claws990p wrote:tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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Static.Bird wrote:So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?
riptide ; wrote:~Legolas~ wrote:So I have a friend, (Let's call him K) and he has this crush on me. And he touches me ALL the time. Like as in he pokes me and tries to taser me and tickle me in the stomach. I have this thing about people inside my personal bubble when I don't want them to me. Well when I tell him to knock it off he says, 'Okay it's just natural that you hate me.' but I don't hate him! He makes me so aggravated and frustrated. And a couple of weeks ago I told him about how I saw another one of my friends when I went down to Texas and he got all depressed because the friend I hadn't seen in a while was a guy. He says he's over me now but he totally doesn't act like it! Any advice on how to get K to stop without ruining our friendship?

































claws990p wrote:claws990p wrote:tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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Static.Bird wrote:Static.Bird wrote:So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?



~Legolas~ wrote:riptide ; wrote:~Legolas~ wrote:-snip-I think the best thing to do here is sit him down and explain your thoughts to him. Make it clear that you like him as a friend, and the only reason you don't like him touching you is because of your personal bubble. Tell him that even though he may still have feelings for you, he should be trying to get over it, and you will try to support him. Don't let him cut in or comment until you finish, because this can lead the convo off-topic, and try not to accidentally come off as defensive. Communication is key here. Good luck c:
Thank you for the advice but I already tried talking to him and when I was finished he went on and on about how I hate him and everything. I told him I don't like people in my personal bubble unless I invite them, which happens to be quite often, and he got all huffy and walked off. Any more advice you can give?
~Legolas~ wrote:Static.Bird wrote:Static.Bird wrote:So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?
I think maybe he was just being nice, but if he was purposly following you around to help you then he might like you.


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