Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Lazy9248]

Oh jeez... I hate to say this but I think parents can tell when two people should go out... My English teacher kept trying to get me and a random creep together in 9th grade and sat us by each other all year... He had a major crush on me but I wasn't interested...

In 10th grade we had no classes together so I got his number and started texting him every night because I missed talking to him... I fell hard on my face... I talk to him all the time and he has never told anyone that he texts me when he pretty much openly tells everyone everything...

Now it's 11th grade... Still don't have any classes with each other but I meet him at his locker every day between hours 5&6... His locker partner and my friends are trying to get us to go out now.. I have a feeling that somehow my English teacher in 9th grade could tell... I don't know, he's not the type of person that will ask me out and I have never gone out with anyone... I'd like to ask him to see a movie with me or something but I have no idea what to do... Any help/advice??? Thanks and feel free to pm me if you would like c:

Any advice??

[Zeee]

i just... eh ;n;
yesterday we had the first dance...
it was terrible.
i didn't get asked once,
and sat there at a table watching
all my friends get asked
and watching all the couples.
it sucked.
not that i was expecting to get asked,
but it still upset me...

[MiaMae]

i just... eh ;n;
yesterday we had the first dance...
it was terrible.
i didn't get asked once,
and sat there at a table watching
all my friends get asked
and watching all the couples.
it sucked.
not that i was expecting to get asked,
but it still upset me...

Ohh, sorry about that! School dances can be like that; I often opted to get a group of people to go play laser tag! Guys can be weird, but they never really stop being weird. It'll get better though; my strategy is to focus on friendship. When you get to know someone, sometimes things just end up happening naturally.


And War Paint, that's super cute! From the sounds of it, he really does like you. Maybe he hasn't decided to ask you because of the public pressure, and how it's already a big deal even though nothing's been official. Maybe he doesn't want it to be his performance, but just wants it to be you two without outside influence. Or maybe he's just shy when it comes to romantic interaction. Maybe talking to him about it wouldn't be so bad.
Go get 'em, girl!

[saturday.]

so I really like this guy, and I'd feel a bit weird posting his name for now so I'm just going to call him A. he is so cute! he's really tall, maybe like around 5'7" - 5'9" and he's kinda skinny... he's really dorky and awkward and sarcastic and adorable and he has the cutest face ever and the most amazing green eyes ;v;

but here's the catch.

let's rewind a bit and talk about a different guy I know.

I've liked A since around October of last year, but it was just a small little crush...besides, I already had another HUGE crush on this other guy (I'll call him D) since around June of last year, and when D asked me out shortly after in November, I completely forgot about the mini-crush I had on A.

well, in April of last year, I started to notice A a bit more, and I started to get feelings for him, so I called off a break with D for a little while so I could figure out my feelings. I'm already starting to cringe as I'm typing this because this is where stupidity happens ;~; so, I began talking to A and told him I liked him, and he said he liked me back... and we had this really...really awkward conversation and we ended up talking less and less and I started getting desperate for him and I kept getting my friends to try to get him to ask me out and just...ugh...I was so stupid back then.... I don't know why I did any of that, and I probably scared him..

anyways, around May, I gave up, and I got back with D. note here that my feelings for A still haven't gone away, but neither have my feelings for D. I got back with D because I felt it was the right thing to do and I was already embarrassed after what had happened with A.

I kept trying to talk to A though, and I acted crazy and stupid around him, trying to be funny and cool but in reality I just looked like an idiot, so I'm pretty sure that's what he thinks I am (which I'm not, I've changed so much. just throwing that out there) after a while I just stopped talking to him altogether.

one or two weeks ago, I got into this argument with D because I addressed him about how he would never talk to me anymore, so he told me he needed a break. well, two days later I found out he was actually gay. I was shocked, and pretty upset, and I ended up spilling the beans to two of my friends, and well.... he got pretty pissed, went on this big rant on how he hates me, he never wants to see me again, bla bla bla, he would never forgive me... so, yeah..

so, enough with D. I don't really like him too much anymore anyways, first of all because he's gay, meaning I wouldn't have any type of chance with him anymore, and second of all... A is just... he's just, there... I still like him and I never got over him. and I wish I could tell him or just subtly send the message to him that I changed, I'm not as crazy as I was back in April and in the summer... I mean.... I don't know what would happen if I told him, to be honest. I'm not sure if he still likes me. he hardly talks to me, but when he does it's mainly just small talk, or joking around. I catch him staring at me a lot, and I've noticed sometimes in class, I swear, whenever he make a joke, he looks straight at me as if he's asking for my approval. it's probably just my imagination but you never really know.

sorry for such a long story, I doubt anyone's going to read this whole thing. I know my grammar's kind of bad but if someone could give advice I'd really appreciate it. ;v; how do you think he feels about me?

[Keletheryl]

I was reading on here and I read something about dances? Well, here's my thing. At our school, we aren't allowed to invite people that arent in the school to the dance. And the thing is, my boyfriend graduated last year and now I have nobody to go with. It's going to be really super awkward and ugh.
My friends all have somebody and then there is me. Sitting alone in the corner because oh behold, all the other schools are allowed to invite people, but not ours.
Stupid rich people school.

