Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Velursi]

I think best is to ask questions he can't answer with just one word. Make him explain things!
eg:

You: "Did you always live here?"
Him: "No, I was raised in ..."
You: "Oh! So why do you decided to move over to ...?"
Him: "You know, first of all... blabla... And then... blabla... my friends..."

[book.]

Ok. There's this guy I like. Let's call him red. I really need help. Please see my previou post on the previous page.
-continued -
Also, today something happened. We were doing a project in science (Red is In my science) and my group asked me to go ask the teacher something. So I walked over to her but she was helping HIS group. So I was standing by her, waiting for her attention, and he was sitting right in front of me, and he saw me, I saw him, we made I contact, ad it was so awkward.. UGGHHH anyone have further advice for me?!

[pandas<3green]

I think best is to ask questions he can't answer with just one word. Make him explain things!
eg:

You: "Did you always live here?"
Him: "No, I was raised in ..."
You: "Oh! So why do you decided to move over to ...?"
Him: "You know, first of all... blabla... And then... blabla... my friends..."

Ok thanks that's a good solution!!! I will try it out

[Wild.One]

I'm just so done with guys.
Me and beachball used to be really good friends at the end of last year but now, it's like he doesn't even care about me or how I feel. I really wanted to be friends again but he just can't seem to notice me anymore. His other friends are nice to me but he's just a jerk. I can't stand to even see him. I accually thought we were becoming friends again. Guess not. He's such a jerk. He won't even talk to me. It's like he's blinded by the popular people. I wish one of his other friends was in my class instead of him. I just don't know what to do! I don't have anyone I can talk to about it either. I can't even talk to my best friend because she just really wants me and him to be togher. She keeps push that he likes me but there's no way he does. Even if he did, I defianitly wouldn't like him now. I wish one of his other friends weren't so shy, he's really sweet and I would want to talk to him. All/most his friends are so much nicer than him. He ruined my whole mood today. My lunch time I spend laughing with my friends was ruined. I come home and my mom yells at me. The only comfort I have right now is the scarf I have been holding up to my face for comfort. Ugh. I really don't want to go to school tomarrow.

[Cosmi]

I just.. ohhhh gosh!
There is this dude... I'll call him G for now.
So ironically I liked G even since the fourth grade.
Recently he his been trying to get closer to me.
Then I noticed he stares at me.
When ever I look his way he turns away quickly and I just...
is this a sign he could like me?

I totally ruined it on Monday when he asked to sit with me and I freaked out so I very quietly said ''oh sure'' and he though I said no.. so I totally ruined that DX

I really hate how my friends are against me and are like ''No girl! You can never ask him out'' Because they are stuck in there ways about how IT HAS to be the guy who asks you out, not the girl.
Anyway, Is there anyway to get around them hating me just in case I (Even and Ever)ask him to the dance?

So many questions... so little time.

[Anza]

I'm just so done with guys.
Me and beachball used to be really good friends at the end of last year but now, it's like he doesn't even care about me or how I feel. I really wanted to be friends again but he just can't seem to notice me anymore. His other friends are nice to me but he's just a jerk. I can't stand to even see him. I accually thought we were becoming friends again. Guess not. He's such a jerk. He won't even talk to me. It's like he's blinded by the popular people. I wish one of his other friends was in my class instead of him. I just don't know what to do! I don't have anyone I can talk to about it either. I can't even talk to my best friend because she just really wants me and him to be togher. She keeps push that he likes me but there's no way he does. Even if he did, I defianitly wouldn't like him now. I wish one of his other friends weren't so shy, he's really sweet and I would want to talk to him. All/most his friends are so much nicer than him. He ruined my whole mood today. My lunch time I spend laughing with my friends was ruined. I come home and my mom yells at me. The only comfort I have right now is the scarf I have been holding up to my face for comfort. Ugh. I really don't want to go to school tomarrow.

Hey its ok! I'm cheering or you even if nobody else is! There are many reasons why he may be acting this way but if you wish to play it safe just ignore him and stay away from him. Or just walk up to him and just say this to his face:
"Who do you think you are? I have been trying to be your friend but no! You just have to act like a jerk and ruin my day all the time! Why don't you keep your attitude to yourself because I don't care! Do you understand? I don't care what you think of me and if you don't like me just stay away from me! I don't want to deal with your pathetic attitude!"
And then just walk away before he can say anything! That should do the trick!

[Wild.One]

I'm just so done with guys.
Me and beachball used to be really good friends at the end of last year but now, it's like he doesn't even care about me or how I feel. I really wanted to be friends again but he just can't seem to notice me anymore. His other friends are nice to me but he's just a jerk. I can't stand to even see him. I accually thought we were becoming friends again. Guess not. He's such a jerk. He won't even talk to me. It's like he's blinded by the popular people. I wish one of his other friends was in my class instead of him. I just don't know what to do! I don't have anyone I can talk to about it either. I can't even talk to my best friend because she just really wants me and him to be togher. She keeps push that he likes me but there's no way he does. Even if he did, I defianitly wouldn't like him now. I wish one of his other friends weren't so shy, he's really sweet and I would want to talk to him. All/most his friends are so much nicer than him. He ruined my whole mood today. My lunch time I spend laughing with my friends was ruined. I come home and my mom yells at me. The only comfort I have right now is the scarf I have been holding up to my face for comfort. Ugh. I really don't want to go to school tomarrow.

Hey its ok! I'm cheering or you even if nobody else is! There are many reasons why he may be acting this way but if you wish to play it safe just ignore him and stay away from him. Or just walk up to him and just say this to his face:
"Who do you think you are? I have been trying to be your friend but no! You just have to act like a jerk and ruin my day all the time! Why don't you keep your attitude to yourself because I don't care! Do you understand? I don't care what you think of me and if you don't like me just stay away from me! I don't want to deal with your pathetic attitude!"
And then just walk away before he can say anything! That should do the trick!

Thanks, I love it! I'm not sure if I will say it but I will definitely keep it in mind. I just don't get how someone so mean can have nice friends like he does? When he looks over a me and I will drop hits that he needs to cut it out and back off. He is just alway around these stupid girls. I hope one day he will look back at me and regret it all. On the bright side, I may never have to see him again after this year because I'm switching schools.

[Anza]

Are you switching schools because of him?
Please don't! Don't give up all of your friends because of one jerk! The guy that likes me and I like him was a huge jerk to me before I got to really know him!

[christine,]

Oh my god
You guys have no idea how distracted I get in sixth hour
he sits
right
in
front
of
me
;-;

We sometimes talk. But mostly I look at the back of his neck and wish he wasn't so tall so that I could focus on the board and not him


what to do what to do X3


im not really looking for advice, just a little rant of mine X3

[thunderofthedrum]

So there's this guy who I thought like me last year. And I like him. And so I'm trying to ya know... Get the ball rolling. So I try texting him. The only problem is I have no idea what to talk about, I think he's a bit creeped out, and he doesn't add to the conversation. He just replies yes or not to my questions. It's killing me! Any ideas on what to say/do?

If you feel he might be creeped out, I would suggest giving him some space. If someone I hadn't seen much in a while started texting me (someone I didn't know well to begin with) I might wonder things like - How did they get my number? What are their intentions? Do they LIKE like me? Or are they just bored?

It can be a little awkward, so just don't force it much.