Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[annakesha]

Well here we go again.
Ive had a crush, on this one guy, for months now. Ever since I met him in my biology class last school year. What sucks is that every time I try to get over him, he does something to make me crush on him even harder. Its like he has this impeccable timing, even though I never say anything. Now he isn't a stranger to me. Over these months, Ive gotten to know him and in the beginning, we flirted all the time. Its like we had this connection....or maybe thats just me. But anyway, right when he found out I liked him, he entered a relationship. I was actually pretty sad, but I just decided to be his friend because he was a really cool guy. They broke up not long after, and it was back to me and him flirting. A lot of girls had crushes on him at that time. When I felt like things were going to look up and that I might have a chance with him, summer begins and he tells me he is dating someone. I was really sad at that point because it had been 4-5 months since I started liking him and my crush on him was getting bigger by the day. Its kind of sad to think I thought about him every day during the summer. Its not like I could help it though. Anyway, school starts and I still have a crush on him, amazingly enough. Then I find out who hes dating. Now this is the worse part, because she's actually a really cool and nice chick and as much as I hate to admit it, they look good together. Augh, it pisses me off that I can't find fault with her because she's been really nice to me too. So now I don't know what to do, because I can't let go, and I can't pursue the crush. I want some advice on how to cope or whatever, since I've tried time again and again to get over him, but I can't. Like last night, I went to a party and he was there too. Now, I can't stop thinking about him and I've felt kinda crappy all day. Oh well. At least we are biffles(supposed to mean best friends for life, but I don't know what it means anymore). What sucks though is that I don't get to see him everyday anymore, because he's one of those friends that lift up my days just by seeing him. In any case, I'd like any advice you have to offer :3 I also just needed a place to rant, because I'm sure my best friend is getting annoyed of hearing about him and I don't wanna worry her with this that much anymore.

[yfish]

I guess I'm prettier than I thought or something?
Like 4 different boys admitted in some way (only one of them directly) that they had crushes on me. The last guy asked me out.
I'm in highschool. I have no clue how to flirt. I usually end up playfully arguing with boys.

And I like this one guy, and I think he finally got over a mildly embarrassing incident from junior high (kid took his lunchbox, he wiped out on gravel, I hunted down kids and scraped my ankle pretty badly). I think he felt awkward that I got his lunchbox while he wiped out.
Anyways, we had a non-awkward conversation on Saturday. He was talking about a TV show, we were talking about stuff. It was only about five minutes long, unfortunately, but it wasn't awkward.
He can be talking to other people five feet away from me, but until Saturday, whenever I joined in he became awkward, quiet, and wouldn't make eye contact with me.
I swear I've liked him for 3 years now.
Do you guys think he likes me back at all?

I think he may like you.
Just my opinion.Itf you want some more advice pming would be helpful.

[fruitbat]

omg omg omg

im dying

I went on a trip with my crush [for sport] and I have liked him for 2 years.
we talked and talked and I cant stop thinking of him.

and then I found out he has a girlfriend.
but that doesn't shatter me, much.

and him and his friends played Q&A and he admitted he liked me, and all
his friends think im "cute" or "hot". this is the first time I have had a crush,
and that other boys think im alright for once.

im just over the moon, I cant wait to see him again <333

[zakki]

omg omg omg

im dying

I went on a trip with my crush [for sport] and I have liked him for 2 years.
we talked and talked and I cant stop thinking of him.

and then I found out he has a girlfriend.
but that doesn't shatter me, much.

and him and his friends played Q&A and he admitted he liked me, and all
his friends think im "cute" or "hot". this is the first time I have had a crush,
and that other boys think im alright for once.

im just over the moon, I cant wait to see him again <333

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Wow, congrats! It's always nice to find out that your crush likes you.
I recently found someone of my own, too, and it just feels nice, doesn't it? <3

[Refugee]

I hate myself! I chickened out on him today...!

Okay, despite what I've said about this guy, Brian (yes, the one I've mentioned in SOOO many posts before. I'm crazy over this guy) Anyways, I'm a guitarist. Its one of my biggest hobbies and sometimes at school its all I ever talk about.

Brian wanted to impress me, so he brought his acoustic to school today.