[Wild.One]

i just... eh ;n;
yesterday we had the first dance...
it was terrible.
i didn't get asked once,
and sat there at a table watching
all my friends get asked
and watching all the couples.
it sucked.
not that i was expecting to get asked,
but it still upset me...

I'm sorry to here about that. The first dance for my school was yesterday too. But my parents don't let me go to dances. I know how it feels to see all these couples and you don't have anyone. *hugs*

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This guy that I was friends with last year and i am starting to be friends with got asked to the dance that was yesterday. I really want to see how it went.(since I didn't go) My friend really wants me and him to be together but it's not going to happen. But I'm glad we are starting to be friends again. When he told people someone asked him to the dance and he said yes but wouldn't tell them who. I asked him and he told me. And all math we kept switching pencils and talking and basically doing the work together. It was fun because his pencil didn't have an eraser so he kept grabbing mine then I would take his then we switched back and then he took mine and so on.
Does it seem like we are becoming friends again? I just need another opinion. Thanks!

[soreii]

Oh man, my mind stopped working today.

So in my last class at school today, there's this guy I really find to be a good friend.
In case you didn't know, i'm VERY socially awkward, except when i'm around friends.

I tell him i'm really awkward and he says words that touch my heart "You aren't socially awkward at all, I think you're a nice person."

Hmm... I don't know what to feel, I already have a boyfriend (I think), and this is the first time someone else talked positively about me.

Suggestions?

[Pikmin12]

Well, there is a boy in my class that I like, and he is really kind, funny, smart, fast...he excels in almost every class. We've been friends for a few years, and only recently have I felt like he is more than a friend to me. Only one of my 3 best friends, other than my crush, knows. One of them because I don't think she'd be too interested and the other because we just became friends this year, and I'm not sure how she'd react, though I'll tell them both eventually. Anyways, I'm not sure how he feels about me, and since we all go our different ways next year, I'm not sure what to do. I'm way to shy to ask him out, and I truely just want him to know how I feel. I don't have the guts to tell him, though I'm considering asking my only friend who knows if they can say something like "Y'know, I think _______ may have a crush on you" and get them to say how he reacts. He may just mask his emotions, and may try to be awkward IF he does like me. If not, It really will be awkward for him . Is it worth a try, or is it too risky? I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I really like him. Any ideas?

I don't think it is too risky, and seeing as it is your last year, I would go with having your friend say that. People these days are constantly putting couples together and saying someone likes this person, so you should not worry too much. (At least that is how it works at my school). How does this boy treat you when you two talk and how does he act around you?

[thewhitefang]

Hey guys, I'm glad I found this thread!
First some basic info about me before I tell you my situation. I am a girl. I am 5'6" and 95 pounds. So yes, I am a small person, and in great physical shape and on the varsity cross country team.

Is it weird that I think a younger guy is cute? He's a freshman, about 5'8" maybe 5'9". I have always liked older guys (not creepy older but like one to three years older.) The boy I liked all of year graduated in June, and I really missed him (and sometimes still do). I didn't really think I would ever find anyone at my school... This guy - the freshman - is on my cross country team which is how I met him.
None of my friends know I think he's cute because I don't want them to know (Don't want it spread around.) I am kinda shy, but I talk to him sometimes. I do not want to be considered a "cougar" for thinking this boy is attractive... Would I even have a chance with him?

[cautiousculpeo]

Please excuse this long message. It basically is about "I know he's flirting, but in what way..."

So me and one of my bestfriends went on this camping trip with our class. (He's a guy)
It was four days long and I slightly picked up on some flirting. The only thing is. He keeps saying he doesn't want to date anybody and so on.
Here's what happened.

1. We were hiking and I was carrying my backpack with stuff in it. I set it down to get my water and he picked it up and carried it, not giving it back even when I tried to take it back.
2. One night we were watching a movie in the main hall we were staying at and at 10 he went to bed. Not ten minutes later he came out, laid on the couch next to me, and tried to take my pillow from me. I wouldn't give it to him so he just laid closer to me and put his head on the pillow beside my head. He also pulled the blanket I was using over and used half of it.
3. We were canoeing and I was shaking the canoe a bit and he decided he would tip it over. We were both in jeans and got soaking wet. He wasent wearing his shirt under his life jacket so he put it on and offered me his hoodie, which I didn't need since I had another jacket.
4. We were staying in like a dorm thingy so we had rooms. I went in his room and we hung out with a few other friends. I was cold so I used the blanket on the empty bed. He came over and sat really close to me and used half the blanket.
5. We has to do this maze thing blindfolded in the dark, and after we had to sit in a big open field and wait for our instructors to come back. I was laying in the field and he came and laid so his shoulders and hips were touching me. So I kinda shuffled over.
6. On the way home I fell asleep on the bus. I guess I fell asleep on him shoulder. So I woke up halfway through and I was laying on his shoulder, his head was leaned up against my head and he was slouched over against the seat so it looked like we were cuddling...

So yeah... If anyone could tell me is he is flirting because he can, and lying about "not wanting to date anyone" or whatever you think would be great. thanks.
(Just saying. I'm not intristed in dating him, I just want to know what he means when he's doing that.)