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global. wrote:Blaze_TheCat wrote:I know this is dumb but.. I see all these kids at school, and they have happy families. With dad's. And it makes me feel lonely that I don't have a dad. I just.. I know it's stupid, but I'm going through a time like this. I love my family, and I have uncles. They are like my replacement dad's. But I.. there is just something missing.
I wish I could be taken to fish. Or.. Or have someone teach me to fix cars.. my uncle's have helped a bit, but they're away most of the time working.
I love my grandpa, and stuff, he's like a dad, too. But.. I just feel so sad about it...
due to the fact that I still have both parents, I'm afraid that I can't relate to you. However, I can offer encouragement. What you have still is family. Though your father may be missing, you have uncles and grandparent's to watch over you. It doesn't take a father to make a family happy. This may be hard to get, but it truly doesn't. Some of my friends/family have had fathers that are gone and though it is hard, they still live on. If something's missing, perhaps someone will come along and fill that place. <33 Hang in there! Sorry if my encouragement doesn't fit needs, haven't done this in a while ;c
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and now the encourager needs some encouragement.
with me getting older and doing more...adultish things, I've started to realize that my life is passing me by. It scares me to be honest. I don't know what's happening or why, but I can't seem to get enough done in a day, or spend enough time with the people that I want to. School is consuming my life from 6:30am to 8:00pm, I'm doing something constantly and I can't seem to slow done. I don't know if I can take the craziness anymore and don't know what to do.
Different wrote:I really need help.
So I have a good mate here. She lives like… 15 seconds away from walking maybe. She ignores me all day at school but always wants to hang out after school.
I was sick yesterday and today, she ignored me completely. Not even a text message from her.
She hung out with this Scottish dude, that she knows I'm trying to be friends with (being english and him scottish, we basically have the same humour. I know this from our jokes at school), one of my old good friends, her good friend, and this guy we both don’t like and she never even asked ‘want to hang out’ even though she normally does, even when I have been sick.
What would you guys do?
She got me this card for my birthday last week saying all these nice things, and these photos of us, but she just doesn't put effort into our friendship.
There is a quote that i used to know saying 'which kind of ship never sinks? a friendship!" I used to think that quote was true, but not now.
It always happens. People turn on me. I have four good friends.
Two of them know nothing about me.
One of them knows everything about me.
The other one has been there since she was born (I'm six weeks older) and we're basically always together when we are by each other (we live in different countries.) but she doesn't know anything about me.
I can trust one person, but even he is just starting to blank me out.
i'm kind of getting fed up of this.
Is it that I always have one earphone piece in my ear? Or that I listen to punk and rock music?
Or is it that i'm tomboy and don't want to talk about makeup.
Out of the 98 students in my grade (yes, that many) only two I get along with, excluding the girl.
I just really need some cheering up


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