Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Thalassic]

Hey everyone!
I have a crush question, it's very general to whether or not he likes me. Well here it is:
So, my name's Kayla BTW. His is Tanner. So, he moved to my school last year, but the first time I saw him, I thought he was just another boy. But when I got to know him, he turned out to be a sweet, cute, short XD, spunky, tough sporty boy. I have had an ongoing crush on him for about a year and a half, which he knows about. We ride the same bus, and I'm in two classes with him. A few things I have seen him do for a while is this:

-Getting my stuff and handing it to me when I drop it
-Stares
-Dances with me (Waltz!!! )
-Smiles and is nice around me
-Act silly together

But anyways, we talk almost everyday, more or less. He says I'm nice, crazy, and funny, which I am, but this means a lot to me. XD So, a few stories I will share here about him and me:
-One time, he got in trouble on the bus, so he was sitting in the front. I got on, and he smiled at me like he was crazy or something. XD
-On the bus, we always do super bad things that could get us in trouble, but we have a fun time doing them. Today we were shooting cheeseballs at highschoolers, the other day we were annoying this girl, but she poured water on us both.

IDK. I just think we are meant for eachother. I can imagine us having a future together. And plus, he's only one day older than me. ONE. XD So anyways, reply back here or PM me. Thanks!
XOXO, Hassie AKA Kayla

No offense, but from the things you said here, it definitely does not sound to me like either of you would be ready for a relationship. You do have a friendship going on, but it's hard to say if he likes you more than that, since you act more like friends when together.

[raezel]

I LIKE TWO BOYS!!! what do i do?

there's something i heard one time:
"if you love two people, choose the second person, because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
or something along those lines.
i think it still somewhat applies to your case, too.

[Ameryth]

I LIKE TWO BOYS!!! what do i do?

there's something i heard one time:
"if you love two people, choose the second person, because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
or something along those lines.
i think it still somewhat applies to your case, too.

I'm in love with two people too....
one is not in my class.. but when I see him my heart skips a beat ;-;
and the other is in my class.
I liked the one in my class since I first saw him, same as the other.

[Thalassic]

I LIKE TWO BOYS!!! what do i do?

there's something i heard one time:
"if you love two people, choose the second person, because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
or something along those lines.
i think it still somewhat applies to your case, too.

I do agree with this, but at the same time, I feel like 90% of people asking for advice on here are, what, middle-high school? Chances are they don't love these people, just like or crush on them. So yeah, I'd say be their friend, but don't look for a relationship yet.

[horse .]

Isn't it the best feeling when the guy you like tells you your beautiful?

Ahhh my heart is gonna melt <3

[thunderofthedrum]

Isn't it the best feeling when the guy you like tells you your beautiful?

Ahhh my heart is gonna melt <3

It is definitely a nice sensation!
My boyfriend texted me that today and also said he'd go with me to a concert of people I like. *___* I already bought the tickets. It's a band where people tend to bounce/grind/just meet people, so.. it'll be super duper nice to have my boyfriend there with me. I've seen them live once before but I got my best friend to go - who doesn't dance much and I think feels distinctly uncomfortable dancing with guys without knowing their whole life stories. xD And I'm here like "Meh, it's not like we're making out and I'll never see them again". So yeah, definitely nice to be dating someone and get to do this with him! We've seen his friend's band several times but this will be different - it's not rock that will kill your ears and that you sing along to like his friend's band.

So yeah, I never see live music or even really go out so this will be amazing - music I like, and if I want to dance super close I know it'll be with my boyfriend. My friends are welcome to come but my boyfriend and I might totally become oblivious to the rest of the world. It'll be even better because I'll make him be the designated driver. >8D
*____*
PLEASE COME SOONER, MARCH.
Nevermind that I'll have just turned a freaking quarter century by that time.

[Keletheryl]

I LIKE TWO BOYS!!! what do i do?

there's something i heard one time:
"if you love two people, choose the second person, because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
or something along those lines.
i think it still somewhat applies to your case, too.

