Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Dia.]

But for our anniversary, I'm thinking about making him something like a scrap book. I've saved something from a majority of the dates we've gone on and the things we've done, I even kept have my ticket from the play we saw on our first date. I also have tickets from every movie we've seen together and receipts from things like special events, like the zoo or when he visited me during the summer while I was volunteering. Would making a scrap book be a good idea? Or would that be something we would do together, instead?

I have to agree with thunder. That doesn't sound like something a guy might enjoy doing.
We didn't do anything for our one year anniversary, although that is partially because it was three days after Christmas and we did Christmas gifts instead.
Although something handmade still sounds like a good idea, a scrapbook for just a year is a bit overboard. ^^ Just do something simpler and smaller?
Do you have an inside joke or anything special between the two of you to do? For his birthday, I painted him a picture with the seagulls from finding nemo, since he always hugs/squishes me and says "mine".

I fell in love with him because of...

His eyes!
His laugh!
His smile!
His voice!
His body!
His hair!
H I M !!!

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Rant over, -sigh- ... Why is he so... perfect...?
And i'm just, ugh, eww :(

Do you love any of the personality/emotional things about him?
You don't love someone just because of physical characteristics.
Or else I've been in love COUNTLESS times and I didn't even know it.
But I'm pretty sure this is the first time I am.. and I love way more than just the way he looks, talks, and smells.

[MenheraCollie]

I have so many pointless crushes it's not even funny. I feel so eeeeeeee! When one of em' come and talks to me, or even looks at me. Sadly I get so embarrassed when around them my face turns pink x3. I want to have an actually literate conversation with at least one, but it always goes-
Him- "Hi"
Me- "Oh uh..... Hi /)u(\ " *walks away* or *talks to friend while steering her in the other direction*
Anyways, I doubt any of them would ever actually like me, because I'm extremely sensitive and well known for hiding in my school, I hide in places such as corners, the bathroom, a corner in the bathroom, under a table or desk, behind people, or behind an object. ESPECUALLY WHEN I SEE ONE OF MY CRUSHES omg so embarrassing. They probably think of me as a freak by the way I act around em'. But just so my friends don't know who I love, I flash a big smile at them once in awhile. I need to practice to be not as shy, because crying all the time is pointless x3.

[dionaea]

Nevermind x3
Resolved

[oakdenugg]

-decides to pour heart out to this thread-
Hullo.

So...there's this one guy I have liked since last year. We had a class together and sat together and stuff, and he's really sweet. But recently I've been homeschooled so I don't think he remembers me. Being the super [not] suave person I am *cough* awkward *cough* I saw his number in my friends phone while looking for the number to another friend. So she texted me his number and since I'm pathetic and a potato when it comes to boys, I texted him and it went something like this.

Me: uh, hi. I got your number in a mass text. Who's this? [complete lie just didn't wanna be outright with it]
Him: this is _____ who's this?
Me: oh hi! It's _____. I don't think you remember me but we had science together last year?
Him: oh. Hi. Ummmm.
Me: uh this got awkward.
Him: yeah. Did you get my number from Sarah? [a mutual friend]
Me: nope. I barely talk to her. Uh...should I delete your number?
Him: I don't care.
Me: k....so what's up?

I see that my text is read. We both have iPhones.
No response xD
I have no luck with dudes. I mean I've had one guy have a crush on me and he's younger than me. He's really sweet but he's not someone I see like that..lol.
So yep. Just wanted to say this.

Should I text him again like 'hey I'm bored what's up?' And see if he responds...?
Again I am a potato. Complete and utter.

i would recommend maybe just starting to talk to him at school, or whenever/wherever you see him. find out some things you guys have in common, so maybe your next conversation won't end so abruptly. or just keep talking to him, but let him text you first, so you know he's actually interested in talking to you.

[dionaea]

Nevermind x3

[Dia.]

-decides to pour heart out to this thread-
Hullo.

So...there's this one guy I have liked since last year. We had a class together and sat together and stuff, and he's really sweet. But recently I've been homeschooled so I don't think he remembers me. Being the super [not] suave person I am *cough* awkward *cough* I saw his number in my friends phone while looking for the number to another friend. So she texted me his number and since I'm pathetic and a potato when it comes to boys, I texted him and it went something like this.

Me: uh, hi. I got your number in a mass text. Who's this? [complete lie just didn't wanna be outright with it]
Him: this is _____ who's this?
Me: oh hi! It's _____. I don't think you remember me but we had science together last year?
Him: oh. Hi. Ummmm.
Me: uh this got awkward.
Him: yeah. Did you get my number from Sarah? [a mutual friend]
Me: nope. I barely talk to her. Uh...should I delete your number?
Him: I don't care.
Me: k....so what's up?

