Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Anuran]

why do I feel jealous whenever I think of my ex with another girl? or still get a stupid smile on my face when we text, and talk about someday hanging out again once we're in the same place? am I still in love with him? it's hard to fall out of love with someone, but c'mon, it's been a year... so why can't i let go? i'm the one who dumped him in the first place, should i have tried to talk it out with him? he said some pretty nasty things, though, and was cheating on me.. i was right to dump him, right? so, why are the feelings coming back? i swear, if we were in the same place, we would've been everything, had everything, we would've been invincible. it's so obvious that we're so meant for eachother, the way he has kept popping back into my life for the past three years, and the way we just click and everything's perfect... why can't life just be perfect and we be in the same place and how we should be? i really wish that i'd talked it out with him instead of just ending it there, no ifs, ands, or buts. but i guess i just gotta keep my head up...

[Noni Gailin Ayrenin~]

Can someone please help me? I wanna talk to N.C (cute boy) sssssooooooo badly. So it would make sense that I keep getting told to just go talk to him but......I can't do this talking to attractive people thing.

Like...It almost feels like there is some sort of physical barrier preventing me from talking to him. I can walk beside N.C and be happy as....well I'm just happy but, talking to him? That's a whole over ball game. To sum up that feeling: I AM NOT WORTHY!!!!! *bows*

I really wanna talk to him so that I can actually get to know him. Please help! I'm fallin' apart here ^^;

[IAmSebastian]

So I've got a small problem. I LOVE my boyfriend! My sisters and my 'friend' HATE him like crazy! And now they keep saying that they hate him around me and things like that. I hate it. They keep gaining up on me and him and it's just not fair. I don't know why they can't just learn to like him. He used to be a little bit up a d**che but now he's soooo much better and way nicer and loves everyone, he's trying to be their friend and he's so nice to them. They over react every time he just simply pulls a small joke on them! I don't know what to do. I'm NOT leaving him and the sister that hates him is the closest sister I have to me!

Well, sometimes it's hard to change that. I know what it feels like. Just try to talk it out with your sister and your "Friend". I talked it out but there is still a little hate.

Thanks but I don't think that will work at this point. My sister and that looser 'friend' both hate me. They wrote out 13 reasons why they hate me! And now I'm all alone. I really don't know what to do. I want my sister back. She was she closest person I have to me. And now I have no one.

[memeru21]

So many people have crushes on me and I don't feel that way for any of them and I've told them that before.
They keep asking me out and it's starting to creep me out.
What should I do? Any advice?
thanks in advance <3

[kal]

One of my closest friends likes me, I mean i d o n't k n o w w h a t t o d o. Myother friends say it's a really OBSESSIVE crush. I'm just scared that now we can't be friends anymore. I mean that's all I wanted to be! Friends.. *sighs*

[Ashki]

Can someone please help me? I wanna talk to N.C (cute boy) sssssooooooo badly. So it would make sense that I keep getting told to just go talk to him but......I can't do this talking to attractive people thing. :cry: :) :cry:

Like...It almost feels like there is some sort of physical barrier preventing me from talking to him. I can walk beside N.C and be happy as....well I'm just happy but, talking to him? That's a whole over ball game. To sum up that feeling: I AM NOT WORTHY!!!!! *bows*

I really wanna talk to him so that I can actually get to know him. Please help! I'm fallin' apart here ^^;

Hey; you are worthy. He's not going to like, bite your head off! Honestly, unless he approaches you first, there really isn't anything we can tell you besides going up and talking to him! Trust me, everyone feels this way if they've never talked to someone they find attractive.

[Dia.]

One of my closest friends likes me, I mean i d o n't k n o w w h a t t o d o. Myother friends say it's a really OBSESSIVE crush. I'm just scared that now we can't be friends anymore. I mean that's all I wanted to be! Friends.. *sighs*

Uh... who says that just because someone likes you, you can't be friends?
And why just believe what your other friends say? Talk to him about it. You CAN explain that you don't like him that way. Say you don't want to lose him as a friend.

[Mako.]

Hey guys! I'm back, with a new situation xD

I've been posting in the last thread about me and my crush max, and how I liked him, told him, and how to get advice to get over him.

Well guess what.

7 months since I told him I liked him. And I still like him. A lot. He's helped gotten me through really bad times lately, and that made me like him more. Now I slightly like another guy friend of mine. But I still have strong feelings for Max.

What should I do? Should I move on with this new crush? If so, how can I get over max? Am i even ready to move on? If it helps, I've liked max for about a year now.

Thank you guys so much for any advice!

[SamhokuFoopets]

So many people have crushes on me and I don't feel that way for any of them and I've told them that before.
They keep asking me out and it's starting to creep me out.
What should I do? Any advice?
thanks in advance <3

I have had that problem before. The best way to handle it is to keep saying you only want to be friends, or that you are not interested. If all else fails...snub them in the most polite way possible.

[Wild.One]

I can't stand him.
I want nothing to do with him.
He finally realizes that I really am mad at him and now he tries to be nice to me. I do not want you to be nice to me. I want to be left alone. Is that so hard to understand? He goes forever not talking to me and all of a sudden he tries to be nice to me? Go be nice to one of the many girls obsessing over you. Cause I'm done.