megarin wrote:Hello.
Mind if I pop in?
Please note that I am arguing respectfully, as that is how all people should.
I disagree with most of you. I feel that it was righteous for the thread to be shut down. Now I'm not gonna go saying I'm /glad/ that it was shut down or anything because I'm certainly not happy that a big thread of happiness would get shut down.
Most of what I have in my head has been said already. It has been made known by my previous supporters of the shut-down that the thread was riddled with spam. I believe this is true.
You argue by saying the thread is supposed to be things that amuse you, and if spam amuses you, then it must be relevant to the topic of amusement. I have little idea how you came up with this idea.
I have a personal argument to fight with.
You have said that one of the purposes of your thread was to amuse people allthewhile making friends and introducing new people.
And he is where my argument comes in.
When I joined CS, I was a COPPA member. I used to love to watch the threads that all if the amazing super cool normal people could write on. I specifically remember watching the things that amuse you thread when it was smaller. Of course it was still large, but not at all compared to today.
I literally dreamed of being able to post on threads like that when I lost my COPPAship.
And when that amazing day came I was horribly disappointed. I went to go check the things that amuse you thread, to discover that it didnt seem like I would easily fit myself in.
All I saw was a group of friends randomly chatting. They seemed to already be chatting about things that went so many pages back. And I couldn't really find my way in. Who was I to barge in and interrupt their conversation that seemed to last an eternity?
To put it bluntly, I did not feel like I would be at all welcomed there. It seemed to be just a big group of people who seemed to know each other very closely. It seemed more like a large personal discussion than an open place to share to me.
And so I never posted. I felt like my posts saying random normal stuff like "I am amused by this video" would not fit in with pages of spammy chat.
The thread was so riddled with spam, that it actually repelled me. I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way, either.
Kitten'sKlawz wrote:ArcticGold wrote:Actually I understand and agree about why it's was locked. I have posted on that forum on the past, well the ones before this one I believe or just looked through it and people posted normal things that amused them, like a gif or a picture. But now that I look through this version of the thread, there is so much random chatting about who knows what. I'm not saying that I wanted the thread to get locked but I agree that there was a ton of annoying spam about random things.
but then comes the question. who cares? it bugged you that you werent included, not their fault.
Oyasumi Punpun wrote:It's not like we're trying to make you feel bad. We're just saying that creating a little clique like that makes people scared. Even if you don't mean to, it's still your clique that you are involved in, and it shouldn't of been made in the first place. I just think that it quickly became a club that felt unwelcoming, and everyone had their own conversations going on. That's not very inviting, is it?
Also, please don't try to do the entire "I feel bad, please pity me" approach with this. It's near impossible to not notice the fact that the same couple of signatures were on page after page. You all got 3 warnings. By then, you should've realized what was wrong and fixed your problem. Just because you feel about about it now doesn't change anything.
We understand if you just wanted to have fun with friends, that's fine. Just don't do it on a public thread, and do it in a way that excludes other people.
Bottom line, the thread shoud've been locked. If they do re-open it, at least make a rule like on the TTAY where you cannot respond to other people's posts, and should keep it to PMs. You can mass PM people, I believe. If not, there are chat programs.
You all turned the TTAmY into a clique, not a community, a clique that should've been destroyed before it started.
a small group of people, with shared interests or other features in common, who spend time together and do not readily allow others to join them.
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