Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

Ok so I made an earlier post about me breaking up with my Boyfriend. His friends are my friends and they recently started hating me for breaking up with him... now we were supposed to be THE couple of our class but we have like NOTHING in common and it was awkward. I dint know what to do.... any suggestions?

Is there any way to let them know you just felt it wasn't meant to be and didn't want to waste his time? There's nothing wrong with realizing you are not attracted to someone who is otherwise a good guy.

My boyfriends ex/ my ex best friend won't leave us alone and has turned all my friends on me, so I have no friends and she is getting her way and this is what my friends are saying + her:

My friends said my boyfriend started it all, apparently my boyfriend said something to (the ex best friend/ his ex) and I'm sticking up for him
Also, I'm to clingy to him and i spend to much time with him and I should talk to the group more aka my friends more not my boyfriend, It's all me and my boyfriend, (his ex) did nothing wrong, her feelings are getting hurt not us, we should grow up, . my other friend said I should stop hanging around my boyfriend 24/7 so break up basically( we never see each other, he is not in my classes) , They Practically said I should go see his ex/my ex friend and talk to her alone about it, Were getting blamed for the fight and everything , apparently my boyfriend the reason everyone's fighting and the reason everyone's on her side. She's telling everyone I'm not talking to her, but my boyfriend is?

I'm confused she spoke to us about being different when we first started to date we said it might just be you and now she has started all this -.-

Woah ok so personally I would handle this like an adult. Talk to her in a civil manner and if that doesn't work punch her in the nose! No not really you would be sent to the principles.but try ask her why she did this. Andy as a last resort you could always talk to your mom or someone about what they would do! Hope this helped!

You could ask her how much time with him is 'too much' and let her know that you aren't even with him 'that' much. You could also let her know that it's none of her business how much time you spend with him and you would really appreciate it if she wouldn't try to put your friends against you since it isn't even their problem. You should still spend time with your friends, sure; boyfriends do come and go and no one likes being replaced by someone they feel is only temporary. But if talking to this girl doesn't work, your only option left may be to simply ignore her.

ANd sure, talking to another adult could definitely help! I'm an adult but I've definitely never been in that situation, sorry.

[.rin okumura.]

Ok so I made an earlier post about me breaking up with my Boyfriend. His friends are my friends and they recently started hating me for breaking up with him... now we were supposed to be THE couple of our class but we have like NOTHING in common and it was awkward. I dint know what to do.... any suggestions?

Is there any way to let them know you just felt it wasn't meant to be and didn't want to waste his time? There's nothing wrong with realizing you are not attracted to someone who is otherwise a good guy.[/qoute]
thanks for the advice!

[Sameen_of_Nohr]

ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that {and not just because his mother hates me and calls me a witch every time I see them...} but he turned 18 lately and im a little uncomfortable with him being an "adult" and me not... true ill follow him in a few monthes but it bothers me I don't know why any thoughts?

[Sameen_of_Nohr]

Ok so I made an earlier post about me breaking up with my Boyfriend. His friends are my friends and they recently started hating me for breaking up with him... now we were supposed to be THE couple of our class but we have like NOTHING in common and it was awkward. I dint know what to do.... any suggestions?

Is there any way to let them know you just felt it wasn't meant to be and didn't want to waste his time? There's nothing wrong with realizing you are not attracted to someone who is otherwise a good guy.
thanks for the advice!

try telling him you felt god pulled you in a different direction ive had that pulled on me several times and I just cant be mad at them because its probably true if you believe that sort of thing

[cautiousculpeo]

ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that {and not just because his mother hates me and calls me a witch every time I see them...} but he turned 18 lately and im a little uncomfortable with him being an "adult" and me not... true ill follow him in a few monthes but it bothers me I don't know why any thoughts?

sorry, I really only understand a little of whats going on here. Can you please rewrite it? mostly the "ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that"
Well, you don't have to kiss to be boyfriend and girlfriend... I don't. We just hug because kissing makes us awkward.

[starfin]

Hi, I've got a pretty urgent question. So, I'm writing an anonymus card to my crush, how do I word that he looks handsome in not a weird way. You know, it's a crush, I can't jus go out there saying that or else it sound as if I'm watching him. That's just too creepy. I'm trying extremely hard to watch my wording in this letter..... :( Please help :(

I would write something about him being attractive, such as;

I really like the way you look




I think you are very attractive

[Saren]

Mkay guys. Well him and I were hanging out. Between cleaning skulls, to cuddling on a couch holding hands and well cuddling :3 I'm so happy :)

Does anyone else (who has a boyfriend/girlfriend) notice that when you cuddle you fit together perfectly? Like just the way he is slightly bigger than me, and the way he intertwines his feet with mine. It's just like a puzzle price :)

Yes <3
He's bigger than me (taller and wider) and even though he has a good layer of muscle he's so comfortable to lie on.
My favourite is when we "spoon"- he cuddles me from behind, and we sort of lock our fingers together. But I also love being the "big spoon" (I'm behind) and it's not just because he has an extremely ticklish neck that makes him squirm when you even breathe on it (that may not be grammatically correct. I apologise.) but I love cuddling him!
And then there's the typical head-on-shoulder cuddle, which to be honest I can never really get that comfortable in.

[sprig]

Mkay guys. Well him and I were hanging out. Between cleaning skulls, to cuddling on a couch holding hands and well cuddling :3 I'm so happy

Does anyone else (who has a boyfriend/girlfriend) notice that when you cuddle you fit together perfectly? Like just the way he is slightly bigger than me, and the way he intertwines his feet with mine. It's just like a puzzle price

yes yes yes!
he will come up behind me and put his arms around my waist, and kiss my neck. it gives me shivers!
or he will lay in my lap and i'll put on hand on his chest and with the other i will mess with his hair...
he is much bigger than me, and i fit extremely perfect in his big strong arms.
it makes me so happy, and makes me feel wanted and loved and just...
perfect. <3

[Krycifer]

I'm a bit worried. My girlfriend hasn't replied to my texts for two days, and we haven't hung out. I try spamming her, but I just don't know what to do. Any help?

[Thalassic]

I'm a bit worried. My girlfriend hasn't replied to my texts for two days, and we haven't hung out. I try spamming her, but I just don't know what to do. Any help?

Maybe she just doesn't feel like talking to anyone? Happens to me a lot, and spamming usually just makes it worse. Give her some time.