Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Dia.]

Noni Gailin Ayrenin~ , maybe it's just because I'm a weirdly loyal pup, but the idea of befriendng somebody you like seems like a bad idea. Even if you don't admit it you still have that interest in him and you don't want to hang around him and hurt yourself knowing you can't have him. And you definitely don't want to come between him and his lady, or worse have said lady come down on you for being around her boyfriend.
I know it sucks but it's best to look forwards and move on to somebody else.

I was good friends with my ex for over a year before we started dating.
And my boyfriend of nearly ten months was(and still is) my best guy friend.
Before we started dating, I had it in my head that I'd rather be friends with him than not be around him at all. Losing him all together would have hurt more than simply being friends. And as long as you only act friendly rather than desperately trying to flirt with him, his current girlfriend shouldn't have much of an issue with you unless she's clingy and insecure and distrustful.
I'm a strong believer that the best relationships stem from strong friendships. ^^ (even though the friendship to relationship thing failed with my ex, I don't think it would have if I hadn't dated him twice)

[Saren]

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How do I stop being anxious about the age difference between my boyfriend and myself? :c

That depends; how big is the age difference? Anything from 0-5 years is pretty okay if you're above about 20, in my opinion

[cottonras]

Joy. Aren't crushes just full of joy. //endsarcasm
Excuse me while I rant about my feelings. I have dealt with this since September.
Yep. Love at first sight? Hah, I think not.

So. Person at school. And as soon as I saw them, I thought "... Awwww ohmygod so cute! So short, cute green hoodie, cutiecutiecutie!"
However, I don't really know them. I became friends with their friend, so I get to join in with conversations sometimes.
As in, once or twice.
But I swear, I can't stop sneaking glances at them in class. As soon as I see them or hear their voice I blush and have to bite my tongue.
This is where things get complicated.
I don't talk much in class anyway, since I don't know anyone. Really, it was a miracle I even made any friends. As in, two. Maybe.
Anywho.
So, I never actually had an actual one on one conversation before. And because of my crippling shyness, I can't exactly walk up and talk. This is part of the complicated.
The main thing of this complication is she's a girl. And i'm a girl.
//braces for gay jokes
I've already established myself as pansexual, perhaps even pan-demisexual, so fire away. I don't care.
So, as you can see, this complicates things. Now, if she were a he I still probably would never gain the courage to talk or even fathom asking 'him' out. Now add the fact that she's probably straight just... ugugugug.
AND IT'S DIFFICULT BECAUSE EVERYTHING SHE DOES IS JUST
SO AMAZING //huff
//rantover
I would like some help, but I know not many of you are in my situation. c:
Cheers,
Cotton

[-galaxie]

It official Everyone,
I got a crush..
He is so nice to me.. yet I feel like he doesn't like me..
I want to ask him out SO bad it hurts.
Advice please how do I ask this boy out? I don't want to be hinting it ;.;
Just please.. ;.;
Today, conversation... wasn't much since today was so quick.. : ( so yea..

[GIGABITE]

Joy. Aren't crushes just full of joy. //endsarcasm
Excuse me while I rant about my feelings. I have dealt with this since September.
Yep. Love at first sight? Hah, I think not.

So. Person at school. And as soon as I saw them, I thought "... Awwww ohmygod so cute! So short, cute green hoodie, cutiecutiecutie!"
However, I don't really know them. I became friends with their friend, so I get to join in with conversations sometimes.
As in, once or twice.
But I swear, I can't stop sneaking glances at them in class. As soon as I see them or hear their voice I blush and have to bite my tongue.
This is where things get complicated.
I don't talk much in class anyway, since I don't know anyone. Really, it was a miracle I even made any friends. As in, two. Maybe.
Anywho.
So, I never actually had an actual one on one conversation before. And because of my crippling shyness, I can't exactly walk up and talk. This is part of the complicated.
The main thing of this complication is she's a girl. And i'm a girl.
//braces for gay jokes
I've already established myself as pansexual, perhaps even pan-demisexual, so fire away. I don't care.
So, as you can see, this complicates things. Now, if she were a he I still probably would never gain the courage to talk or even fathom asking 'him' out. Now add the fact that she's probably straight just... ugugugug.
AND IT'S DIFFICULT BECAUSE EVERYTHING SHE DOES IS JUST
SO AMAZING //huff
//rantover
I would like some help, but I know not many of you are in my situation. c:
Cheers,
Cotton

