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by jess32247 » Fri Jun 27, 2014 3:05 pm
I usually don't ask for help like this, but.. I really need some advice on a situation I've gotten myself into with a friend. Um.. if anyone's good with relationship advice and being able to talk about a sensitive subject, could you please send over a private message?
Basically.. I'm terrified of breaking someone's heart and need help with how to tell him that I just want to be friends, because I can't handle ruining another friendship. :(
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by .m i n y o o n g i » Fri Jun 27, 2014 3:06 pm
bluebell. wrote:is it bad to be antisocial?
is it bad to have trouble talking to people?
i have problems with talking to people,
very horrid problems.
especially people older than me.
i don't know what my problem is .
i just.
my anxiety gets to me and I might be bipolar and...
i don't know.
help
:O I am the same way, and it may suck, but sometimes it's good, and I know it's hard and anxiety and being bipolar sucks, trust me I have both, and I am getting threw it, just have faith in yourself and trying talking to your friend/boyfriend/girlfriend and tell them some stuff they don't know and maybe getting some stuff out will help you not be clogged with word when talking to someone else. It helps, me anyway

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by scav. » Fri Jun 27, 2014 3:30 pm
bluebell. wrote:is it bad to be antisocial?
is it bad to have trouble talking to people?
i have problems with talking to people,
very horrid problems.
especially people older than me.
i don't know what my problem is .
i just.
my anxiety gets to me and I might be bipolar and...
i don't know.
help
I have the same problem,I cannot speak with people unless it's online. I really do hate people.
I know this isn't much help, but your not alone.
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by ThatOneWoman_ » Fri Jun 27, 2014 3:35 pm
bluebell. wrote:is it bad to be antisocial?
is it bad to have trouble talking to people?
i have problems with talking to people,
very horrid problems.
especially people older than me.
i don't know what my problem is .
i just.
my anxiety gets to me and I might be bipolar and...
i don't know.
help
i feel you, just for differnt reasons that madde my anti socil. i am more social onlone
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by lintto » Fri Jun 27, 2014 4:19 pm
I have no friends. Seriously, there is no one online or offline that knows I exist. I had one friend who treated me poorly because I needed to vent, my dad's death anniversary is in a few days so I've been depressed. She told me she didn't understand why I was venting and that she didn't want to be in the middle -basically I was bothering her. I thought I had a friend here...but it turns out they were hoping I'd leave and give them the few pets they were missing that I managed to snag. When I said I was keeping those pets of I ever took a break I was ignored.
So now here I sit thinking about my crummy existence. I've done nothing important or anything to make someone proud. I'm anti social due to intense bullying..and seriously the only time anyone wants me is to talk to my mom because she's not answering her phone.
I wish I'd been born a different person. Smarter, more socially acceptable..
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by ThatOneWoman_ » Fri Jun 27, 2014 4:26 pm
Lintto wrote:I have no friends. Seriously, there is no one online or offline that knows I exist. I had one friend who treated me poorly because I needed to vent, my dad's death anniversary is in a few days so I've been depressed. She told me she didn't understand why I was venting and that she didn't want to be in the middle -basically I was bothering her. I thought I had a friend here...but it turns out they were hoping I'd leave and give them the few pets they were missing that I managed to snag. When I said I was keeping those pets of I ever took a break I was ignored.
So now here I sit thinking about my crummy existence. I've done nothing important or anything to make someone proud. I'm anti social due to intense bullying..and seriously the only time anyone wants me is to talk to my mom because she's not answering her phone.
I wish I'd been born a different person. Smarter, more socially acceptable..
i thought the same, until i opened my eyes and realized i had more friends than i realized.
Here we are going FAR,
to save all that we LOVE
If we give ALL we’ve got,
we will make it through.
We are up to the test to TURN
the world around.WE WILL RESET IT ALLf r e e h u g s < 3 ❂
c h a t r o l l ❂
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by fallen.galaxy » Fri Jun 27, 2014 4:28 pm
Lintto wrote:I have no friends. Seriously, there is no one online or offline that knows I exist. I had one friend who treated me poorly because I needed to vent, my dad's death anniversary is in a few days so I've been depressed. She told me she didn't understand why I was venting and that she didn't want to be in the middle -basically I was bothering her. I thought I had a friend here...but it turns out they were hoping I'd leave and give them the few pets they were missing that I managed to snag. When I said I was keeping those pets of I ever took a break I was ignored.
So now here I sit thinking about my crummy existence. I've done nothing important or anything to make someone proud. I'm anti social due to intense bullying..and seriously the only time anyone wants me is to talk to my mom because she's not answering her phone.
I wish I'd been born a different person. Smarter, more socially acceptable..
That's the way you are and it's ok to be depressed that your father died. That's normal and you are a smart person to realize your friend was just using you. And somewhere in this world there are always two people who love you.
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