Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[EliteUnicorns]

someone likes her.
oh yeah, and her.
don't forget her, or him!
oh yeah them too!
but no one likes me.... why must all of my friends have a Lovelife, but I'm over here like ... heyyy....... ;-;

Same here! It sucks. I mean being single is fun and all but not always.

I hate being single. I hate not being able to talk to guys because I so freaking shy. I'm scared to talk to them.

[Dawnbreeze10210]

You're just like one of my friends haha. She has a boyfriend, but it was a helpful big push of another friend that got the two together.
Being shy is okay, but realize you have to sometimes come out of your shell and talk. It can be hard and you may be incredibly scared, but sometimes it's that little 20 seconds of courage that get you the best outcome.

someone likes her.
oh yeah, and her.
don't forget her, or him!
oh yeah them too!
but no one likes me.... why must all of my friends have a Lovelife, but I'm over here like ... heyyy....... ;-;

Same here! It sucks. I mean being single is fun and all but not always.

I hate being single. I hate not being able to talk to guys because I so freaking shy. I'm scared to talk to them.

[~Beautiful Voices~]

You're just like one of my friends haha. She has a boyfriend, but it was a helpful big push of another friend that got the two together.
Being shy is okay, but realize you have to sometimes come out of your shell and talk. It can be hard and you may be incredibly scared, but sometimes it's that little 20 seconds of courage that get you the best outcome.

someone likes her.
oh yeah, and her.
don't forget her, or him!
oh yeah them too!
but no one likes me.... why must all of my friends have a Lovelife, but I'm over here like ... heyyy....... ;-;

Same here! It sucks. I mean being single is fun and all but not always.

I hate being single. I hate not being able to talk to guys because I so freaking shy. I'm scared to talk to them.

@Sky Dnacer: I understand, it does suck to be alone while friends around you are in love land, but do not feel bad, there are many like you. I am sure you are a beautifl person, inside and out, so I bet that you will find someone. If someone that you like doesn't take interest in you, than that is theire loss. Do not lose hope, I am currently single while some of my friends are dating. It isn't the best, but I also figured out that rushing into a realtionship is an AWFUL idea, so my tip is to NOT do it.

[Amethysts]

someone likes her.
oh yeah, and her.
don't forget her, or him!
oh yeah them too!
but no one likes me.... why must all of my friends have a Lovelife, but I'm over here like ... heyyy....... ;-;

I love you o:. Do I count? Haha.
//crawls away//

[northern downpour ;;]

"I always say the wrong thing"
"Cuz you're learning"
He didn't deny it
Ouch

[angst]

She's cute. But she'll only kiss me when she's drunk.

This whole liking-your-straight-best-friend thing is alot more difficult than I thought.

[Dawnbreeze10210]

Okay, I know I just posted about the other guy but...

There's this one guy I've talked to a little less than a year by now. We haven't met in person or anything but he is one of the most sweetest people to me in the world. About a month ago his dad caught him talking to me, we would often call each other love and say I love you and all that. Needless to say, we were very close.
We'd have all these things together and were 'together' although neither of us really said anything about it. And ever since his dad caught us it's not the same ): he said he can only talk to me as nothing more than a friend now. So we are nothing more than friends. I'm doing my best to be myself while texting him, trying to make it seem I'm alright.
But I'm dying on the inside. I miss it, I miss him and what we had.
I don't think he knows how much it pains me right now. WE just said goodnight since it's 2 in the morning for him.
All I could say was Nighty night. Not I love you, goodnight love, I'll see you in dreamland (a little inside thing we had).
No.
Nothing.
I can't.
I'm not 'allowed' anymore.

I want to cry, I love him and he loves me.
He told me he'd never ever forget me. He said I'm his best friend.
I'm crushed.

[Mufa]

Okay, I know I just posted about the other guy but...

