|TheComfortCorner| v.4

[Rune.]

I feel so left out...
It's hard to get people to talk to me I'm always paranoid that I'll say the wrong things like for example here on CS I feel so ostracised once I post on a thread it seems to go dead and I'm easily picked on 'cause I'm the kind of person who can't stand up for themselves... Can any of you guys be my friend we can PM everyday and talk about anything I just need someone.. Anyone...

[quitting,,]

I've never felt so alone in my life. I'm feeling overwhelmed with depression but I'm scared to tell anyone in case they think I'm just being stupid or dramatic. I've got absolutely no one to talk to. I spent today alone and whenever I tried to talk to someone they acted like they didn't care. I don't know what to do.

I just want someone to hug me and tell me that everything's going to be alright - and mean it.

Listen honey, I know how you feel. I've been there, I've had depression and not many people believed me. Though I guarantee you someone will believe you. I mean, I do, right? I told my mom I was depressed and needed councilling. She took it seriously though my councillor didn't even care after me coming to her for two weeks crying. Depression hurts honey- it really does. Someone will believe you, if it be your friends or your techer.

Come closer, and listen to me. Everything will be alright. I promise. /hug/

[Julia]

I'm torn between my father and my mother. My dad is a sole trader, owns a company (one-man company though) he does computer stuff and my mum is a nurse. Two worlds. And I'm definitely something between them. I would love to work as a translator or interpreter, but I would have to be a sole trader too..then again I would prefer doing the vet's assistant apprenticeship, move into a very small appartment with a cat.

I cannot decide between these two worlds... actually I would like working at a vets office for a couple of years and then become a sole trader (translator Spanish/English/German), once I've reached my mid 30s.

I've already done the foreign language correspondence and a 6 month long translator apprenticeship + I will finish the foreign language secretary apprenticeship next year. But I would HATE working in an office 8 hours a day...then again I would hate walking around the entire day too. I think working at a vets office is kind of the middle.

I'm just confused.

[apollo.]

My dad is a person who I don't like. He has always been mean to me, screaming at me for nothing and stressing me out. He has also hurt me. One day, he was trapping me in a certain space and basically giving me a panic attack. I thought I was texting my sister, but it was actually my dad and now he has my number. He tried calling my phone, but thank god I had it on silent. It was on the table and he might have seen it though.. Now he's texting me about his friends having dinner? It creeps me out, I don't want his number and I know he is going to start harassing me. I just want a hug or something, because I'm freaking out.

-hugs-
try this to stop it c:

Yeah, block him.
Some people were texting me and creeping me out so I just blocked them, it was easy and I don't get texts or calls from them anymore. I mean it was just some kids from my class being idiots but they were still freaking me out.

I wish you luck, it's a terrible position to be in but it'll be over soon. Avoid him whenever possible, and maybe talk to someone about the times he hurt you, locked you in a room, etc.

[SoundAndVision]

im sick and tierd of everything. A bunch of people hate me or think i have mental problems and I just need to talk so to someone over PM.

[Cellar x Elijah]

I've been in a super irritable mood the last few weeks and I'm not sure why. I'll get upset over the smallest things and I feel like it's affecting my friendships. x.x

And to make things worse for me, I fell asleep in a Skype call last night. I woke up without them noticing and overheard a conversation that wasn't meant for me, hearing who I thought was one of my really good friends pretty much say she doesn't trust me at all. I have a feeling that has at least something to do with this stupid mood I've been in. And now I'm crying at work because I get emotional about stuff like this and I have no idea how I'm going to get myself to talk to them now and blegh...

I'm a mess. u.u

~ElijahWilkes

[vaska]

;-;
I don't know what to think.
My niece came over for a three day sleep over, and yesterday, we went on a bike ride with my mom,
And I sarcastically went:
"How are you two not out of breath?
I'm like. Ueaghghha."
And my mom just changed.
"Alright, well, lets go home then." She said it like she was REALLY mad.
And I was already in tears by the time we were at home.
She sent me inside, and ALMOST Got to the road with my niece, but stormed inside and started YELLING.
YELLING AT ME.

She said DONT CRY
And HOW do you NOT cry when she's saying the most hurtful things?

She threatened to slap me silly, and she'd slap me if I didn't stop crying,
and I believed her.
She NEVER has Shown to be abusive, but this time was just the worst.

After a shout craze, she left.
And came back.
And shouted more.
And I said, I WILL NOT GO.
Because She'd get mad at me, because all I would do is cry.

