|TheComfortCorner| v.4

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Could I have a Pm? Please.

[ProudHufflepuff]

I'm feeling down I saw an old post and saw what a jerk I was...

Man, and he mods locked it so now I can't delete it ...

*Hugs* Don't feel bad, everyone makes mistakes. it will be fine

Okay, so I had a horse riding lesson Monday, and we had a new instructor.
By the end of the lesson I was crying. I wasn't in my usual class, and all of the people in the class were adults. The instructor was awful, and expected me to know as much as them. She shouted at me, screamed at me, and wanted me to know everything about the class even though I've never been before.
While we were cantering, she gave us all very complicated instructions, and I was going last. I had forgotten some of them by the end, and when I asked her if she could repeat, she said no.
All of my confidence in my horse back riding is gone, and I don't think I have what it takes to have a career involving horses anymore.
Can I just have a hug? I can't get what she said out of my mind.

*hugs* I'm sure you're amazing and keep working! I had a dance teacher that was very strict with me once but she was just trying to make me better. Maybe the new instructor is just trying to make you even better. Maybe try talking to her sometime and tell her you don't do well under so much pressure. See what happens :3

[SoundAndVision]

ive fallen for someone who i shouldnt have... there isnt a way to reverse it or anything at this point...but i dont want her to get in trouble because of me...

[Satiine]

██★██ I went to the beach with my family today.
We had this little ball we were throwing around in the sea, and at one point dad threw it way too deep and then was like "go get it Zan" because I'm the only one who can swim.
We were about neck-deep in the water, and the ball was a good 20-30 meters away. As in, deeper.
Not to mention the wind was literally pushing it away a good meter every 3 or 4 seconds.
I freaking swim to get it, get cramps, feel like passing out, after like 10 minutes of fighting the stream I finally manage to get the ball and come back until it's shallow enough to reach the ground, so I throw the ball to them and just try to stop my shaking and catch my breath. (I was sooo tired)
And then, what does dad do?
He throws the ball right in my face.
And then, he laughs.

Thanks, dad.
I hoped that maybe for once you'd be proud of me but
I guess not.
I guess I'm still not good enough.

I'm really sorry</3 I can definitely see how you would feel in this situation, and I would probably feel that way too. But maybe your dad just meant it as a joke, or just in fun. He's your dad, I'm sure he has at least some affection for you, though it may not seem that way. Just try to let little things like this go, don't dwell over it<3

Okay, so I had a horse riding lesson Monday, and we had a new instructor.
By the end of the lesson I was crying. I wasn't in my usual class, and all of the people in the class were adults. The instructor was awful, and expected me to know as much as them. She shouted at me, screamed at me, and wanted me to know everything about the class even though I've never been before.
While we were cantering, she gave us all very complicated instructions, and I was going last. I had forgotten some of them by the end, and when I asked her if she could repeat, she said no.
All of my confidence in my horse back riding is gone, and I don't think I have what it takes to have a career involving horses anymore.
Can I just have a hug? I can't get what she said out of my mind.

Aww, I hope you feel better! ;n; I really dislike mean instructors. I used to do horseback riding competitively, so I understand that sometimes it can be very hard. But it's okay, people can't expect us to remember things right off the bat, and it's okay to make mistakes. Some teachers are harsh, but it's just the way they teach, or maybe they had a bad day and aren't feeling too good themselves. Don't let them bring you down.

[Thalassic]

██★██ I went to the beach with my family today.
We had this little ball we were throwing around in the sea, and at one point dad threw it way too deep and then was like "go get it Zan" because I'm the only one who can swim.
We were about neck-deep in the water, and the ball was a good 20-30 meters away. As in, deeper.
Not to mention the wind was literally pushing it away a good meter every 3 or 4 seconds.
I freaking swim to get it, get cramps, feel like passing out, after like 10 minutes of fighting the stream I finally manage to get the ball and come back until it's shallow enough to reach the ground, so I throw the ball to them and just try to stop my shaking and catch my breath. (I was sooo tired)
And then, what does dad do?
He throws the ball right in my face.
And then, he laughs.

Thanks, dad.
I hoped that maybe for once you'd be proud of me but
I guess not.
I guess I'm still not good enough.

I'm really sorry</3 I can definitely see how you would feel in this situation, and I would probably feel that way too. But maybe your dad just meant it as a joke, or just in fun. He's your dad, I'm sure he has at least some affection for you, though it may not seem that way. Just try to let little things like this go, don't dwell over it<3

██★██ I have a hard time believing that, to be honest. He's never really said things like "I love you" or "I'm so proud" or anything like that and I just feel like he hates me.

[Quitting_Forever-]

please
im scared about this

[runnershigh]

*flops on bed making unintelligent noises*
how do i deal with cute boys??
frustratingly cute boys??
hhhhhhg

[~IronRose~]

please
im scared about this

I'm here for you, what is it that you are scared about?

[Bittertiffany]

I'm on a vacation and I have to go river rafting on this really fast river or something and I'm scared..
My dad said it would be worse than the one I did a few years ago that was pretty scary and I just want someone to give me tips about it or comfort me or something...

[Decca]

I think I just need a hug;

So, my parents that I've lived with my whole life is getting a divorce, I can't even see my dad for the next two years because of his 'problems', but I really miss him and he broke my heart by leaving me </3