do you like me?"

If you want to start a serious conversation...
Whenever you think the time is right, most likely right after people say he likes you and he goes bright red, say, "Your face just got really red. Do you like me?" To get a more honest answer out of him, ask when you two are alone, at lunch, if you two sit next to each other in class... Anywhere where there aren't too many people around. If there are a lot of people around, that doesn't matter as long as no friends are around. If a lot of friends are around, he's most likely to say he doesn't like you so he doesn't get embarrassed.

If you want to start a joking conversation...
At lunch and you have like a really red strawberry or see something red, point it out to him and say, "That looks like your face when you get embarrassed." Then tell a story of one time when he got embarrassed, the story of when everybody says he likes you, and then ask while you're still smiling at the story, "Do you like me?" It's best to ask "Do you like me?" when no friends are around and refer back to your joke, because it's most likely friends are around when you tell the joke.

Hope the advice helps!

[Wolfin]

Coolio!
I'll try it on monday

[Beaconrain]

I've got a little problem; I'm in love with one of my best friends. I know, it's cliché, but what can I do.

So, we've known each other for almost eight years but we only became actual friends about two years ago. Since then we have become really close and can tell each other (almost) anything and everything - Embarrassing memories, regrets, bad habits, secrets etc. I'm not quite sure when I fell in love with her, but I realized it a year ago. She's smart, beautiful, caring, funny, creative, friendly, cool-- I could go on forever! The only bad things I can come up with is that she is very, very competitive and can get jealous whenever someone's better than her at something. Also, she is pretty scary when she gets angry.
I tried a bit of discreet flirting with her but she either doesn't notice it or gives me a strange look every time I do it. A few months ago I tried getting over it all, as she didn't respond, and I thought it went well. I stopped my "flirting" and decided to just carry on as always. But then, one day, as we were walking up the stairs in school she suddenly stopped me while we were talking, put my head to her chest and hugged me. She's never done that before. Ever.

I don't know how, or if, I could tell her how I really feel. I don't want to risk ruin our friendship, but it's extremely painful not knowing what she thinks of me. On top of it all we're both girls and I don't even know if she swings that way, or if she's ever even though or is curious about that kind of thing. Any advice?

[Cirque]

Okayy, so I like this guy, and I think he likes me, too, but...
1. He just broke up with his previous girlfriend about a month ago, how long should I wait to ask him out if I get up the courage to do so?
2. One of my good friends really, really likes him, but he doesn't like her, so..I'm kinda scared of ruining my friendship with her.

And, there are a few guys who like me, but I don't like them like that...I'm friends with them, but is there a way I should gently act uninterested?

[☆Stephano☆]

I have had crushes on several boys but whenever someone asks them out for me, they say no. I've started to give up on boys ... should I?

[Queen of Chaos]

Hmm... Need a little help figuring this one out.

Okay so theres this guy who i cant tell if he likes me or not. He seems to be intrested in most of the stuff i like like Spaceballs and band. We've been friends since 4th grade. We've been teased together by some jerk to go out because were just friends. He even bought me my lunch for the one band thing on Vetreans day. He always seemed to stalk me in my hallway and talks to me to a point were we're almost tardy for our next class. My best friends says he likes me, but im not intresed in love right now, but im not for sure. Does he love me? Or is it just good friends?

[Mysterious_Viking]

I've got a little problem; I'm in love with one of my best friends. I know, it's cliché, but what can I do.

So, we've known each other for almost eight years but we only became actual friends about two years ago. Since then we have become really close and can tell each other (almost) anything and everything - Embarrassing memories, regrets, bad habits, secrets etc. I'm not quite sure when I fell in love with her, but I realized it a year ago. She's smart, beautiful, caring, funny, creative, friendly, cool-- I could go on forever! The only bad things I can come up with is that she is very, very competitive and can get jealous whenever someone's better than her at something. Also, she is pretty scary when she gets angry.
I tried a bit of discreet flirting with her but she either doesn't notice it or gives me a strange look every time I do it. A few months ago I tried getting over it all, as she didn't respond, and I thought it went well. I stopped my "flirting" and decided to just carry on as always. But then, one day, as we were walking up the stairs in school she suddenly stopped me while we were talking, put my head to her chest and hugged me. She's never done that before. Ever.

I don't know how, or if, I could tell her how I really feel. I don't want to risk ruin our friendship, but it's extremely painful not knowing what she thinks of me. On top of it all we're both girls and I don't even know if she swings that way, or if she's ever even though or is curious about that kind of thing. Any advice?

