Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Refugee]

I wish guys understood how girls are wired differently. Yes, I know you still like me, but a little acknowledgement would be amazing.

Oh how I wish this too.

I wish they understood how emotional we can be. I seriously don't think guys get heartbroken, do they? In the end it seems like the girl is always the one that gets hurt and cries and was too emotionally attached to a guy that doesn't care

[Lucid Dreamer]

Guys can be the same,
however I just think that the majority of girls seem to get more emotionally attached.

[Refugee]

Guys can be the same,
however I just think that the majority of girls seem to get more emotionally attached.

Yeah, biologically that makes sense. It's just how we're wired. All too often a girl gets emotionally attached to a guy when he has no feelings for her and he really only wanted the physical part of the relationship.

In reality, when people get more mature they realize there needs to be a balance of both physical and emotional connection in order for a relationship to work.

I'm just speaking on my general experience, there are always exceptions to everything.

[ScarWitch]

I wish they understood how emotional we can be. I seriously don't think guys get heartbroken, do they? In the end it seems like the girl is always the one that gets hurt and cries and was too emotionally attached to a guy that doesn't care

I wasn't meaning that persay, mainly just the fact that they think that we are like them. Completely fine with knowing they like us. I get that, but a small, sweet thing here and there would be absolutely wonderful to us. Do see your point though, some guys are like that but some girls are too.

[Zadkiel]

This has to be the worst day in my entire life so far... I found out my girlfriend has been liking this guy in her hometown for about a month now and now they are in a relationship... The worst part is I found out on Facebook. She hadn't responded to any of my texts the past few days, I guess I know why now. /: I don't understand how she could do this to me, I wish she was just honest with me. I really do. I feel horrible right now and our five month anniversary was just a few days ago.

[Refugee]

This has to be the worst day in my entire life so far... I found out my girlfriend has been liking this guy in her hometown for about a month now and now they are in a relationship... The worst part is I found out on Facebook. She hadn't responded to any of my texts the past few days, I guess I know why now. /: I don't understand how she could do this to me, I wish she was just honest with me. I really do. I feel horrible right now and our five month anniversary was just a few days ago.

I'm so sorry that happened to you we all know how that feels. She was too much of a coward or too immature to tell you how she really felt. Cheating on and ignoring someone you're in a relationship with is wrong on so many levels.

If you ever need any help, someone to talk to about relationships, crushes and such, don't be afraid to pm me! (This goes for all of you guys on here, I'm online a lot and would be more than willing to help)

[misty onyx;]

I hate long distance relationships!! GRR! I have been in 2 so far... Worst. I have never had an actual boyfriend, who lives in my state. Both my relationships have ended badly due to lying. My first boyfriend told me he was two years older than me, to find out he was actually a year younger. I was so upset! I know age doesn't matter much, but I trusted him and I HATE HATE HATE! Liars. I don't even want to talk about my second.... So I don't know what to do anymore.

[Dia.]

I hate long distance relationships!! GRR! I have been in 2 so far... Worst. I have never had an actual boyfriend, who lives in my state. Both my relationships have ended badly due to lying. My first boyfriend told me he was two years older than me, to find out he was actually a year younger. I was so upset! I know age doesn't matter much, but I trusted him and I HATE HATE HATE! Liars. I don't even want to talk about my second.... So I don't know what to do anymore.

This is probably going to sound harsh but since you don't know what to do, just avoid internet/long distance relationships until you are able to figure out what is good and real and what is bad.
You hate liars and the internet is full of people pretending to be someone that they aren't.

Honestly, I feel like LDRs and internet relationships should wait until after one has had at least one or two good relationships close by. Relationships in general are a huge learning experience and long distance/internet makes them harder on whole other levels.

[misty onyx;]

This is probably going to sound harsh but since you don't know what to do, just avoid internet/long distance relationships until you are able to figure out what is good and real and what is bad.
You hate liars and the internet is full of people pretending to be someone that they aren't.

Honestly, I feel like LDRs and internet relationships should wait until after one has had at least one or two good relationships close by. Relationships in general are a huge learning experience and long distance/internet makes them harder on whole other levels.

Ok, thank you so much! I wish I could get an actual relationship... I guess I will just wait and see if any guy wants to be with me.

[boat]

oh god
I knew she liked him too but I asked her if it was going to be okay if we got together
But she's been crying and screaming and I feel so bad about it
Should I tell him that we shouldn't stay together? Because I don't want to see my friend so sad and angry >w<