Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[~IronRose~]

Ok, I really need some advice here and this is kind of a long story so....
Here's a guide line for ya
G: My still current crush/ ex
B: G's best friend
A: A friend of G and B and also my friend

It all began at homecoming ( by the way G is the nicest guy) A invited me to go with some of her friends to Chiles before we went to the school, G was there, and actually it was his mom who picked the lot of us up. So when we got to chiles there was a huge line so we walked over to sonic, pretty far, and I was wearing like 3 and 1/2 inch heels, so my feet hurt. When we got to sonic everyone started suggesting going back to Chiles or to Five guys, and I said, " Hey my feet already hurt enough, and we haven't even got to the dance." G like the gentleman he is said, " Don't worry I'll carry you. That was the first nice act from him.
After we got to the Dance G kinda broke off from the group but we all met up later when it was about time to leave, and I ended up doing my dancing ( I'm a hip hop dancer) in front of him and he seemed surprised by it. When we went inside( the dance is out side) he basicly told A and B, "She can dance!" and we consolted about leaving. ( nice act 2)
We went outside to wait for parents and it started to rain and got really windy, and very cold. I began to shiver like really bad. He said, " I got this," And but his jacket on me ( nice act 3)
After homecoming I asked A about him and stuff telling her I had a crush on him and what ever, turns out he kinda liked me too. So B and A both tried hooking us up.
Later in October ( still not together) I offered for the four of us to go to the Haunted House at the mall, they all agreed and while in the haunted house, we held hands ( even though it was not that scary, I think he was more freaked out then I was) ( Nice act 4)
Still at the mall, and still holding hands, we went into the Disney store and he asked me, "Will you be my princess?" and I said yes. ( nice act 5) and then we held hands till we had to leave.
When I got home I texted him " So where does this put us?" and he responded , "I guess you could say we're in a relationship, I hope." I said yes, then he said, " Ok to make it official I will ask you at the game tomorrow." ( Nice act 6)
At the game, he wasn't able to hug me ( cause he's in ROTC and had to work) but he did declare me his to all my friends. ( Nice act 7)
So we started dating

Here is when it got bad
We dated for a week then he broke up with be because he had bad grades and needed to get them back up and he didn't want to not be able to give me attention. But now since it has been two week since we've broken up, I really miss him and I don't know how to talk to him.
That's what I need help with, I really want to get back together with him, or at least talk to him, and I just don't know how? Help!???!

[t e m p e s t]

Thanks. Today I was sitting next to him at lunch and he scooted over enough so that our arms were touching. I almost melted but then my other friend came (who likes him again and has since I started dating that other guy, but I didn't know until after I admitted I liked him again) and was like "Awww!" And made it awkward and he went back to his normal position. I wanted to die. But it was nice to have the melty butterfly feeling.

[Sub•Zero]

Thanks!This is helpful!

[Sub•Zero]

Okay..I have this issue with my crush and I would like some help.

[Sub•Zero]

I can't get anyone to help me....I have a crush on this one guy and he looks over at me sometimes during class, the other day he tried to talk to me a lot and we had a long conversation. I think he might like me or he might just be his normal self because he is a social guy and he sometimes looks around the room while listening to music. We also sometimes chat during class....I need help please.

[ChezaLoba]

DarkShadowTale, first of all, if you're really interested, show it. Talk to him and get to know the guy! Friendship is the first step for a relationship to work. But be careful to not end up being 'just a friend', remember to be honest with him about your intentions.

[Sub•Zero]

Yes. I have been talking to him everyday and we are pretty much on the same level and have a lot in common. I've gotten to a point where I'm not afraid to talk to him. He also doesn't really have strong friends he goes with, just a goup of people he hangs out with on occasion.

[thunderofthedrum]

DarkShadowTale, please make sure you are not posting twice in a row; that fills up the thread when you should have just edited your post.

From what you've described, it sounds impossible for any of us to magically guess at his feelings. I would suggest - just keep talking to him, get to know him. If you like him, maybe find a way to show it, or perhaps he might do the same if he likes you. It simply sounds too early and too vague for any of us to tell.

[.Coyote]

Hmm, crushes... I can only ever remember having one. And that crush has lasted eight years. It is to this guy who had some of the same classes as me all through Highschool. I was pretty obsessed with him, but I never did anything about it. I would always be super excited about seeing him, and would try to sit closer to him without him noticing. It was all pretty silly, but oh well.

For a while after high school I didn't think about him very much (to my relief), but every once in a while he would text me and it would start all over again. He has moved into the same neighborhood as I am in, so I see him somewhat frequently now. And I can't stop thinking about him. Today I almost crashed into the back of another vehicle because I didn't realize it was slowing down because I was thinking about him again. I get a text and I go a little crazy. We meet up sometimes and my anxiety causes me to literally hurt in anticipation. My chest will get all tight, and my limbs will shake so bad. I get all weak feeling sometimes too. This cannot be good for my health...

But I just can't stop. I wish I could just stop talking to him all together, but the idea makes me so unbelievably sad. I know we will never be together, but I just can't let it go. He has given no reason for me to feel like this. He is pretty flirtatious, but he is like that with every girl. I think there have been a few times where he has said something that he was hoping I would take to mean we could only ever be friends. For this reason I am pretty sure he knows I like him and is trying his best to make it clear that things can't change while also not tryin to hurt my feelings. We might be going out this friday (not a date!!) and I am just flipping out over it. He wanta to spend time with me!! But someone else is coming too, and he is already dating someone. He is always dating someone...

Ugh!!! I am so pathetic! I just wish I could stop! Remove him completely from my life!

[Sub•Zero]

Oh I am soo sorry. XD I posted and then I felt an erge to post again and then I went to look something up real quick. I'm sorry. It won't happen again...