Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Akele]

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
Peace out and I'll try not to cry.

Listened to a bunch of songs and you know what? I feel a hell of a lot better now.
I'm still hurt, but I'm not crying anymore, no. I'm just angry. Angry and frustrated.

EDIT; should I ignore him if he texts me? I feel like I should but I've never been in this situation before, I don't know how to react, I don't know what is right and wrong.
Just don't tell me to talk to him about it, I really don't feel like it right now.

I think you know what the right thing to do is.
Your fears have been confirmed. And you've determined you don't want anything to do with him anymore.
Now...all you have to do is let him go and move on.

Don't answer his texts. Don't answer his emails. Put some distance between you and him.
It's the only way you are going to move on.

[SnakeBean]

I have a crush on an anime character.. His name is Kyo and I love him so much... What is wrong with me?

[luxray;]

My crush made a Skype account just so he could talk to me more, but then he started to refer to us as 'Good friends'
nonononono I think I'm being friendzoned

[vvoland]

I honestly find the whole friend zone thing annoying.

its kinda the only place to put a guy you'd like to know better, even someone you're legitimately interested in. Friends first.?

[Rat-Xx]

I honestly find the whole friend zone thing annoying.

its kinda the only place to put a guy you'd like to know better, even someone you're legitimately interested in. Friends first.?

I have to agree xxx

[kavv]

it's so hard when you put so much energy into a guy, that doesn't even like you. i mean, it's unfair to him to put so many expectations on him, and unfair to you, because you've accumulated so much stress that you can't sleep at night. i just can't stop thinking about him, and he won't start thinking about me. why can't i just let it go? i know this isn't very poetic; i guess i can't get my thoughts straight. ugh.

[Jinhwan - LEFT]

Found a helpful video on escaping the friendzone.

[AustrianAce]

I like this guy, and have for like the entire school year, ever since I met him during band camp. He's so sweet and nice, and just the kind of guy that I like <3 But he's a year older than me, so we don't have many classes together. We do have band and Spanish together though. We're friends because we play the same instrument, but we've only known each other since the beginning of this school year so he probably wouldn't consider me a close friend... But whenever he sees me he seems genuinely happy to see me! I'm guessing it's just cause we're friends, but my friend (who knows I like him,) always raises her eyebrows at me when he says hi to me XD And, we were choosing partners in Spanish, we had to choose 4 people, and he asked me to be one of his partners. Inside I was like *Squeeeee!* but the rational part of me argued that we were only friends, and friends always want to be partners with each other. So I tried to act casual, like "sure, we can be partners!"
I get all awkward around him, but I hope talking to him more will help. I really want to hope that he likes me back, but i'm denying that hope to myself because I just don't want my heart broken. I've never dated or flirted before, even though i'm in highschool So I don't know how to flirt, whether to flirt, or to just act natural? I don't really know what I meant to write here, but it felt good to let it out. Anyone have suggestions for me? Oh and I don't have his number, would it be weird for me to ask for it? We play the same instrument, and have the same math and spanish class, so I do have a good reason for asking other than I like him so freaking much

[Mizuki]

Quickly venting, but oh my goodness. I'm friends with someone and it's apparent that he likes me, my friends have told me, strangers have told me, and I'm not sure how I feel about it. But either way, he's such a moody little devil and it's both frustrating and embarrassing to talk to him because I always come out of a conversation aching. Somehow, I always manage to offend him. Somehow, I say the exact wrong thing or ask the wrong question. It's like he's looking for excuses to get mad at me or feel insulted. I can't take it anymore.

Tonight he confided in me that he had some family issues going on, so I tried to be sympathetic. Strike one. Totally offended.
Then he was feeling sad and alone. Okay, how do you feel? Strike two.
Then he was talking about how he felt like he couldn't talk about things to anyone. I'm apparently chopped liver. I offer to listen. Strike three, door in my face.

I just can't win with this guy. I think I'm just giving up on being friends because it's too stressful to be around him. :/

[ɪs ᴛʜɪs ʜᴀᴘᴘɪɴᴇss]

My boyfriend called another girl stunning and he was blinded from it. My friend showed it to me. But I don't know how to take it. Can I have some advice on what to do and say. Should I let it slide? I'm just a little upset and feel threatened by her now. Should I?

I think she was trying to pin point it out to me.. Ugh, I'm just sad.

But I don't know anymore. I feel like I have to be prettier now. Be skinnier to match her. Not many of my friends think she's pretty. But he does. Not just pretty either...STUNNING. What am I to him then?