|TheComfortCorner| v.3

[irukandji]

I just wish he would respond...

[UnicornDoingDressage]

I'm upset! Today was a field trip, but I got laryngitis and cant even talk, and I'm constantly coughing up icky stuff. I am disappointed :c But I get to eat popsicles all day, so that's nice.

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{{Finally confessed my sexuality after seven months of being taunted about it. My female friends are supportive (except the twins) but my male friends are straying away from me. I can understand my exs' being mad because I told'em straight up 'I'd rather be with a girl than any of you' (because they were being rather rude), any advice? Real advice? I hate getting the same response over and over again: 'They obviously arnt your real friends if they don't support you' and 'Tell them off'...

[strawbewwy.]

I'm upset! Today was a field trip, but I got laryngitis and cant even talk, and I'm constantly coughing up icky stuff. I am disappointed :c But I get to eat popsicles all day, so that's nice.

*Hugs* That sucks a lot. It's a lot better that you aren't around other kids so you can rest and get better. If anything, you have bragging rights for eating a bunch of popsicles all day. x3 Seriously though, there'll be a bunch of other field trips and stuff in the future so don't stress yourself out. Feel better sooooon. <3

{{Finally confessed my sexuality after seven months of being taunted about it. My female friends are supportive (except the twins) but my male friends are straying away from me. I can understand my exs' being mad because I told'em straight up 'I'd rather be with a girl than any of you' (because they were being rather rude), any advice? Real advice? I hate getting the same response over and over again: 'They obviously arnt your real friends if they don't support you' and 'Tell them off'...

Good for you for coming out of the closet! That's a big scary thing to do, especially with pressure coming at you. Maybe if you try to ask them why they are acting the way they are. Religeon? Just plain uncomfortableness? Sometimes boys can feel a bit antsy around these type of topics, so trying to sit down with them (either one by one or in a group or whatever feels more comfortable to them, and you) and encourage them to ask questions and answer them as honestly as you know how. Don't rush to end a bunch of relationships just yet, as they probably have a bunch of emotions running through them. Anything from confusion, to fear (that your going to be teased by others, etc), to even anger at the fact you hadn't told them sooner. Just try to talk things out. They probably will hve a better understanding, and will be better equiped to know how to handle these situations. If all fails and they still drift away from you, don't worry about it, not all people understand/tolerate different sexualities and if it bothers them enough that they don't want to be your friend, then let it be, because it'll be THEIR loss, not yours.

Hope this helped any~ <3 *Hugs*

[rina.]

i was in a chatroom talking to people who are going through the same things i am and someone asked if i was a boy or a girl..
and i replied back to them that i was a guy..
im just.. so confused.. about everything..
physically i am a girl yeah, but.. sometimes i really dont feel like one.. right now is one of those times..

[forecast]

i was in a chatroom talking to people who are going through the same things i am and someone asked if i was a boy or a girl..
and i replied back to them that i was a guy..
im just.. so confused.. about everything..
physically i am a girl yeah, but.. sometimes i really dont feel like one.. right now is one of those times..

first off, it's nothing to feel bad about if you do. i once felt that way.
just hang in there ♥
the feeling should go away but hey, if you well and truly feel like a guy, you can be one if you want.

[evol]

i was in a chatroom talking to people who are going through the same things i am and someone asked if i was a boy or a girl..
and i replied back to them that i was a guy..
im just.. so confused.. about everything..
physically i am a girl yeah, but.. sometimes i really dont feel like one.. right now is one of those times..

that ain't a problem! I'd suggest heading to the gender forum on 18+ chat, perhaps they can help you more than I ^^

[Citrus.]

Ugh. Do you ever feel like no one understands you?
I mean, I have wonderful, close friends that I enjoy hanging out with, but I don't have anyone who I can tell anything to.
I have things that I'd like to do, but I know that no one will be supportive of them. I just wish there was someone who understood me.

I have depression, but I am not sure why. Maybe it's because I have low self esteem and I am not happy with the way I look?
Maybe it's because I lost the only person that I was ever close to a couple of months ago?
The last thing that I said to them was "Bye, I'll miss you. Be back soon, okay?" and hugged them.
Ugh! CANCER! Why must you take my world and shatter it like glass cups hitting the ground?
I would sell my soul just to feel them hug me back just once more.....

[Nefelibata]

I just can't keep it up..I keep getting racist comments about my nationality. They just can't compare gypsies to Romanians anymore? What did i do wrong? As people can see, i'm not poor, since i have internet, a family, and a life. Why people keep hating me just because i was born in the wrong country? Why people keep harassing me about everything i do? I just try to consider myself as a part of the society, but people really don't want to understand how i actually feel. When me, and other people are discriminated just because of the thieves, beggars, and horrible persons who do all these things. I'm trying to convince people surrounding me that i'm not the same. I'm actually a nice person, white, and normal.
But they really don't want to understand. I've got about five racist comments this week, and i can't keep it up anymore. I wish i could immediately change my personality. And i don't care if i would be African, Algerian, or Mongolian.
I JUST WANT A CHANGE

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{{Thanks Perey ^^

@Citrus: I can relate with the cancer thing but first things first. If no one will support you or the things you want to do then just do them. If there a bold-lined consequences for it then what does it matter? You'll pay for it, sure, but you'll still get to do the thing you want. *replaces hug with an epic brofist*

Cancer is a humongious problem these days. I feel sorry for your loss, even though your most likely think sorry doesn't fix anything... I can deeply relate because my mother has cancer, along with my uncle and every other female on my mother's side. Coping with the loss of a loved one isn't exactly easy (as everyone knows) but think of it this way: They arent in pain anymore. *super hug*

@General Of The Sky: Personally I believe the gypsy life is rather independent and that gypsies are attractive, seeing that they land more roles in movies requiring an attractive female (Ghost Rider 2 and Hunchback of Notre Dame, if that counts). I personally would punch them but this isn't the Punch Corner, this is the Comfort Corner so I won't say anything (i did anyway...)