Oh, I hate that kind of situation. The only way I've gone anywhere with it was because I was friends with the girl and knew her a tad better. But some people aren't as open with it, so it can be tricky. But like I said, the way I've gotten out of that situation is to get to know the girl.

Sometimes it sucks being bisexual/pansexual/gay, am I right?

The only risk with getting to know someone is that since you like her, (depending on your personality) you might end up feeling awkward or shy. Just be cool, and have a nice friendly talk. Even if she is straight, you'll know without being humiliated or flustered.
Besides, you don't have to be nervous. Like I mentioned, just stay cool, and be friendly. It comes off as normal for someone to socialize and be friendly

[Pongo.]

Soo, this was the conversation between me and Chris October 15; things to know, HIS signature is: -REDNECK
MY signature is: [John Deere Green]
Sammie is my sister-in-law to be and my best friend and close friends with Chris


Tuesday October 15

Lol so uv never had ur first kiss yet?
-REDNEK

No.. That was random xD
[John Deere Green]

Lol jw but y?
-REDNECK

I dunno.. I've never really dated anyone
[John Deere Green]

Uv never had a boy friend????!
-REDNECK

No...
[John Deere Green]

Oh I just thought u never wanted to kiss anyone
-REDNECK

No, people just play with my feelings then leave, but I've had thoughts about both
[John Deere Green]

Both as in what?
-REDNECK

Both as in kissing and dating
[John Deere Green]

Lol rlly now?
-REDNECK

Yep
[John Deere Green]

Welllll
-REDNECK

Welllll
[John Deere Green]

Maybe I can help you out
-REDNECK

Oh really now?
[John Deere Green]

Indeed
-REDNECK

Lol you gonna splain it or just stop there?
[John Deere Green]

Just stop their for now
-REDNECK

Wow! Ha ha
[John Deere Green]

Friday
-REDNECK

That's forever away though!
[John Deere Green]

Oh well when we hang out ull see
-REDNECK

Fiiiiiiiiiiiiine
[John Deere Green]

Do u rlly needa know sooner? I might b able to tomorrow or Thursday
-REDNECK

I'm confused
[John Deere Green]

I said ud have to wait till Friday but I can push the date up
-REDNECK

Oh ha ha I don't care
[John Deere Green]

Up to u
-REDNECK

What is it though!?
[John Deere Green]

U would have to figure it out
-REDNECK

Not fair!! X(
[John Deere Green]

Oh well
-REDNECK

:,C
[John Deere Green]
Tell me??
[John Deere Green]

Sammie knows
-REDNECK

Brb
[John Deere Green]
I think she's sleeping -.-
[John Deere Green]

Ha!
-REDNECK

Nooo!!!
[John Deere Green]

Yes
-REDNECK

Hmph
[John Deere Green]

Lol y do u need to know so bad?
-REDNECK

Because, I don't like secrets or surprises
[John Deere Green]

U rlly wanna know?
-REDNECK

YESS!!
[John Deere Green]

Geez I was gonna ask you out
-REDNECK

DDDDD
[John Deere Green]

Lol wt?
-REDNECK

Nothin I kinda figured it out though, I put the pieces together and used my kidneys to figure it out
[John Deere Green]

Kidneys?
-REDNECK

Inside joke
[John Deere Green]

Lol so is that a yes?
-REDNECK

Maybe, maybe not
[John Deere Green]

....
-REDNECK

You'll just have to find out tomorrow
[John Deere Green]

Grrrr y tomorrow
-REDNECK

You gotta do it in person... Duh
[John Deere Green]

Grrr
-REDNECK


[John Deere Green]

Mean
-REDNECK

I'm sorry
[John Deere Green]

Not ok
-REDNECK

I love you?
[John Deere Green]

I love you too
-REDNECK

Whoo!!
[John Deere Green]

[vvoland]

Joy. Aren't crushes just full of joy. //endsarcasm
Excuse me while I rant about my feelings. I have dealt with this since September.
Yep. Love at first sight? Hah, I think not.

