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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Thalassic » Wed Nov 06, 2013 2:05 am

dream catcher; wrote:I've never had a boyfriend in all my life and I haven't even asked out either. I was talking to my friend K about this and she said, "You're really pretty, I don't know why you've never had a boyfriend before." So she got me thinking and I started wondering if, maybe I'm doing something wrong like sending the wrong signal? *sigh*

Well CS doesn't allow you to say your age, but if you are roughly as old as most people on here (as in, 16 and under), I don't think you even should have had a boyfriend yet. There's a lot of more important things to focus on, like studies.
I'm in my first year of university and all my life I've had just one boyfriend.

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I don't think you should read too much into that. Wanting to come over to your place and calling you cute could just be his way of showing that he's not embarrassed of these things around you, but it does not necessarily mean that it's a crush. I think he's just being friendly with you.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Fallen Mage » Wed Nov 06, 2013 2:13 am

HorseFan21♞ wrote:
Zinovi wrote:
    omg omg omg omg omg i'm so embarrassed... o m g
    ok, so today my bestie and i were walking around the school during our morning break like we do everyday, and as soon as we saw shortie and his friend coming around the corner she starts nagging me, going, "oh, who's coming around the corner?" and she starts nudging me. i was so embarrassed already but she just had to literally almost push me straight into him. it probably made everything really obvious ugh. i mean i don't care really that she did it, i'm not mad, i'm just so embarrassed ;__; mehh.


I feel you. XD

So uh. I kinda need some help on interpretation here.

Me and my crush are getting to be seriously good friends, we bop each other on the head, pass notes in class, yak our heads off on some random junk.. It's great. I know I call him my crush, and yeah I still have a crush on him, but I think it's too early for love right now ( well hey Im around 12-15) so Im content with us being semi-besties. <3

But lately I've been getting some vibes from him that are different from the usual " friend " vibes. o.o
He's started taking interest in my cheeks, and he's been chucking a lot of rather... Out-of-the-ordinary comments. Such as Im cute when I'm semi-mad, my cheeks feel like marshmallows ( EWW)..... It's freaking me out a little. O.o he also started going on about wanting to see if he can get to my house, and if my parents would mind......... Etc. etc. etcccc. XD

Someone help? XD I'm getting this feeling he's crushing back, but I have no idea if I'm right. My last crush was during 4th grade so I don't think Im exactly experienced. o.o


OMG this has happened to me to!!!! and in my experience don't act on it just see how things are going because on a whim i asked out my crush and he was like yeah but when i kissed him on the check the magic was gone. you know the feeling when your crush is around and ur all happy and stuff. Just follow the flow of thing he could just be teasing you.Besides personally I find teaing my crush extremely fun because idk how he feels but i still feel good to just hang out with him

And on my last note wwhy is he asking about ur house? Sorry but to me that is a little to early in ur crushship (crush+ relationship) to be asking where you live. you should find out his motives for asking.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby JuniperFalls » Wed Nov 06, 2013 6:03 am

HorseFan21♞ wrote:
Zinovi wrote:
    omg omg omg omg omg i'm so embarrassed... o m g
    ok, so today my bestie and i were walking around the school during our morning break like we do everyday, and as soon as we saw shortie and his friend coming around the corner she starts nagging me, going, "oh, who's coming around the corner?" and she starts nudging me. i was so embarrassed already but she just had to literally almost push me straight into him. it probably made everything really obvious ugh. i mean i don't care really that she did it, i'm not mad, i'm just so embarrassed ;__; mehh.


I feel you. XD

So uh. I kinda need some help on interpretation here.

