Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

I'm a bit worried. My girlfriend hasn't replied to my texts for two days, and we haven't hung out. I try spamming her, but I just don't know what to do. Any help?

Maybe she just doesn't feel like talking to anyone? Happens to me a lot, and spamming usually just makes it worse. Give her some time.

I agree. If I am busy, stressed out, don't have my phone, or simply don't feel social, the last thing I want is to see a crap ton of texts from someone over reacting.

I know days seem really long to not receive a text, but chances are that she has a good reason. You already texted several times at least so she knows you are concerned - or if she doesn't have her phone for whatever reason, she will see them as soon as she has it again. No one likes a spammer. A few texts are enough.

[cautiousculpeo]

@Vinrage Rose and Saren

Lol. It's so nice. though we don't "spoon" well we like kind of just snuggled a bit, until tonight tonight was omg best ever. Want to know what happened?!?!? No?? Well I'm gona tell you anyways :3

Well tonight he came over and we were going to watch World War Z, you know. New zombie movie. So we were like sitting on the couch. And all of a sudden he just laid down. Which was fine, and than well idk, I laid down beside him, now were both laying on the couch, I'm in the inside between him and the back. Well and than a jump scare happened. So I Jumped and he kind of like touched my shoulder. Which was cute. Anyways. I was laying with my head on his chest when he made his "move". He put a arm on the top of the couch, and tried to put it on my shoulder, he like wanted to but was scared to, so I put his hand on my shoulder. anyways. Long story short, we ended up curled together, holding hands. And anyways. It was so cute.

[Krycifer]

Alright. Thanks for the advice. ^^

[yfish]

hey,,, dating question...

if a guy offers to pay is it okay to pay for yourself?
i know that it is held stereotype that girls can't pay for them selves but...
could it seem rude to decline them?

[Krycifer]

I was... Just... Dumped... I don't know what to do or what to say... Besides... Can someone please go get me ice cream, a cat, and a box of tissues? ;_;

[sprig]

I was... Just... Dumped... I don't know what to do or what to say... Besides... Can someone please go get me ice cream, a cat, and a box of tissues? ;_;

oh no! :'c
that is awful! :'c i am so sorry... if you need someone to talk to, honey, i'm here. <3<3
i am so sorry, sweetie. :c

[sprig]

hey,,, dating question...

if a guy offers to pay is it okay to pay for yourself?
i know that it is held stereotype that girls can't pay for them selves but...
could it seem rude to decline them?

i don't think that it's rude... i do that to my boyfriend all the time.
i hate it when people spend any kind of money on me, {which is why i tell him not to get me gifts. lol}
so when we go on dates, either i pay for both of us, or we each pay for ourselves.
he will sometimes sneak and pay for us both if i'm not paying attention, though. lol

but no, i don't think that it's rude. <3

[Krycifer]

I was... Just... Dumped... I don't know what to do or what to say... Besides... Can someone please go get me ice cream, a cat, and a box of tissues? ;_;

oh no! :'c
that is awful! :'c i am so sorry... if you need someone to talk to, honey, i'm here. <3<3
i am so sorry, sweetie. :c

Thanks... :T I just don't know what to say. When something comes up I'll think of something to message you. ^^
In the meantime I'll just go play some games. That always cheers me up.

[yfish]

hey,,, dating question...

if a guy offers to pay is it okay to pay for yourself?
i know that it is held stereotype that girls can't pay for them selves but...
could it seem rude to decline them?

i don't think that it's rude... i do that to my boyfriend all the time.
i hate it when people spend any kind of money on me, {which is why i tell him not to get me gifts. lol}
so when we go on dates, either i pay for both of us, or we each pay for ourselves.
he will sometimes sneak and pay for us both if i'm not paying attention, though. lol

but no, i don't think that it's rude. <3

oh, okay... thank you for the fast response. i have never dated before so... new to this thing.................thought i might as well get advice now.

[cautiousculpeo]

hey,,, dating question...

if a guy offers to pay is it okay to pay for yourself?
i know that it is held stereotype that girls can't pay for them selves but...
could it seem rude to decline them?

i don't think that it's rude... i do that to my boyfriend all the time.
i hate it when people spend any kind of money on me, {which is why i tell him not to get me gifts. lol}
so when we go on dates, either i pay for both of us, or we each pay for ourselves.
he will sometimes sneak and pay for us both if i'm not paying attention, though. lol

but no, i don't think that it's rude. <3

oh, okay... thank you for the fast response. i have never dated before so... new to this thing.................thought i might as well get advice now.

I feel the same. I pay my own way, my bf and I fight over paying though xD haha. Useally he takes my money and shoves it In my pocket and pays.