Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Anuran]

Guys? I have a question.
How do you reject someone politely?
Or friendzone someone?
Because there's this guy I hang out with, and he's like, two years younger than me. We get along okay, but I see him more as a little brother than anything else, but not to him. /: He's already tried to kiss me twice, and I don't feel comfortable alone with him anymore, at all. I've never had to turn down a guy that I'm friends with before, so I feel really awkward and clam up whenever I try to tell him off, because I don't want to hurt his feelings, but at the same time... it ain't gonna happen. What do I do?

<3,
fox

on another hand;
I think I still have feelings for my ex, this guy I dumped nearly a year ago. o.o I know that I shouldn't - we've got a three year history together, hah - but I do and I've accepted it. Only thing is, my friends haven't and I don't want them to feel any different about me and who I am based off of this guy. How do I convince them that him and I have both changed this time around?

<3,
fox.

[Riverotterr]

So..theres this guy that I like. We've been in the same classes periodically between now and 7th grade, but we've never actually talked to each other or anything. But yeah...I'm just having a hard time reading this guy, or if I should even try to keep seeing if he has any interest in me.

I managed to text him and stuff a little bit, and then out of the blue one day he texted "hey wanna go out to dinner or something sometime?" and without thinking I immediately texted "I'd love to (:" and went on and on about planning it out, but RIGHT when i sent the message he texted "sorry that was my friend" "I cant hang out this weekend lol" and now I just feel really awkward...
We have one class together and he keeps staring at me a lot more than I remembered but he hasnt talked to me since!
I really want to just let him know I like him (if it wasnt apparent from my message I sent) and see where things go but I feel like I was already rejected
Should I move on or keep trying to talk to him?

[Horsegirlmadison]

Omg I am so sad. My best friend(he's gay btw) was so upset because he hadn't talked to his boyfriend(they recently got engaged) in almost a week. His mom called us today n told us the day after they last talked that his fiance was hit by a car n died. His last words were his lover's name. And I love you was the last thing they ever said to each other. They were so much in love and always talked about their upcoming wedding. Everyone is so shocked and sad about it because they were the perfect two. Now this girl is coming forward saying she was engaged to him n he's not gay or engaged to my best friend.

[raezel]

so, basically, i'm having a wee bit of trouble introducing my boyfriend to one of my family members. you guessed it, my dad.
i'm assuming it'll be rather difficult due to the fact that, well, he (my boyfriend) lives 655 miles away, and long distance relationships can be hard to explain to past generations. i know from experience what older people say about them; that "they aren't real", "you don't know them", and the ol' "they could be a 40 year old pedophile!!!!1!!" (and, yes, i know he is a legit person that fits every description of who he says he is. that was the first thing i expected myself to find out before even thinking about dating him.) well, i had my share of trouble with introducing him to my mother, but she learned to adore him. my mom hasn't shared the information with my dad, and he, of course, is extremely protective over me. and from what my mom has told me, she knows he'll be extremely hard to please due to past experiences of his own.
now, my boyfriend has mailed out a huge package of goodies for my family to enjoy; chocolate and candy for me and my mom, a few toy cars for my brother, and some old baseball cards for my dad, who played baseball up into his teens. my boyfriend also wrote two letters, one for me, and one for my family, stating how he exists and that he loves me and all sappy stuff like that. my mom knows about this, and knows it should arrive today or monday, but my dad doesn't. to be frank, i'm kind of worried about the whole "hi, your daughter has a boyfriend living states away and she's just now telling you" ordeal, but hopefully a hand-written letter from the guy himself should help. does anyone have any experiences with introducing girlfriends/boyfriends to fathers, or have any advice for my situation? my dad, i expect, will be reluctant on the whole thing, but i'm hoping my mom will back me up. but if she doesn't do any of you lovely lads and ladies have any ideas that could possibly help?? thank you, if you do!! uwu

[five.six.seven]

Omg I am so sad. My best friend(he's gay btw) was so upset because he hadn't talked to his boyfriend(they recently got engaged) in almost a week. His mom called us today n told us the day after they last talked that his fiance was hit by a car n died. His last words were his lover's name. And I love you was the last thing they ever said to each other. They were so much in love and always talked about their upcoming wedding. Everyone is so shocked and sad about it because they were the perfect two. Now this girl is coming forward saying she was engaged to him n he's not gay or engaged to my best friend.

