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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby claws990p » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:07 pm

claws990p wrote:tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ~Static~ » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:09 pm

Static.Bird wrote:So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby .rin okumura. » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:10 pm

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~Legolas~ wrote:
So I have a friend, (Let's call him K) and he has this crush on me. And he touches me ALL the time. Like as in he pokes me and tries to taser me and tickle me in the stomach. I have this thing about people inside my personal bubble when I don't want them to me. Well when I tell him to knock it off he says, 'Okay it's just natural that you hate me.' but I don't hate him! He makes me so aggravated and frustrated. And a couple of weeks ago I told him about how I saw another one of my friends when I went down to Texas and he got all depressed because the friend I hadn't seen in a while was a guy. He says he's over me now but he totally doesn't act like it! Any advice on how to get K to stop without ruining our friendship?


    I think the best thing to do here is sit him down and explain your thoughts to him. Make it clear that you like him as a friend, and the only reason you don't like him touching you is because of your personal bubble. Tell him that even though he may still have feelings for you, he should be trying to get over it, and you will try to support him. Don't let him cut in or comment until you finish, because this can lead the convo off-topic, and try not to accidentally come off as defensive. Communication is key here. Good luck c:

Thank you for the advice but I already tried talking to him and when I was finished he went on and on about how I hate him and everything. I told him I don't like people in my personal bubble unless I invite them, which happens to be quite often, and he got all huffy and walked off. Any more advice you can give?


















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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ardentsongbird » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:12 pm

@ JustDucky
I am actually great friends with him :)
I have known him a while. He is really funny, but his humor is dark xD It's smexy

Anyway, it's too late or the note. I have to wait for next Friday to come. Let me explain!
So my friend, Z, didn't meet me up after the pep-rally on Friday, so I never was able to give her the not to give to M. It pissed me off because I was looking forward to texting him over the weekend. I'm also heart-broken. My other crush, T, that lives in Florida acted like he didn't know me...
Me : Hey
T : Who are you?
Me : What do you mean? It's... me!
T : I don't know you
It's really upset me, so now he is dead weight to me...
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby claws990p » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:14 pm

claws990p wrote:
claws990p wrote:tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby .rin okumura. » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:14 pm

Static.Bird wrote:
Static.Bird wrote:So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?

I think maybe he was just being nice, but if he was purposly following you around to help you then he might like you.


















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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby kafka » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:24 pm

~Legolas~ wrote:
riptide ; wrote:
~Legolas~ wrote:
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    I think the best thing to do here is sit him down and explain your thoughts to him. Make it clear that you like him as a friend, and the only reason you don't like him touching you is because of your personal bubble. Tell him that even though he may still have feelings for you, he should be trying to get over it, and you will try to support him. Don't let him cut in or comment until you finish, because this can lead the convo off-topic, and try not to accidentally come off as defensive. Communication is key here. Good luck c:

Thank you for the advice but I already tried talking to him and when I was finished he went on and on about how I hate him and everything. I told him I don't like people in my personal bubble unless I invite them, which happens to be quite often, and he got all huffy and walked off. Any more advice you can give?


Well, I can't control the situation here, but you have to realise that when he's not cooperating and understanding, he's not exactly being a very good friend, is he? I think that the best advice would come from a mutual friend perhaps, since I don't know him personally.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby claws990p » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:26 pm

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ~Static~ » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:28 pm

~Legolas~ wrote:
Static.Bird wrote:
Static.Bird wrote:So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?

I think maybe he was just being nice, but if he was purposly following you around to help you then he might like you.


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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Dark Nature » Sun Sep 07, 2014 2:29 pm

im scared my crush doesn't like me :( but there are some things that make me think he likes me!!!! boys are confusing!
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