|TheComfortCorner| v.2

[farewell]

I think my cat may have a lung virus or a lung tumor, my mom had a dog that died of a lung tumor, so let's hope it's just a virus that can be treated with medicine. *Crosses fingers*

I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope your poor kitty is okay! Good luck, hun.

[samm.]

I don't like storms. I mean, simple little rain showers are nice, maybe even a bit of thunder and lightning, but when the threat of tornados pop up, please leave me out of it..

Why am I saying this? Oh, you know, because there is a huge storm that will be hitting my area soon and I am in the most severe part of it, meaning it is possible for a tornado to happen. You're probably still wondering why i'm posting this..Well, its because i'm on the verge of having a panic attack. I really can not handle severe storms, I will panic and break down and start crying, which it hasn't come to that yet, but I am shaking and I can't seem to stop pacing around the house. Anyone have any ideas on how to calm myself or distract myself? A virtual hug and some kind words would also be nice!

p.s. I'm also extremely scared of the dark, so i'm freaking out about that too because its the middle of the night and if the power goes out i'm out of luck literally. We only have one working flashlight, and no one knows where it is..

[farewell]

I don't like storms. I mean, simple little rain showers are nice, maybe even a bit of thunder and lightning, but when the threat of tornados pop up, please leave me out of it..

Why am I saying this? Oh, you know, because there is a huge storm that will be hitting my area soon and I am in the most severe part of it, meaning it is possible for a tornado to happen. You're probably still wondering why i'm posting this..Well, its because i'm on the verge of having a panic attack. I really can not handle severe storms, I will panic and break down and start crying, which it hasn't come to that yet, but I am shaking and I can't seem to stop pacing around the house. Anyone have any ideas on how to calm myself or distract myself? A virtual hug and some kind words would also be nice!

Take a breath. Have a positive mindset that you will be fine. Listen to music that soothes you, pick up a good book. Breathing exercises, preparation for the worst outcome, and contacting some family members to wish them good luck, could all be very therapeutic and reassuring. I hope the best for you. Stay safe, PM me if you need someone to talk to throughout this, okay? <3(:

[HamstermadHammy]

Do any of you guys mind if I PM someone, I don't really want to everyone to see, you know?

[PeachFuzz]

I have a friend who has been hanging out with some other people recently. I would be fine with that, except for the fact that she keeps saying they're her better friends and they're the only people who understand her. She keeps pushing me away and not giving me a chance. She always acts like she just wants me to pity her.
It's just... ugh. >.<

I think I need a hug... :c

[clarabow]

Now I'm 99.99% sure my cat is dying.
I've had her for my entire life, literally. I'm not ready to loose her yet...
She hasn't been eating or drinking, she hasn't been using her litterbox, she threw up bile today, she coughed up bloody mucus.
The stress and constant attacks from the new kitten is killing her. Not to mention she's starving because he always eats all her food...
I just hope that during her final moments, I can be there with her. I want to be able to hold her in my arms one last time when she dies... I can barely see through my tears right now.
She is the kindest, most beautiful cat I have ever known. I don't want to loose her... She isn't just a pet, she isn't just a lifelong friend. She's family. Her death would be just as devastating as if my sister or my dad died. I'm not ready to loose my best friend. I don't want her to die, she can't be dying yet...
I really need a hug. There has been so many tragic events in my life, with the best dog I could ever ask for passing away, bullying, betrayal, blackmail, learning my uncle has cancer, my grandfather dying, my brother hating me, now this.

I had the exact experience. I owned two cats, one was a mother and the other her son, who grew up with her from birth to an old adult while all her kittens were given away. They must've had a strong bond, because when the male got sick and died, the mother went into a sort of depression. She refused to eat, until the point she was so close to starvation that she had to be put down because there was nothing we could do to help her. I can relate to your cat throwing up and coughing up blood because that's what my male cat suffered before he died. I grew up with those cats, but when they died it didn't really effect me.

But the point is, that isn't anything unusual... unfortunately, unless your vet has a solution, there's nothing you can really do. If she starts to suffer physically, I would recommend putting her down, because once she walks down that road there's no turning back I'm afraid. It's an awful experience, I understand. I love animals as well, and I wouldn't doubt she's just as important to you as your family. But if you really love her you won't let her suffer; trust me, it would be worse for her to live through that than it would be for your her die peacefully.