I see that my text is read. We both have iPhones.
No response xD
I have no luck with dudes. I mean I've had one guy have a crush on me and he's younger than me. He's really sweet but he's not someone I see like that..lol.
So yep. Just wanted to say this.

Should I text him again like 'hey I'm bored what's up?' And see if he responds...?
Again I am a potato. Complete and utter.

i would recommend maybe just starting to talk to him at school, or whenever/wherever you see him. find out some things you guys have in common, so maybe your next conversation won't end so abruptly. or just keep talking to him, but let him text you first, so you know he's actually interested in talking to you.

Getting someone's number from someone else and then texting them isn't really a good idea most of the time. I understand the difficulty of actually talking to him and hanging out because of the homeschool thing, but personal interaction is the best way to go ESPECIALLY if you've never really talked to them before.
I'm a bit suspicious because of the fact that he agreed it got awkward, his short replies, the way he replied, and the fact that he asked who gave you his number. He also didn't say yes or no to if you should delete his number.
He either read your text and didn't want to respond, read your text and doesn't have time to respond, or read your text and forgot to respond.
BUT don't text him constantly and just saying "hey I'm bored" is usually something that annoys people.
HOWEVER, don't just wait for him to text first "so you know he's actually interested" because, I'm sorry, that's complete bull.

that's my problem also though xD
I am homeschooled now so I don't go to school at all, so no contact with him at all.
This was all around November, and he hasn't texted me once since. I'm pretty sure I freaked him out or something x3


Ooh, also. I have a lot of crushes since I'm hopeless haha.
There's this one guy I've known since we were very young and we were practically best friends.
I was suuuuuper kind as a child so I maybe kinda sorta tied him to a tree...? And left him in the rain xD
Before you guys are like 'why would you do that?!' I was dared by his best friend :p
Why I took the dare, I will never know.

So lately [at least when I was still in school with him] he avoids me. It was years ago, really. But I dunno. I reached out to him and stopped by his house once with my dogs on a walk to give him some money for his dad from my dad for something I dunno, and he answered the door. I was ridiculously awkward and I just sorta talked to him for a bit and actually apologized for all the times I sort of tried to kiss him when we were like, 8. 0///0

He was sort of in a rush [probably not though.] and was like 'k bye.' Haha.
So yep. I have his number but I've never texted him. .-.
I AM A GIANT POTATO.

That's all very awkward.
You probably shouldn't have brought up the kissing thing.
Most likely, if you tied him to a tree, left him there, and also tried to kiss him a lot (at least that's what I got from the "all the times" bit), he's a bit put off by that.... and honestly that awkwardness is probably why he's avoiding you.
And since you haven't talked in a while, he doesn't feel that close to you anymore.

[dionaea]

yeah x3
I wasn't really planning on texting him again I don't think, so yep!
Thanks haha xD
Yeah I mean I'm not an entirely awkward person or anything lol.
And I don't think it was a lot xD like maybe once or twice...?
Hm I dunno. Yeah lol.

[FoxFlame]

What do I do?
There is this boy I really like,
He's cute, funny and has a great personality,
He's one of my friends but he's not a really close friend,
I really like him but I'm pretty sure he likes my best friend,
I'm shy and WAY to nervousness to tell him I like him and I'm worried it will mess up my friendship with him and my best friend,
What do I do?

[Buuuuugjuice]

Tomorrow I'm going to ... I guess you could call it a party (only 6 people), but it's taking place a my bf's house. I guess it's a triple date? 3 guy and 3 girls. We are all gonna watch a movie and play videogames. Which is something I'm really looking foward to. It's something we've been planning for awhile now. Hopefully it will be better than today. Today was stressful because of a shooting. My bf kept texting me as we hid.

bf: If this is the worst... I love you.
me: I love you too
me: Lets hope it is the best.
bf: If it isn't the best.. I love you
bf: bye

I'm gald he didn't get hurt... and that no one else did. It was one of the scariest things I've been through. We both thought it was the end. It was one of those cliché moments you see in movies and it's terrifing. 0/10 would not recommend, it's over romantized. The thought you were going to die and never see eachother again was just... too much.

To change the subject...
I'm a bit nervious. I'm not very romantic and it's kinda sad. Even when I tried it turns out wrong. It's started to become a problem... I just can't seem to flirt and I hate that my bf has to deal with that. Once before we were dating he flirted with me and I yelled a random fact out of no where (first thing that popped into my mind again cliché and cheesey of me).

[Thalassic]

Oh man
Is being nice to someone without them assuming there's a thing between you two even possible
Because it doesn't seem like it

I like you so much, and you're literally one of my best friends, but can you please not try to make anything more of it
Please