CottonRas wrote:Anyone remember that lengthy post a while back? Page 97 or something? Yeah. Thanks for the help. <3
Anyhow, I have returned to rant about my current and ever-powerful anxiety.
That girl? I have a mutual friend with her, and got the friend to be the note passer. I wrote a lengthy note explaining and apologizing for my feelings, signed anonymously.
Then she goes and breaks my feels (in the best way possible) by disarming it. No, not shooting me down. In my first note I established i'm female, but she didn't mention anything like that. I learned from the note she has self-appreciation issues, which she really shouldn't because she's pretty much perfect. <3
Anyway, so after that note I again apologized. But this time, I told her my identity. This was last class, bell was about to ring. But... I didn't expect there to be free time, maybe 4 minutes before bell.
So I am just standing, pressed against the wall, my face on fire. A couple other kids noticed too, like "Hey, why is your face red?" "Are you blushing?" "Why?" and just being pesky. (Mainly one person. //glares at playfully)
Meanwhile, my crush is standing pretty close to me and trying to start conversation. I was just looking straight at the ground; eventually she said hi, but I mumbled a stuttered hello and she retreated to the note passer.
(I learned later from the note passer that, even though I didn't see it because of embarrassment and shame which led to ground-staring, the crush was smiling the whole time and being really sweet. She said I 'looked scared.' My feels are so painfully throbbing. <333)
But now i'm ridden with anxiety. Like, "what will happen on Monday?" "she's going to hate me." "it's gonna be so awkward." and all kinds of other thoughts.
Any tips on how I should handle the situation on Monday? c:
Zanjux wrote:harli rey wrote:i don't usually post here but this is a bit of a weird situation and nobody i know in rl is really sure how to handle it so...
basically, theres a guy who sits right next to me in lunch and he really, i mean really likes me. to the point where it's really weirding me out... he's constantly like, "i love you..." and "im going to marry you ok" and "you're the only reason i come to school" and stuff like that
but it's not like it's just every so often, it's more like he just says this constantly. over and over as if i don't get it or something.
not only that, but my friends are getting weirded out too. i try not to notice it but he just stares at me the entire lunch. he moves closer to me too and i kinda move away a little bit and he will move closer again and by the end of lunch i'm literally sitting at the very edge of the bench
plus, my other friend [ call him D ] will be joking around with me and will say something to me that could be taken as an insult, but is obviously intended to be a joke and he doesn't really mean it, and this kid will get really pissed off about it and start flipping out at him telling him not to say that kind of thing ...
and he even tries to [ and has ] physically hit him over something stupid like that
and he's threatened to hit my other friends too, but D warned him that if he hit them then he wouldn't hold back on beating him up
and today my friend told me that he saw her walking and told her to tell me that he loved me
i don't know what to do about it, i mean it's really creeping me out now and he's threatening others about it and that is definitely not okay
any advice would seriously be appreciated :/
Something almost exactly like this actually happened to me a few weeks ago.
I told the guy to back off (nicely at first) but in the end I had to tell him to f- off and block him literally cause he was driving me mad.. Like person above said, you should tell some adults about this, and let the guy know that you are not comfortable with him doing these things and constantly having him around.
PoisonXRiddler wrote:harli rey wrote:
Hey, I'm guessing you do not like this kid. Well how about tell a teacher about it like he is following you and threatening too hit your friends also that he is creeping you out with the things he is saying and acting around you or you could tell the guy you do not like him and that he is creeping you out and you want to be left alone. Either way tell him yourself or tell a teacher




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Imagine()Dragons wrote:I have this friend, let's call him Golden Boy, any ways we've been friends for a while, and I sort of fell for him. Everyone told me that he liked me back, but I had never been in a situation where the guy actually liked me back. So being the idiot that I am I just ignored everyone about him liking me.
Well one day my friend, we'll call him Walter, well Walter he's been my friend for a really long time and he began to flirt with me and we got closer and closer. One day he asked me out, I accepted and we became girlfriend and boyfriend. We cuddled during lunch, held hands, and such. Well Golden Boy stopped talking to me, and he just sort of ignored me even though I tried to be friends with him. The other day Walter told me that he can't be with me anymore because he feels that Golden Boy loves me more than he ever could and I guess you could say he released me so that I can be with GB. The thing is Golden Boy won't even talk to me. Every time I try to talk to him he just says three words and walks off. I really want our friendship back. The worst thing though is Golden Boys friend showed me a text where GB actually confesses to liking me. So now I don't know where to go from here and if I should just give up.













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