Then he asked me to stay after school with him alone (10th period, from 2-3) to play guitar with him and show him what I can play, etc., since people say I'm a good guitarist apparently

But, I DITCHED him. I TOTALLY forgot about it and when time came to get on the bus to go home, I realized this and my heart SUNK. I felt so AWFUL. I think I left him in the orchestra room all alone!

So I don't know the words to apologize to him.. and I also think maybe subliminally I chickened out cause the last time I stayed after school with a guy ALONE, he tried to kiss me. So maybe I was recalling that and didn't want that to happen again?

NOTE: Brian and I had a past. We never dated, but we were crushing on each other two years ago... and he knows that, I know that...

So what's wrong with me? Maybe do I still have feelings for this guy? Does he maybe still like me back? Why is it that he wanted me to come down and spend an hour with him alone in the orchestra room with his guitar..? I've know him for five long years and honestly, this boy drives me nuts. Like in a good, frustrating love kinda way.

Please help anyone,
-Kris <3

Nobody likes me enough to help me out..?

[panhead]

i need help, this is unfolding as we speak.... D:

Ok..so guy I like...friends with my guy friends and my guy friends say he's really mean to him (they used OTHER words) and that I'm so stupid to like him.
But he's only like that to his guy friends! He's really nice and funny and amazing to me and my friends.

And now everyone in my group chat is all fussy because of it, my guy friends especially. I'm not happy because their not happy and they want to hurt him. I told them violence is not the answer.

Then I said I was a stubborn person. Yeah, I am. I haven't stopped liking him. And they can't change that. But they still think he is mean and he's no good but he is! He is good!


Now hoe should I end this hateful argument? D:

Please help!!!!!!

[saturday.]

so my ex broke up with me 3 days ago, and today he just came out of the closet and told me he was gay.
how do I feel about this o m g

[GHOSTGUTS]

So after having a crazy crush on this girl for awhile now, last week we started dating.
I'm just really super happy right now because wow she's amazing and stuff and makes me blush a lot.
I'm sorry, this is really stupid but ahhh uvu Shes just helped me through a lot of stuff over the past year and I'm thankful for having her around.

[Pikmin12]

I hate myself! I chickened out on him today...!

Okay, despite what I've said about this guy, Brian (yes, the one I've mentioned in SOOO many posts before. I'm crazy over this guy) Anyways, I'm a guitarist. Its one of my biggest hobbies and sometimes at school its all I ever talk about.

Brian wanted to impress me, so he brought his acoustic to school today.

Then he asked me to stay after school with him alone (10th period, from 2-3) to play guitar with him and show him what I can play, etc., since people say I'm a good guitarist apparently

But, I DITCHED him. I TOTALLY forgot about it and when time came to get on the bus to go home, I realized this and my heart SUNK. I felt so AWFUL. I think I left him in the orchestra room all alone!

So I don't know the words to apologize to him.. and I also think maybe subliminally I chickened out cause the last time I stayed after school with a guy ALONE, he tried to kiss me. So maybe I was recalling that and didn't want that to happen again?

NOTE: Brian and I had a past. We never dated, but we were crushing on each other two years ago... and he knows that, I know that...

So what's wrong with me? Maybe do I still have feelings for this guy? Does he maybe still like me back? Why is it that he wanted me to come down and spend an hour with him alone in the orchestra room with his guitar..? I've know him for five long years and honestly, this boy drives me nuts. Like in a good, frustrating love kinda way.

Please help anyone,
-Kris <3

Nobody likes me enough to help me out..?

I feel the same way, nobody has replied to my latest post either! I will help you!

I believe that you may still have some feelings left for him and vice versa. If you tell hi the honest truth, and how you felt about it I am sure he will forgive you. Also, I recommend asking to reschedule the guitar hangout. About being afraid of spending alone time with a guy, that may be affecting you, but if it truly does end up happening, you can always politely tell him you don't want to kiss him, if that is how you feel. I hope my advice is of use to you!!!

[clarabow]

Meh. You girls are so lucky.

Here's my experience with boys so far:
They either call me ugly, make fun of me, or completely ignore me.
And for those who have actually called me pretty, were nice to me and actually paid some sort of attention to me, the grand total is a *drum role please* zero.

At least I probably broke the record for being the biggest fail at finding love. Ah well. I got used to it.