Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[jayus]

Show up at black belt picture day with pool hair: ✔

Have father ask entire dojo where a hairbrush is: ✔

Grab own hair brush, take glasses off, start brushing hair, and notice crush staring at you (because everybody assumes you can see pretty much only black when you're glasses are off when in reality I can actually see quite clearly): ✔

Realise that right eye has decided to look at your nose while other eye hasn't: ✔

Fix eyeballs: ✔

Finish brushing hair ten minutes later: ✔

Have it frizz up like you're Hermione Granger or something: ✔

Have pretty much every human in the dojo comment on how light your hair is: ✔

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✔ Great. ✔
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[frogpaws]

I have really really good news
Last night me and the girl that I really really like went to a fair
We held hands and hugged and I put my head on her shoulder a lot
My friend asked if she was my girlfriend and we both started laughing and blushing and aaaw
I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend, but lost the opportunity to do it on the ferris wheel because the guy wouldn't let us cause it was too late (it was only a minute after closing, smh)
So we started talking on facebook about how my friend asked if she was my girlfriend and I told her that I really want her to be and she said yes and now it's official
I guess I had the best week ever

The only sad thing is that I don't see her for a week because I'm going on vacation tomorrow :c
I told her I'd bring something back for her though<3

I just feel so comfortable around her now. I don't think there were any truly awkward situations last night because we can be the weirdest people ever when we're together. She's just absolutely great <3

[provolone]

hey. so. you know about that ex of mine that didn't talk to me, then broke up with me. for the past three days, he's started talking to me again, but being really annoying. he wears my glasses and mocks me, he bumps into me and a billion other things. so then, today he told me he was just trying to get my attention (maybe he told me this because i cried when he pushed it. don't judge me i'm a fragile being -haha no- and i don't like being harassed. keep reading, though.) and that he still likes me. and he said it was serious and he even quoted oh calamity by all time low and that he loved me and stuff. i don't really believe him, though. and he's asking me if we could get back together, so i told him i'd give him an answer on monday. crud crud crud. i only have till monday to decide. what do you guys think?

From my point of view, I can't date someone after they break up with me the first time. If they can break your heart once, they can easily do it again. I'm not saying that he doesn't deserve a second chance, but you have to make a heart decision weather or not you can risk giving it to him. If you feel strong enough to handle it again, feel things can change, and actually like him a lot, then I would say try it. But if you just want to be in a relationship, or dating him helps your self esteem, or you just feel pity for him, don't do it. It's not worth the heartbreak again. You should have plenty of time today and tomorrow thinking it through.
If you need more help pm me :)

[vanilla kitten]

he wαs holding my hαnd.
oh my god.
we were in fifth hour, αnd he kept poking me. this hαs been going on for α while now, αnd he's been doing it to get my αttention.. it's been working. αnd on thursday, he wαs holding my hand. αnd lαstnight αt the homecoming footbαll gαme, my bestfriend wαs like, "kitty, he's stαring αt you," αnd our other bestie wαs like, "yeαh. he's stαring hαrd-core." it wαs funny.

[Wild.One]

I have really really good news
Last night me and the girl that I really really like went to a fair
We held hands and hugged and I put my head on her shoulder a lot
My friend asked if she was my girlfriend and we both started laughing and blushing and aaaw
I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend, but lost the opportunity to do it on the ferris wheel because the guy wouldn't let us cause it was too late (it was only a minute after closing, smh)
So we started talking on facebook about how my friend asked if she was my girlfriend and I told her that I really want her to be and she said yes and now it's official
I guess I had the best week ever

The only sad thing is that I don't see her for a week because I'm going on vacation tomorrow :c
I told her I'd bring something back for her though<3

I just feel so comfortable around her now. I don't think there were any truly awkward situations last night because we can be the weirdest people ever when we're together. She's just absolutely great <3

That's great! I'm glad it worked out with you two!