This is so sad! I hope you'll all be ok. I wish you all the best of luck, and that the girl who says the were engaged will back off, and leave you be. Remember that your loved ones won't want to see you sad, they'd want you to be happy. This is truly sad, and I hope you will all be ok, and that you best friend's boyfriend will rest in peace.

[*Midnight Stars*]

So I have a crush on a guy and I think he likes me back - but he calls me names and teases all the time when we're nearby. Is he genuinely making fun or hiding the fact that he has a crush on me or what?

[originals]

i'm going to need a little help with this rather unique situation, if i may.

i have a huggge crush on a guy, we'll call him A. A is amazing and perfect and... blahblahblah. ahem. we have the twirp/winter semi-formal/sadie hawkins dance coming up rather soon, and i was considering asking him. then he rather harshly friendzoned me, and while we still get along really well, i can't get over him. the point, however, is that a girl who we'll call B asked him to the dance. i'm kinda pissed, needless to say, but it isn't my place to be. i asked him about it, and you could hear the vomit in his voice. he does not like her, has never liked her, and has no intention of liking her. she is mean and snotty, as well as unattractive physically. i haven't ever seen her; this is what i hear from other people so i'm not just badmouthing her.

i have the urge to offer to take him -as friends- so he doesn't need to go with B, but i'm afraid he'll take it the wrong way. do you have any suggestions as to how to phrase the text, or whether or not i could do it? i'd really appreciate it c:

[Horsegirlmadison]

This is so sad! I hope you'll all be ok. I wish you all the best of luck, and that the girl who says the were engaged will back off, and leave you be. Remember that your loved ones won't want to see you sad, they'd want you to be happy. This is truly sad, and I hope you will all be ok, and that you best friend's boyfriend will rest in peace.

Thank you last night was rough for us. especially for him. We're. doing better today though.

[Me <3]

i'm going to need a little help with this rather unique situation, if i may.

i have a huggge crush on a guy, we'll call him A. A is amazing and perfect and... blahblahblah. ahem. we have the twirp/winter semi-formal/sadie hawkins dance coming up rather soon, and i was considering asking him. then he rather harshly friendzoned me, and while we still get along really well, i can't get over him. the point, however, is that a girl who we'll call B asked him to the dance. i'm kinda pissed, needless to say, but it isn't my place to be. i asked him about it, and you could hear the vomit in his voice. he does not like her, has never liked her, and has no intention of liking her. she is mean and snotty, as well as unattractive physically. i haven't ever seen her; this is what i hear from other people so i'm not just badmouthing her.

i have the urge to offer to take him -as friends- so he doesn't need to go with B, but i'm afraid he'll take it the wrong way. do you have any suggestions as to how to phrase the text, or whether or not i could do it? i'd really appreciate it c:

Well I was thinking of using this to ask my guy friend to a dance (girls ask guys) next year. "Hey my friends want me to go to the dance and I keep saying I'm to busy but they insist. So will you help me shut them up? We just need to go to the dance together, you know as friends, then I think they'll finally leave me alone, will you help?" I know it sucks I'm still working on it but I have a year maybe you could just state your spot as well saying you want to go to the dance as friends.

[Simplistic Beauty]

That moment when your super old crush from sixth grade suddenly becomes really attractive! I mean he was cute in sixth grade but he got more good looking now. I dunno if I may be starting to like him a bit again or not, since it's too quick for me to know yet. I'll give it a few days before I know or not..