There's this one guy I've talked to a little less than a year by now. We haven't met in person or anything but he is one of the most sweetest people to me in the world. About a month ago his dad caught him talking to me, we would often call each other love and say I love you and all that. Needless to say, we were very close.
We'd have all these things together and were 'together' although neither of us really said anything about it. And ever since his dad caught us it's not the same ): he said he can only talk to me as nothing more than a friend now. So we are nothing more than friends. I'm doing my best to be myself while texting him, trying to make it seem I'm alright.
But I'm dying on the inside. I miss it, I miss him and what we had.
I don't think he knows how much it pains me right now. WE just said goodnight since it's 2 in the morning for him.
All I could say was Nighty night. Not I love you, goodnight love, I'll see you in dreamland (a little inside thing we had).
No.
Nothing.
I can't.
I'm not 'allowed' anymore.

I want to cry, I love him and he loves me.
He told me he'd never ever forget me. He said I'm his best friend.
I'm crushed.

In my personal opinion, I don't think his dad has a right to stop you two from talking like that. Obviously you're mature enough to speak like that to another person, wether you mean it or not, so he shouldn't be allowed to stop you two. You should try talking to his dad wether it be face to face or call [probably not texting] to ask him why he's stopped. If you don't have access to him [or are simply afraid to speak to him [or other reasons]], try and work it out with the boy. Maybe he can get you to understand his fathers purposes. From what I gathered, it seems like he stopped you two from talking for no real reason at all.

It just doesn't make sense why he would stop it [unless there are reasons that were not stated above]

If it's long distance, I can understand the father. My cousin is dating a girl that lives two provinces over from ours [plus, he met her on "Hot or Not"]. Relationships like that are not nessasry and I support them being stopped by parents. Since you didn't list any reasons why he might not allow you two to talk, I'm not really sure if it was right or wrong.

[Child_of_Death]

Wow.
That's rough, girl.
First of all, you've probably heard this before, and this is probably what is going through the boy's dad's head; do you really know who your 'love' is if you've never met him? No offense or anything. Keep reading if you want to hear the rest of my advice.
Not that I'm wise or anything ('cause I'm NOT), but if it were me, I would first clarify what his dad thought about it. Unless you already know, but you didn't say in your comment.

So by the way you said 'caught us', like his dad thought you two were doing something wrong, I would guess this guy's dad doesn't think much of your relationship. If that's the case, then I would come clean. At least try to get together with your guy, and talk to his dad, talk to him, figure it out, because there is nothing more confusing in a relationship than when nobody's on the same page. My guess is that your man's dad would probably change his mind if he got the chance to meet you; and it's always better to sort things out face to face.

Now, like I said earlier, I am definitely NOT as wise as I'd like to be. I'm also a very blunt and straight-forward sort of person, and maybe that's not your style. Some people are more shy, and that's fine, but I really think things will go easier if everybody's clear on what's happening.

Hope that helped!

[Thalassic]

Okay, I know I just posted about the other guy but...

There's this one guy I've talked to a little less than a year by now. We haven't met in person or anything but he is one of the most sweetest people to me in the world. About a month ago his dad caught him talking to me, we would often call each other love and say I love you and all that. Needless to say, we were very close.
We'd have all these things together and were 'together' although neither of us really said anything about it. And ever since his dad caught us it's not the same ): he said he can only talk to me as nothing more than a friend now. So we are nothing more than friends. I'm doing my best to be myself while texting him, trying to make it seem I'm alright.
But I'm dying on the inside. I miss it, I miss him and what we had.
I don't think he knows how much it pains me right now. WE just said goodnight since it's 2 in the morning for him.
All I could say was Nighty night. Not I love you, goodnight love, I'll see you in dreamland (a little inside thing we had).
No.
Nothing.
I can't.
I'm not 'allowed' anymore.

I want to cry, I love him and he loves me.
He told me he'd never ever forget me. He said I'm his best friend.
I'm crushed.

██★██ He really has no right to do that. Your relationships are your own, and no one should make you stop talking to someone in a certain way only because they don't like it.
The boy should talk to his father and if he needs to, let him meet you. In real life or trough a video chat or a call or something like that. Knowing that you are who you say you are can show him that the two of you were not doing anything wrong, and there is nothing wrong with LDRs.