So. Person at school. And as soon as I saw them, I thought "... Awwww ohmygod so cute! So short, cute green hoodie, cutiecutiecutie!"
However, I don't really know them. I became friends with their friend, so I get to join in with conversations sometimes.
As in, once or twice.
But I swear, I can't stop sneaking glances at them in class. As soon as I see them or hear their voice I blush and have to bite my tongue.
This is where things get complicated.
I don't talk much in class anyway, since I don't know anyone. Really, it was a miracle I even made any friends. As in, two. Maybe.
Anywho.
So, I never actually had an actual one on one conversation before. And because of my crippling shyness, I can't exactly walk up and talk. This is part of the complicated.
The main thing of this complication is she's a girl. And i'm a girl.
//braces for gay jokes
I've already established myself as pansexual, perhaps even pan-demisexual, so fire away. I don't care.
So, as you can see, this complicates things. Now, if she were a he I still probably would never gain the courage to talk or even fathom asking 'him' out. Now add the fact that she's probably straight just... ugugugug.
AND IT'S DIFFICULT BECAUSE EVERYTHING SHE DOES IS JUST
SO AMAZING //huff
//rantover
I would like some help, but I know not many of you are in my situation. c:
Cheers,
Cotton

as a straight female, I can just say... Well, go for it. You never know until you try. It would probably be easiest and less awkward to try becoming good friends with her.
if I was told by another female that they had a crush on me, I'd just be flattered, and say that I'd just want to be friends. I don't think it would be too awkward for you to say anything as long as you felt comfortable enough telling her. And the next best thing would be being friends right, if she were interested. In ny opinion, anyone worth being friends with would react the same way.
sorry if I was at all confusing ^^;

[d.va]

It official Everyone,
I got a crush..
He is so nice to me.. yet I feel like he doesn't like me..
I want to ask him out SO bad it hurts.
Advice please how do I ask this boy out? I don't want to be hinting it ;.;
Just please.. ;.;
Today, conversation... wasn't much since today was so quick.. : ( so yea..

Your options really depend on how well you know this boy.
If you do not know him too well, I suggest you get to know him better and maybe ask for his number when you get the chance.
If you already have his number, make an effort to send him a quick message everyday, if he doesn't do this already. Be the one to start the conversation and show that you are interested in getting to know him.
Once you have gotten to know him well enough, you can maybe just tell him you like him if you are too nervous to ask him out. However, sometimes saying you like a crush can be just as nerve-racking as asking them out, so beware. My advice for this is to just go for it, and don't look back. Understand that the worst he can say is no.
I hope that helps a bit. <3

[jasper ;]

(( Too lazy to make it orange and italicized and stuffs, so meh =w= ))

{{ So I have this crush. I'm pretty sure he likes me back because when we were in the same school we were pretty good friends, but I dunno because I haven't contacted him in a while. ;w;
{{ He's almost a year older than me, but I guess that's sorta okay because he's in the same grade?? xD I don't exactly know. Thing is, I haven't talked to him in, what, four, almost five months. I really miss him, and I don't know what to do.
{{ I'll probably never see him again, and I don't know if I should get over him or not. ._. He keeps appearing in my crazy, hilarious dreams with my other classmates, but I just seem to talk to him more in the dreams than other people.
{{ Should I just go to having no crush? Continue liking him? Like someone else? Or should I have a crush on my guy friend and make the friendship really awkward?
{{ OTL I would appreciate it if you'd help me, bit in a crisis now. ;n;

[WolfWhisperer]

Just to everyone who thinks they need a boyfriend, you don't. There is more to life than guys. It is rear when you're loved by someone like that. But don't let it become your whole life. I fell too close to someone once and it wasn't fun. Don't do it.