Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Ashki]

i'm going to need a little help with this rather unique situation, if i may.

i have a huggge crush on a guy, we'll call him A. A is amazing and perfect and... blahblahblah. ahem. we have the twirp/winter semi-formal/sadie hawkins dance coming up rather soon, and i was considering asking him. then he rather harshly friendzoned me, and while we still get along really well, i can't get over him. the point, however, is that a girl who we'll call B asked him to the dance. i'm kinda pissed, needless to say, but it isn't my place to be. i asked him about it, and you could hear the vomit in his voice. he does not like her, has never liked her, and has no intention of liking her. she is mean and snotty, as well as unattractive physically. i haven't ever seen her; this is what i hear from other people so i'm not just badmouthing her.

i have the urge to offer to take him -as friends- so he doesn't need to go with B, but i'm afraid he'll take it the wrong way. do you have any suggestions as to how to phrase the text, or whether or not i could do it? i'd really appreciate it c:

Well I was thinking of using this to ask my guy friend to a dance (girls ask guys) next year. "Hey my friends want me to go to the dance and I keep saying I'm to busy but they insist. So will you help me shut them up? We just need to go to the dance together, you know as friends, then I think they'll finally leave me alone, will you help?" I know it sucks I'm still working on it but I have a year maybe you could just state your spot as well saying you want to go to the dance as friends.

I mean, you don't really need to make excuses about it - you can definitely just ask him to go as friends. I know tons of younger people that go to dances as friends, especially the Sadie Hawkins type dances. Just be totally honest about it, maybe ask him if he has plans to go to dance with anyone else and if not offer to go as friends. And if not, really, don't worry about it much. High school dances are fun, but really don't matter much in the long run!

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i'm going to need a little help with this rather unique situation, if i may.

i have a huggge crush on a guy, we'll call him A. A is amazing and perfect and... blahblahblah. ahem. we have the twirp/winter semi-formal/sadie hawkins dance coming up rather soon, and i was considering asking him. then he rather harshly friendzoned me, and while we still get along really well, i can't get over him. the point, however, is that a girl who we'll call B asked him to the dance. i'm kinda pissed, needless to say, but it isn't my place to be. i asked him about it, and you could hear the vomit in his voice. he does not like her, has never liked her, and has no intention of liking her. she is mean and snotty, as well as unattractive physically. i haven't ever seen her; this is what i hear from other people so i'm not just badmouthing her.

i have the urge to offer to take him -as friends- so he doesn't need to go with B, but i'm afraid he'll take it the wrong way. do you have any suggestions as to how to phrase the text, or whether or not i could do it? i'd really appreciate it c:

Well I was thinking of using this to ask my guy friend to a dance (girls ask guys) next year. "Hey my friends want me to go to the dance and I keep saying I'm to busy but they insist. So will you help me shut them up? We just need to go to the dance together, you know as friends, then I think they'll finally leave me alone, will you help?" I know it sucks I'm still working on it but I have a year maybe you could just state your spot as well saying you want to go to the dance as friends.

I mean, you don't really need to make excuses about it - you can definitely just ask him to go as friends. I know tons of younger people that go to dances as friends, especially the Sadie Hawkins type dances. Just be totally honest about it, maybe ask him if he has plans to go to dance with anyone else and if not offer to go as friends. And if not, really, don't worry about it much. High school dances are fun, but really don't matter much in the long run!

Thanks guys! I talked to him, and things went more downhill. he's only going with B as friends, so now i don't know what to do D: just ask for a dance while i'm there? people keep saying to go with friends, but i don't really have any that want to go...

[Zeee]

ahh ;u;

so this guy
let's call him sattm.
which stands for someone actually taller than me xD

ok so
sattm
i like him
;u;

and recently
everyone who knows
says that we'd be a good couple
eerp <3

but idk i don't like him A LOT
i really want to get to know this really cute guy, we'll just say as (adorable shortie), but...
i'm way too scared to talk to him ;n;
he's so cute and adorable and eerp <3
he plays the same instrument as me and my friends in band

huehuehuehue
excuse to talk to him maybe ???
haha

[minty_is_online]

Umm... well most of my friends are boys. I don't get along with most girls even know I am a girl. Everyone thinks I hang out with boys because I like them, but I don't. I mean I like one of friends, but he's like my best friend. How can I get people to stop saying stuff like this?

