Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Dia.]

Can anyone help me with this? So my family knows of my old crush who now has a GF so sometimes my mom talks about him and me and I say 'He has a girlfriend' she then goes to the topic of how my older sisters fiancé had a girlfriend when they met and now they love each other. Then sometimes my mom and other older sister say how perfect me and a guy in my band would be. They say how he's one of the best guys at my school they bet. Then my friend I once told her I kind of liked this guy and now when ever she sees him she's like look it him and points to him. They don't get the hint of shut up I don't want to talk about this or just stop. I think they are starting to do it less but valentines is coming up and I'm afraid they'll go back to love again. especially because I might see two guys on Tuesday for a Basketball game I'm defiantly playing at with my sister (we're in the pep band we don't play the sport). What do I do?

The more you talk about "shut up" and "I don't want to talk about it" the more they won't shut up and talk about it.
Just don't do anything about it. lol

[MenheraCollie]

So, my best friend found out ALL of my crushes when we had a sleepover.. I feel as if I now need to be a secret agent and legit spy on her so she won't tell. BUT now that somebody knows, I can finally talk about them more. THEY'RE SO CUTE OMG. <3

[northern downpour ;;]

Feeeeels
<3
Still wish I could touch him, though ;-;

[Me <3]

So, my best friend found out ALL of my crushes when we had a sleepover.. I feel as if I now need to be a secret agent and legit spy on her so she won't tell. BUT now that somebody knows, I can finally talk about them more. THEY'RE SO CUTE OMG. <3

I know how you feel.

[~IronRose~]

Ok I can't take it! I see him everyday and it always hurts. Even if the break up was mutual and a while ago I want him back. Hes dated other girls in that time and now he's posting things about being heart broken. Thats how I felt when we broke up. I thought he never liked me even when dating. But it hurts me soo much. When ever it think about the guy I like he comes up. I feel like our time was too short and it was. What did I do wrong??? He's the one I want most I've tried getting over him but it never workds i haven't been able to date anyone else but he has. I'm afraid he's move on quite fast and ill never be able to catch up to him. But I want him back so much and I don't know what to do. I don't want to move on and Iwon't believe that I have to because I still love him so much I don't know what to do what do I do????

[Dia.]

Ok I can't take it! I see him everyday and it always hurts. Even if the break up was mutual and a while ago I want him back. Hes dated other girls in that time and now he's posting things about being heart broken. Thats how I felt when we broke up. I thought he never liked me even when dating. But it hurts me soo much. When ever it think about the guy I like he comes up. I feel like our time was too short and it was. What did I do wrong??? He's the one I want most I've tried getting over him but it never workds i haven't been able to date anyone else but he has. I'm afraid he's move on quite fast and ill never be able to catch up to him. But I want him back so much and I don't know what to do. I don't want to move on and Iwon't believe that I have to because I still love him so much I don't know what to do what do I do????

First of all, this isn't mutual if you want him back and you still "love him so much".
Second, if he doesn't want to date you again, you can't do anything to change that. Sorry. :/
I had a saying a little over a year ago, 'Trying to get someone to love you is like trying to control who you love'. It doesn't really happen. >.>
Try just getting to be friends again. I think that's your best shot. Although if he doesn't want to do anything about it, don't push it. The more you fight the more it'll hurt.
Good luck.

[~IronRose~]

Thank you Dia

[horse .]

Of course i'm not good enough! Why does it happen to me so often

[Keletheryl]

His chameleon died today.
I wish I could be there for him, because just last year in the summer, my beloved gerbil passed away. She was like my best friend, and I know exactly what he is going through.
Just because a pet is small doesn't mean that you can't love them just as much as a cat or a dog.
Anyways, I wish I could be there for him, but he seems like one of those people that just needs some space when they grieve. So i'm going to give him however much amount of time he needs.
Gah, I feel so bad for him though. :c

[melonzz]

broke up with BF yesterday, he hurt me but i think i still like him