I do agree with this, but at the same time, I feel like 90% of people asking for advice on here are, what, middle-high school? Chances are they don't love these people, just like or crush on them. So yeah, I'd say be their friend, but don't look for a relationship yet.

I agree with that too, but in the case of liking two people, I think it's not really a problem unless you start getting a lot closer to one and still like the other. Then it become a problem.
At one time in my life, I liked six guys at once. Six! But it wasn't a bad thing, cause I wasn't that close to any of them! Lol.
I'd also like to add; there is no age limit for which people can fall in love. You know how I know that? Two reasons;
One, I am at sophomore level in high school, and I've liked a lot of people throughout the years. But I met this guy, and I'm pretty sure I am in love with him. Why? Because i've never, and I mean, NEVER, felt this way about anybody else.
Two; love comes in different variates, and little children can love their parents. They might not be able to grasp the concept of loving another person like we know today, but they do love.

[Thalassic]

there's something i heard one time:
"if you love two people, choose the second person, because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
or something along those lines.
i think it still somewhat applies to your case, too.

I do agree with this, but at the same time, I feel like 90% of people asking for advice on here are, what, middle-high school? Chances are they don't love these people, just like or crush on them. So yeah, I'd say be their friend, but don't look for a relationship yet.

I agree with that too, but in the case of liking two people, I think it's not really a problem unless you start getting a lot closer to one and still like the other. Then it become a problem.
At one time in my life, I liked six guys at once. Six! But it wasn't a bad thing, cause I wasn't that close to any of them! Lol.
I'd also like to add; there is no age limit for which people can fall in love. You know how I know that? Two reasons;
One, I am at sophomore level in high school, and I've liked a lot of people throughout the years. But I met this guy, and I'm pretty sure I am in love with him. Why? Because i've never, and I mean, NEVER, felt this way about anybody else.
Two; love comes in different variates, and little children can love their parents. They might not be able to grasp the concept of loving another person like we know today, but they do love.

Yes, but that doesn't change the fact that even if you happen to fall in love at age 5, it is not always the best idea to be in a relationship. [example] And when someone gets a crush, what do they do most of the time? They think they love this person and want to be in a relationship. And just. Don't rush things?? If it's love, then things will happen, if not , then things will happen a different time. And it just pains me to see all these middle-high schoolers so eager to get in a relationship when probably a good 70% of them or more have not even experienced this kind of love yet.

[kayla;]

Hey everyone!
I have a crush question, it's very general to whether or not he likes me. Well here it is:
So, my name's Kayla BTW. His is Tanner. So, he moved to my school last year, but the first time I saw him, I thought he was just another boy. But when I got to know him, he turned out to be a sweet, cute, short XD, spunky, tough sporty boy. I have had an ongoing crush on him for about a year and a half, which he knows about. We ride the same bus, and I'm in two classes with him. A few things I have seen him do for a while is this:

-Getting my stuff and handing it to me when I drop it
-Stares
-Dances with me (Waltz!!! )
-Smiles and is nice around me
-Act silly together

But anyways, we talk almost everyday, more or less. He says I'm nice, crazy, and funny, which I am, but this means a lot to me. XD So, a few stories I will share here about him and me:
-One time, he got in trouble on the bus, so he was sitting in the front. I got on, and he smiled at me like he was crazy or something. XD
-On the bus, we always do super bad things that could get us in trouble, but we have a fun time doing them. Today we were shooting cheeseballs at highschoolers, the other day we were annoying this girl, but she poured water on us both.

IDK. I just think we are meant for eachother. I can imagine us having a future tog
ether. And plus, he's only one day older than me. ONE. XD So anyways, reply back here or PM me. Thanks!
XOXO, Hassie AKA Kayla

No offense, but from the things you said here, it definitely does not sound to me like either of you would be ready for a relationship. You do have a friendship going on, but it's hard to say if he likes you more than that, since you act more like friends when together.

[kayla;]

Alrite thanks for the response. If anyone has more input, please PM me or post here ! I wl try and get out of the friend zone