About thirty seconds later, she comes back in,
Still yelling, she told me to wipe my nose and get out there.
I resisted slightly,
and then she GRABBED my shoulders.
As tight as possible, and I was in full panic, I screamed.
She pushed me into the bathroom and closed the bathroom door.

I had three minutes to get ready.

When I came out, she walked up to me and told me to tell no one.
But I can't.
I want to tell my sister,
but I can't.
She'll talk to my mom about it, and I'll get in more trouble.


I just wonder if she's Bipolar.

She's not apologizing, and I've apologized like six times.
I just know I'm at fault, but not THAT at fault.


My niece asked If I was the one who screamed, and I told her I just got really mad and shouted at her.

I just don't know what to do..
Thanks for reading.

[EmilineRose]

what do you do when you mean nothing to the person that means the world to you?
my chest hurts so much.
i cant breath.
its not fair.....
i...i tired so hard to be nice and make you happy....
why doesnt anyone ever stay in my life....
for once cant i be happy for longer then an hour...

[apollo.]

;-;
I don't know what to think.
My niece came over for a three day sleep over, and yesterday, we went on a bike ride with my mom,
And I sarcastically went:
"How are you two not out of breath?
I'm like. Ueaghghha."
And my mom just changed.
"Alright, well, lets go home then." She said it like she was REALLY mad.
And I was already in tears by the time we were at home.
She sent me inside, and ALMOST Got to the road with my niece, but stormed inside and started YELLING.
YELLING AT ME.

She said DONT CRY
And HOW do you NOT cry when she's saying the most hurtful things?

She threatened to slap me silly, and she'd slap me if I didn't stop crying,
and I believed her.
She NEVER has Shown to be abusive, but this time was just the worst.

After a shout craze, she left.
And came back.
And shouted more.
And I said, I WILL NOT GO.
Because She'd get mad at me, because all I would do is cry.

About thirty seconds later, she comes back in,
Still yelling, she told me to wipe my nose and get out there.
I resisted slightly,
and then she GRABBED my shoulders.
As tight as possible, and I was in full panic, I screamed.
She pushed me into the bathroom and closed the bathroom door.

I had three minutes to get ready.

When I came out, she walked up to me and told me to tell no one.
But I can't.
I want to tell my sister,
but I can't.
She'll talk to my mom about it, and I'll get in more trouble.


I just wonder if she's Bipolar.

She's not apologizing, and I've apologized like six times.
I just know I'm at fault, but not THAT at fault.


My niece asked If I was the one who screamed, and I told her I just got really mad and shouted at her.

I just don't know what to do..
Thanks for reading.

Well, first of all, none of this is your fault. You did nothing wrong, and even if you did, it doesn't make this right.

Try to lay low until your niece leaves, don't do anything to annoy your mom, and for the most part stay out of her way. Your niece will only be there for another day or so right? After that try and talk to your mom, tell her how upset her yelling at you makes you feel, and that you're sorry for ruining the bike ride, but that you were just joking, and didn't think they'd stop it for you. And that when she grabbed your shoulders it really scared you. Tell her you're really sorry, but she really upset you after.


It's unfair of her to tell you that you can't tell anyone, how can you not?
Try to talk it out with her, and if you're niece is going to be there for longer, just find a time that you and your mom can be alone, and ask to talk to her. If talking to her doesn't fix it, then tell your sister, but make her promise not to tell your mom yet.

Good luck, I hope things turn out ok for you

[vaska]

Well, first of all, none of this is your fault. You did nothing wrong, and even if you did, it doesn't make this right.

Try to lay low until your niece leaves, don't do anything to annoy your mom, and for the most part stay out of her way. Your niece will only be there for another day or so right? After that try and talk to your mom, tell her how upset her yelling at you makes you feel, and that you're sorry for ruining the bike ride, but that you were just joking, and didn't think they'd stop it for you. And that when she grabbed your shoulders it really scared you. Tell her you're really sorry, but she really upset you after.


It's unfair of her to tell you that you can't tell anyone, how can you not?
Try to talk it out with her, and if you're niece is going to be there for longer, just find a time that you and your mom can be alone, and ask to talk to her. If talking to her doesn't fix it, then tell your sister, but make her promise not to tell your mom yet.

Good luck, I hope things turn out ok for you

Thank you. <3
I'll do just that.
My Niece will only be here for today, she'll be leaving at like 5:30.
I just feel like my mom will get even more.. frustrated if I bring it up.
But I'll give her space, most definitely.
Thanks. <3