I don't know what to say about the last sentence in your post, that's really sad and I'm so sorry. Personally, bullying and betrayal don't effect me period, because I couldn't care less about other people. But the things about your family must really hurt and I am just so sorry about that. I think you need a hug *hugs* <33333333 but things get better, trust me.

[quietude]

I have a friend who has been hanging out with some other people recently. I would be fine with that, except for the fact that she keeps saying they're her better friends and they're the only people who understand her. She keeps pushing me away and not giving me a chance. She always acts like she just wants me to pity her.
It's just... ugh. >.<

I think I need a hug... :c

- gives a hug - She's not a true friend. Tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore, because friends don't do that to other friends. You can make new friends who actually care about the fact that your have feelings. That 'friend' of yours doesn't deserve you.

[ohdeer]

I feel so empty all of a sudden, they say new schools are usually for the better, but not for me.

This is my first year at a completely different new school. I don't know anyone there, except for a girl that goes to my church. We're not that close, but she's someone I know. I really miss my old class. I know it's wrong to live in the past, but my new classmates have been together for 7 years already. Whenever they start a conversation, it usually leads to a discussion about what did last year or whatever. I try to not let it bother me, but it really hurts. Honestly, I don't want to be friends with these people, they're just not my type, but I feel forced to since I'm relying on them to get around this new school. I've started to realize that my old friends have found new classmates and have gotton along pretty well with them, and there's a growing distance between us. We're not as close as we used to be. I try to push myself to fit in, but I can't. I used to be pretty popular (mostly because I'm not a selfish person and I always help others with homework) in my old school, and, not trying to prove anything, I'm definately among the smartest in the class. I'm not saying I have a higher IQ. When I say smarter, I mean smarter than the people of the same age group around me. Here at my new school, your physical abilities and gym grades mean alot. Now, I'm very very bad at gym and sports, and that's a problem. I feel like everyone is drawing their magnifying glass and focusing on my weakness instead of realizing my other talents. Sure, the girls and some guys are friendly towards me, but only because I'm new and people are more interested towards new things. Once all the fuss is gone, then what? Am I going to be the 'stupid sicko' of the class?

It's not even fair. Just a few minutes ago I just found out that one of my classmates held a b-day party and invited pretty much everyone else but me. Everyone else but me.

And nobody told me.

It really hurts, really really hurts. I didn't have a choice, I was just trying to fit in. Why?
-Achromatic

[c a l a m i t y]

I feel so empty all of a sudden, they say new schools are usually for the better, but not for me.

This is my first year at a completely different new school. I don't know anyone there, except for a girl that goes to my church. We're not that close, but she's someone I know. I really miss my old class. I know it's wrong to live in the past, but my new classmates have been together for 7 years already. Whenever they start a conversation, it usually leads to a discussion about what did last year or whatever. I try to not let it bother me, but it really hurts. Honestly, I don't want to be friends with these people, they're just not my type, but I feel forced to since I'm relying on them to get around this new school. I've started to realize that my old friends have found new classmates and have gotton along pretty well with them, and there's a growing distance between us. We're not as close as we used to be. I try to push myself to fit in, but I can't. I used to be pretty popular (mostly because I'm not a selfish person and I always help others with homework) in my old school, and, not trying to prove anything, I'm definately among the smartest in the class. I'm not saying I have a higher IQ. When I say smarter, I mean smarter than the people of the same age group around me. Here at my new school, your physical abilities and gym grades mean alot. Now, I'm very very bad at gym and sports, and that's a problem. I feel like everyone is drawing their magnifying glass and focusing on my weakness instead of realizing my other talents. Sure, the girls and some guys are friendly towards me, but only because I'm new and people are more interested towards new things. Once all the fuss is gone, then what? Am I going to be the 'stupid sicko' of the class?

It's not even fair. Just a few minutes ago I just found out that one of my classmates held a b-day party and invited pretty much everyone else but me. Everyone else but me.

And nobody told me.

It really hurts, really really hurts. I didn't have a choice, I was just trying to fit in. Why?
-Achromatic

You poor thing!-hugs-
I'm scared of moving on to high school as I will be leaving friends behind! ;-;
I really do hope you find someone who like you.Who cares about you.Who feels for you like i do <3

[mandalorian]

Its always my fault.