Me and my crush are getting to be seriously good friends, we bop each other on the head, pass notes in class, yak our heads off on some random junk.. It's great. I know I call him my crush, and yeah I still have a crush on him, but I think it's too early for love right now ( well hey Im around 12-15) so Im content with us being semi-besties. <3

But lately I've been getting some vibes from him that are different from the usual " friend " vibes. o.o
He's started taking interest in my cheeks, and he's been chucking a lot of rather... Out-of-the-ordinary comments. Such as Im cute when I'm semi-mad, my cheeks feel like marshmallows ( EWW)..... It's freaking me out a little. O.o he also started going on about wanting to see if he can get to my house, and if my parents would mind......... Etc. etc. etcccc. XD

Someone help? XD I'm getting this feeling he's crushing back, but I have no idea if I'm right. My last crush was during 4th grade so I don't think Im exactly experienced. o.o


I think that you guys can be 'friends' or whatever until your 16. I think that 16 is a good time to start dating. The purpose of dating is to find your 'mate' anyways. I don't understand the cheeks feeling like marshmallows, but I'm guessing that's his way of secretly flirting. I think it's fine if you hang out with a guy with a group up other people too, but not like alone or anything. That could get really awkward for you.
I've never had any guys that were just friends, I mean yeah I talked to some at school, but if we started being friends it would just get all awkward a month or two later.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Gwenfoxe » Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:40 am

Gwenfoxe wrote:I have a crush at my school. He's got slightly long hair and he's really nice.
He's friends with my cousin, so whenever he sees me he says hi. It's frustrating, though, because I never know what to say. I have random dreams in which it's normal (Or at least as normal as a dream can be) and then he appears, and I can't stop thinking about him. Whenever I see him I can't help but smile, and I bring money in for school stuff when they sell it because there's a 50% chance he's going to be there, helping to sell the stuff. He always smiles at me, though he had no clue I have a crush on him and he's just being nice. I'm worried he'll think I'm a stalker or something because I always find myself looking at him, whether or not I'm aware of it. I have no clue what to do about it. I could never tell him outright that I like him- that would just be awkward and I'm too shy. Any ideas of what I can do to get him to talk with me, or something?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Buuuuugjuice » Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:46 am

So my friend called me Senpai at lunch and then he said... "Senpai is mine" and then put his arm around me.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Thalassic » Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:54 am

:Desert Bluffs: wrote:
So my friend called me Senpai at lunch and then he said... "Senpai is mine" and then put his arm around me.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ~IronRose~ » Wed Nov 06, 2013 11:40 am

doveheart wrote:I'm not even sure about anything anymore =_=
Me and 2 of my friends like the same guy
One of them is my best friend so when she told me she liked him in decided that I wouldn't even try to get close to him which up until now has worked ... But now I can't get him out of my mind its like 24/7
It's been slowly getting worse so bad that I can't even concentrate in class sometimes
So lately more and more I've found my self avoiding him where possible
I've never had a boyfriend or anything before
I mean lots of guys have asked me but my answer has alway been no
My first crush even asked me out but due to similar circumstances i declined to avoid losing a friend
But that was when I was 11 things were easier then
And this feeling is stronger than the first time
But I don't want to hurt my friend
She's already asked him out and been rejected
I'm just really confused about what I should do :(


Ok, so I haven't been in this exact situation but I may be able to help you
What you should do is go talk to your friend about it, tell her how you feel about it, based on her reaction you should either one: Go for it ( preferably only if he asks you out, she'll be more open to this) or Two: Hang low and wait a bit, she'll soon get over him then (if you're still into him) you can slowly move in, but talk to her first.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby scullys » Wed Nov 06, 2013 11:45 am

The boy I like found out from who knows where, we used to be best friends, and I swear I hadn't told anyone. He also has a girlfriend who he doesn't like talking about. There's rumors around the school that we're dating but he doesn't even like me.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby thє dσctσr » Wed Nov 06, 2013 12:14 pm

I finally got through to him...
He finally understands what was going on when I broke up with him, and he's willing to give me another chance. He told my bestfriend he's asking me back out when I go to his house Saturday. I'm so nervous guys. I'm also really scared because I haven't met his parents yet, and they don't seem very appealing. He tells me about how they treat him, and I can already tell I won't like his mother. Although, I'm not going to show it since I want them to like me, and allow me to come over more. He said they seen a picture of me, and said I was too young for him. It frustrated me, since we are only two years apart, but oh well. Just really nervous to meet his family...
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ~Rush Furry~ » Wed Nov 06, 2013 12:17 pm

My boyfriend and I always nuzzle and snuggle with eachother and we rub noses <3
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