First off, find out if she likes girls. If she's dated anybody, ask them if they think she does. But, your best and most reliable source is to ask her herself. If she doesn't, then that's too bad. There's nothing that will change that. If she does, then the next step would be to find out if she likes you. Again, if she doesn't, too bad, nothing can change that. Your best thing to do would be to find somebody else and try to get over her. If she does, then tell her how you feel and ask her out, if you feel like you both want to be together.

Okayy, so I like this guy, and I think he likes me, too, but...
1. He just broke up with his previous girlfriend about a month ago, how long should I wait to ask him out if I get up the courage to do so?
2. One of my good friends really, really likes him, but he doesn't like her, so..I'm kinda scared of ruining my friendship with her.

And, there are a few guys who like me, but I don't like them like that...I'm friends with them, but is there a way I should gently act uninterested?

1. Whenever he seems ready for another girlfriend. If you can tell he's not over his ex-girlfriend, then wait. All you can do is be there for him as a friend, and then when he's ready, you can be there for him as his girlfriend.

2. Find out if your crush likes your friend. If he says no, or you already know, gently tell her before she has to go through finding out you two are dating. She may be over him by then. If you do tell her, try not to be too sudden. If you blurt it all out at once, it's harder to take in. Take it slow and say something like, "I talked to *his name here* the other day. Sorry, but he said he doesn't like you that way." If she doesn't want him knowing she likes him, add, "I didn't tell him you liked him, just asked if he liked you." Then all you can do is be there for her. She'll thank you later for being a friend when she needed it.

3. If you know for sure you don't like them, then tell them. It's best they find out from you rather than a friend. Like your friend, don't blurt it out all at once. When they're flirting, showing off, or whatever they do that shows you they like you, say when nobody who cares is around, "Sorry, but I like you as a friend, not that way. I like somebody else." They'll be upset, but hopefully you all can stay friends.

I have had crushes on several boys but whenever someone asks them out for me, they say no. I've started to give up on boys ... should I?

Don't give up. It just means that they don't like you. You'll find the one that does like you someday, and with some you may even not like them back. Just try to take it slow with your crushes so if things turn out badly so you aren't as hurt in the end. There will be heartbreaks along the way, and it will be rough, but you just need to deal with them and someday you'll find the one that likes you back.

Hmm... Need a little help figuring this one out.

Okay so theres this guy who i cant tell if he likes me or not. He seems to be intrested in most of the stuff i like like Spaceballs and band. We've been friends since 4th grade. We've been teased together by some jerk to go out because were just friends. He even bought me my lunch for the one band thing on Vetreans day. He always seemed to stalk me in my hallway and talks to me to a point were we're almost tardy for our next class. My best friends says he likes me, but im not intresed in love right now, but im not for sure. Does he love me? Or is it just good friends?

First off, he probably doesn't love you. I think he sort of likes you, but is trying to be a good friend. Ask him himself if he likes you, the best time would be when you two are alone or nobody's listening. If he does, then explain to him that you aren't interested in a relationship right now, but you still want to be friends.

[dallas12345]

i dont know if i shoud ask Ray out <3 i really like him! and he is like staring big time now ( im not really speical ordeveloped- if you know what i mean.....) and all my friends say its really obious that he likes me! shaould I ask him, or should i wait until he askes me? help please!

i have a little problem. i like these two boys (Ray & Adam ) i think they both like me but im not sure! in science i catch ray looking at me & i sit next to Adam in science . <------- he had on axe today:D(stakerish.....but we were doing an experiment! :[])
and latley, well he's been kinda.....snappy, i guess .but me & Adam are in the same homeroom and whenever we have projects, he's the first one to show me his project ♥♥. he really trusts my oppinon & i'm afraid to ask him out because i dont want to ruin a grate friendship!D: and, at the end of last year, he amitted that he liked me at the beggining! D':


now, Ray's problem.
i like him a lot, but, im torn between the two. he's one of my best guy friends, and as i said before, im afraid to ruin a wonderful friendship D: and, i catch him staring a lot ♥♥ (Ray's tall, brown eyes & short hair..........♥♥ *sigh* & Adam's like my height (5' 4.5") kind long curly brown hair.................borown eyes♥♥*sighs as i imagine them*)

x_____________x its sooo stresful! all my friends say to go wit Adam, but i dont know!!!!! D':