[Dia.]

Umm... well most of my friends are boys. I don't get along with most girls even know I am a girl. Everyone thinks I hang out with boys because I like them, but I don't. I mean I like one of friends, but he's like my best friend. How can I get people to stop saying stuff like this?

Simple. You don't.
People are very immature. As you get older, they will care less and less.
The more you tell them "no I don't" or make a big deal about it or argue with them or whatever, the more they will enjoy pestering you about it because it will be fun for them.
Just don't pay attention to it.

[Noni Gailin Ayrenin~]

I haven't talked about cute boy in a while...Lets call him N.C now, since those are his initials ^^

I got to walk next to him this morning!!! Of course, I had to make my pace match his, so that I could stretch it out, but...XD I also walked next to him going to lunch, and then I saw him again when we were going to our buses!!

In the words of my friend: These events happy me. They happy me so much.

N.C is like.......gosh i can't even....HE'S SO FIGGIN ADORABLE!!!!!!!!!

It's this talking to attractive people thing I can't do. I just wanna know more stuff about him, but from him, instead of his friends.

[minty_is_online]

Thanks Dia. this should help me out!

[panhead]

:i really need some help!

So..there's this guy I like (E). His friends are (M, Z, and N.) so lately N has been trying to hook me up with E because I hooking N up with his current girlfriend. On Friday he told me "the window closed, he doesn't like you anymore. There's no hope" well I am a really really stubborn person. I don't budge. So I hired M, which is E's best friend. He gave me his number and said "happy birthday" so...I sent a text. So N is just a stupid for putting me down.
TODAY in English, I grabbed E's beanie and was playing blonde, not giving it back. He tried grabbing it and as soon as he got it, Z handed me E's sweat jacket. Since I knew he would want it back, I just went ahead and put it on. I wore it for the rest of the day. Then we had to leave so I scribbled my phone number down and put It in the pocket.
Later, I checked and E had texted me back. But then I remembered that I had texted him yesterday, so he knew that it wasn't because I out my number in the pocket. He asked me where I got his number. I said "oh, M gave it to me." Then I got a text from M and he just BLEW UP at me. He said "why did you tell him!?" But he never told me I couldn't. So...I didn't understand. Then he told me that he had been lying to E this whole time. Because apparently N told E that I stalked him.
So I've been accused of stalking. Yes, I do know some things about him that not everyone does, but I didn't go on a search for the information. I didn't purposely find it!
I don't want to end friendships. I just don't know what to do. I apologized for taking E's jacket when he texted me, and he said it was OK. I'm just so confused.
I'd really appreciate some help.

More on this, J asked him out over the phone and he said YES!!! Now what stupid head does that....they don't even talk in school at all! So I'm trying really hard to get over him but it's like I'm addicted to liking him, please help how do you stop liking someone?

[cautiousculpeo]

One of my best friends (a guy) likes me, and I don't know if he is doing that thing guys do, that "GettingCloseToYouTouching"
You know, when they find ways to touch you (not iniporperatly, like poking and such)
He keeps like idk, trying to get closer to me, he tries to keep me from my locker by holding me or blocking it, he will playfully punch me in the shoulder, or try and pick me up.
Can someone explain?

Umm... well most of my friends are boys. I don't get along with most girls even know I am a girl. Everyone thinks I hang out with boys because I like them, but I don't. I mean I like one of friends, but he's like my best friend. How can I get people to stop saying stuff like this?

I am the same way, don't worry, just keep an open mind. You can e friends with whomever you please. If they want to talk bad about you, they must have nothing better to do, or they are jealous hope it helps.

[Wild.One]

I am so mean.
So mean.
I feel like the worst person in the world.
He obviously liked me. But I guess obvious isn't obvious enough for me. It's like his stupid friend was blocking him from me so I didn't even notice until now. I feel horrible. He asked my friend about me. He said how he remembered how we sat next to eachother in ELA. We used to talk and joke around a lot. We both liked eachbother then but we are both shy. It was cute. Right around the time he called me my old nickname I had with him and his friend. I didn't egnolage it. He is so cute and sweet.
I'm so mean.
I feel so bad.
I can't stand it.