[raezel]

so, basically, i'm having a wee bit of trouble introducing my boyfriend to one of my family members. you guessed it, my dad.
i'm assuming it'll be rather difficult due to the fact that, well, he (my boyfriend) lives 655 miles away, and long distance relationships can be hard to explain to past generations. i know from experience what older people say about them; that "they aren't real", "you don't know them", and the ol' "they could be a 40 year old pedophile!!!!1!!" (and, yes, i know he is a legit person that fits every description of who he says he is. that was the first thing i expected myself to find out before even thinking about dating him.) well, i had my share of trouble with introducing him to my mother, but she learned to adore him. my mom hasn't shared the information with my dad, and he, of course, is extremely protective over me. and from what my mom has told me, she knows he'll be extremely hard to please due to past experiences of his own.
now, my boyfriend has mailed out a huge package of goodies for my family to enjoy; chocolate and candy for me and my mom, a few toy cars for my brother, and some old baseball cards for my dad, who played baseball up into his teens. my boyfriend also wrote two letters, one for me, and one for my family, stating how he exists and that he loves me and all sappy stuff like that. my mom knows about this, and knows it should arrive today or monday, but my dad doesn't. to be frank, i'm kind of worried about the whole "hi, your daughter has a boyfriend living states away and she's just now telling you" ordeal, but hopefully a hand-written letter from the guy himself should help. does anyone have any experiences with introducing girlfriends/boyfriends to fathers, or have any advice for my situation? my dad, i expect, will be reluctant on the whole thing, but i'm hoping my mom will back me up. but if she doesn't do any of you lovely lads and ladies have any ideas that could possibly help?? thank you, if you do!! uwu

[Wild.One]

He sickens me.
He makes me feel so hollow inside.

I can't believe we were ever friends. We went from having nicknames for eachother and Doug projects togther to him not even talking to me anymore. What did I ever do to you? Be a good friend and help you get good grades? And this is what I get? Thanks. That's just what I wanted. I regret all the time I spent on him. It's like I was blinded. Now I feel really bad that I ignored his friend that liked me. I didn't mean to. I feel bad. :c

And you won't want to see me if he breaks up with his girlfriend because of the snotty "popular" girl that flirts with him. I don't like his girlfriend but the fact that he would break up with her to be with the other girl, makes me so mad. He has even said he doesn't know if he likes her. He flirts with other girls.

[Me <3]

My crush, lets call him Omen. Well Omen and I e-mail all the time. We're good friends, so I've kind of grown to like him a bunch. He's older then me though which means he's smarted in a ton of things. What I'm better at currently, Spanish. Next year we'll most likely be in the same band, well same marching band at the least. He's funny and nice. Today I actually sent him a compliment description in Spanish then told him what it meant. He replied that it was sweet then we started talking about contortionists. So I'm not the person to go and tell some one I love them because I have issues with rejection. Also my friend teases me how I like him a ton. What should I do and I'm not telling him I love him.

[Saren]

Sooo today is our anniversary <3
(Not of marriage, of dating. We're just kids. A couple of crazy-ass kids <3)
I love him so much! I saw him today and we hung out at his house and watched a couple movies then we went for dinner <3
Ahhh I can't believe I even thought I was crushing on that other guy, today just proves all that wrong <3

[five.six.seven]

My crush, lets call him Omen. Well Omen and I e-mail all the time. We're good friends, so I've kind of grown to like him a bunch. He's older then me though which means he's smarted in a ton of things. What I'm better at currently, Spanish. Next year we'll most likely be in the same band, well same marching band at the least. He's funny and nice. Today I actually sent him a compliment description in Spanish then told him what it meant. He replied that it was sweet then we started talking about contortionists. So I'm not the person to go and tell some one I love them because I have issues with rejection. Also my friend teases me how I like him a ton. What should I do and I'm not telling him I love him.

If you trust your friend, then you can ask him/her to ask Omen "Do you like ----?" or say "I think ---- likes you." and see how he reacts. I just went through something similar, and if Omen is a good friend, if he doesn't like you (which would suck ), he'll still treat you like a friend in the end. I hope thought, that he does like you, because if he does, and thinks you like him, he's more likely to make an effort to show his feelings.