Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[magpie!]

Hey everyone. All you new to things, experiencing love for the first time. Having crushes. I have a quote from my favourite actor.

if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.
Johnny Depp


I feel all of those asking questions about "I like two guys what should I do!!!!!" This will help

I have an odd opinion about this.

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First of all I think I have had a crush on G ever since I met him... But I didn't realize it.

P came along, and I thought I liked him, the truth is he was the next best thing. I think I knew it subconsciously, but I was too distracted to realize it.

P and I became friends and he admitted he liked another girl. This snapped me out of my daze and I realized that what I was looking for was there the whole time.

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I think once you get to know a person, you will be ale to figure out if you really like them.

In the case of G and me, I think we are going to last awhile.

The Valentines dance was last night, we both had a great time. (Even though we didn't dance much because we both suck at dancing)

[Gwenfoxe]

I myself have a crush on two people.. I don't know which to choose.
Let's start with P.
He's everything you could ever want- kind, generous, courageous, empathetic, handsome... etc.
But he doesn't even like me as a friend, and I'm scared that if I try to become his friend, or even more, it will pull him away from my cousin, who is his best friend. My cousin hates the fact that I like him, and he's constantly trying to get him to hate me, but I truly love P and I don't want to give up.
He has no clue I like him, and I'm too scared to tell him...
Now, in comes T.
T is smart, funny, and sweet. He seems to like me a little too, but I only like him a bit. We're both in the gifted class, and we share all our classes.
But I don't like him nearly as much as I like P, and though he likes me back a bit, I find that I am mostly attempting to get the attention of P.
Should I give P up and try for T?
Or should I keep trying for the one I've loved for over two years?

[.s h e r l o c k.]

I myself have a crush on two people.. I don't know which to choose.
Let's start with P.
He's everything you could ever want- kind, generous, courageous, empathetic, handsome... etc.
But he doesn't even like me as a friend, and I'm scared that if I try to become his friend, or even more, it will pull him away from my cousin, who is his best friend. My cousin hates the fact that I like him, and he's constantly trying to get him to hate me, but I truly love P and I don't want to give up.
He has no clue I like him, and I'm too scared to tell him...
Now, in comes T.
T is smart, funny, and sweet. He seems to like me a little too, but I only like him a bit. We're both in the gifted class, and we share all our classes.
But I don't like him nearly as much as I like P, and though he likes me back a bit, I find that I am mostly attempting to get the attention of P.
Should I give P up and try for T?
Or should I keep trying for the one I've loved for over two years?

Go where your heart tells you, but also dont get carried away. If your second guessing T then its probably a small crush that will fade, go for the guy that you for sure "like". I wouldnt call it love, you will know what love is when it happens, but this probably isnt it. I understand exactly how you feel and I had a situation like you do with P. Just go for it, start a friendship and see where it goes, when the time is right, ask him how he feels about you. The worst he could say is that he doesnt like you in that way, if he says that, then just wait and see if things change. Good luck ^-^ May the odds be ever in your favour!!

[Keletheryl]

You know what? I'm... kind of getting bored. Maybe it's just because he didn't text me today that I feel bored but... I don't know, I just feel like i'm getting bored of him.
I would suggest he hang out with me more but he's really busy this month and the next.
What a bad time to get bored of somebody :p

Just because he's busy doesn't mean you can ask him to hang out... >.>
Sounds like you're getting bored of him and don't want to do anything about it. ^^
Don't make any rash decisions about it. Make sure you actually are "bored" and it's not just a one day thing.

I know, that's what I said. He's a busy guy so I can't ask him to hang out ^^
I'm probably not going to jump to anything, but if this continues... Eh.
It's always the same old with him, he never wants to change it around. Bleh.

[greysilence]

When it comes to some guys, holding a conversation while texting with them is pretty simple and easy. However, with other guys, that's definitely not the case. What do you guys suggest to keep the conversation going? I'd prefer some more, unique I guess, ideas instead of the typical sports and 20 questions. Thanks for any advice. :)

[ExplodingInk]

When it comes to some guys, holding a conversation while texting with them is pretty simple and easy. However, with other guys, that's definitely not the case. What do you guys suggest to keep the conversation going? I'd prefer some more, unique I guess, ideas instead of the typical sports and 20 questions. Thanks for any advice.

I would turn the conversation to them as much as possible.

For example;

Guy: Hey
You: Hey
Guy: What's up?
You: Nothing much you?
Guy: Same here
You: [ ask a question about them ]
Guy: [ gives you the answer ]
You: Wow really? That's cool, how come [ ask another question that relates ]
Guy: Idk but I guess it [ answers ]

and go from there XD Just bring the conversation to them; make them think you are interested
and active in the conversation. The more you do that the more the guy/girl will open up :3

and if they don't want to talk about themselves just bring it to a topic you know they like, play it safe and
feel out the conversation before asking bigger and more interesting questions. Like say he likes swimming,
ask him if he ever considered trying out for a swim team, etc.
Hope that helped !

[cautiousculpeo]

well I'm happy. So the boyfriend and I hung out tonight. So basically we sat on his bed, and held hands while watching pewdiepie haha. He held my hand "intertwined" with his on his chest. aw I really liked it.

[Thalassic]

When it comes to some guys, holding a conversation while texting with them is pretty simple and easy. However, with other guys, that's definitely not the case. What do you guys suggest to keep the conversation going? I'd prefer some more, unique I guess, ideas instead of the typical sports and 20 questions. Thanks for any advice.

Ask him questions about himself. No one likes to admit it, but people can most easily talk, and like to talk about themselves and what they do. So depending on what he does and likes, ask him random questions. Talk about him or something he enjoys.

[~IronRose~]

Ok so I am literally panicking. So a guy I met at one of my speech and debate tournaments just told me that he and I quote " kind of sort of maybe" have a crush me. I don't like him back I see him as a friend but I don't want to lose him as a friend what do I do?

[Thalassic]

Ok so I am literally panicking. So a guy I met at one of my speech and debate tournaments just told me that he and I quote " kind of sort of maybe" have a crush me. I don't like him back I see him as a friend but I don't want to lose him as a friend what do I do?

You tell him that. That you like him, but only as a friend, and that you value your friendship, and would prefer not to lose it over something like this. If he really likes you, he should be able to understand. ^^